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I don’t have the money to travel 5 hours to Plymouth to attend my mates funeral. Always the same s~~~. Its £108 return and its also a 30 min drive from the Plymouth train station to get to the church.
I’d have to get accommodation for the night as well.
F~~~ my life. I really wanted go and was prepared to board a train at 5:45am Thurs all suited and booted.
Cant get the money, don’t have the money. Has this ever happened to you guys?
I don’t quite know what to say at times like these, but you really bring the tough stories around.
F~~~ my life
I think you’ll agree, a “f~~~ my life” attitude is not really something you want to take to a funeral, anyway.
Believe me Im not being insensitive, but the time to show your respects was when he was alive. Funerals p~~~ me off, like famous people who die and everyone now GUSHES over them in a self-indulgent ritual, trying to be seen by others, and saying things they never said in person to their face (or behind their back) when they were alive.
I don’t got to funerals for that reason.
They make me angry.No more “f~~~ my life”. OK? For the sake of your mate. That’s a way to pay your respects without needing to be there in person.
I’m very sorry for your loss. Truly.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Sorry you can’t make the funeral, DYD, perhaps you could call and talk to the family before the funeral. Explain why you can’t make it, I’m sure they would be understanding.
Funerals p~~~ me off, like famous people who die and everyone now GUSHES over them in a self-indulgent ritual, trying to be seen by others, and saying things they never said in person to their face (or behind their back) when they were alive.
So true, I just once would like to see someone quoted as “Whoever was a real bitch or bastard (depending on the sex of the deceased) I’m glad they are dead. They were a pain in the ass while alive”
TTW
I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.
I think you’ll agree, a “f~~~ my life” attitude is not really something you want to take to a funeral, anyway.
Believe me Im not being insensitive, but the time to show your respects was when he was alive. Funerals p~~~ me off, like famous people who die and everyone now GUSHES over them in a self-indulgent ritual, trying to be seen by others, and saying things they never said in person to their face (or behind their back) when they were alive.
I don’t got to funerals for that reason.
They make me angry.No more “f~~~ my life”. OK? For the sake of your mate. That’s a way to pay your respects without needing to be there in person.
I’m very sorry for your loss. Truly.
Sorry, didn’t realise i said that in that context, just typed it hurriedly. Figure of speech anyway.
You’re spot on tho about the fake condolences. It was annoying reading all the long gushing posts from girls saying how Edd was always giving them hugs and they perceived him to be a great protector and friend and he was at every wedding etc, all this s~~~, when hes told me he f~~~ing hated most of those c~~~s for using him. All he wanted was a girlfriend/shag/some kind of physical relationship, even a blowjob would have made him happy, but he kept getting friend zoned.
No more “f~~~ my life”. OK? For the sake of your mate. That’s a way to pay your respects without needing to be there in person.
Yeh ok, good reasoning. Thanks man.
Sorry you can’t make the funeral, DYD, perhaps you could call and talk to the family before the funeral. Explain why you can’t make it, I’m sure they would be understanding.
Thanks, yeh i told his sister tonight and she seemed really disappointed, but i dont think she appreciated how far id have to come.
THeres ‘freinds’ of his in the same town as him who cant make it because they wont take a day off.
All he wanted was a girlfriend/shag/some kind of physical relationship, even a blowjob would have made him happy, but he kept getting friend zoned.
Well, if I were his friend, I would have told him to AIM HIGHER. I think he would really appreciate that too.
A man can go through life feeling bad that he’s not handsome, tall, rich or successful enough for most women to want to date or marry… but after a while, that man can throw down and celebrare it
… especially after knowing what you know.
You know, I lost my friend Todd when I was 20. I threw himself in front of a train over a breakup – at 19.
A physical relationship with a woman, a blowjob, or whatever, can be ordered like pizza tonight. For less than a cost of your train ticket. So I REFUSE to believe that was holding him back from being “happy”.
That s~~~ is more available to any man anywhere for less trouble, effort, money and time than any woman would have you believe. A friend would shake him by the shoulders until he understands at least that much.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Well, if I were his friend, I would have told him to AIM HIGHER. I think he would really appreciate that too.
I did KM, hence why we were planning to make films together. He was red pill as f~~~ but wanted to f~~~ badly. I think he faked the nice guy act to try and score some pussy, but he was a genuinely nice guy to both sexes.
Cant get the money, don’t have the money. Has this ever happened to you guys?
Yes, I missed my Aunt’s Funeral early this year.
Go for plan B. Send flowers, cards. Call the funeral home ask them to send you the handouts if they have any. Contact your mates by phone and talk to them. Don’t act like you don’t have any options. You do have options and you should use them. Granted it’s not plan A, but plan B is better than nothing and you might surprise yourself that little effort to mend goes a long way.
Peace Brother.If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
A physical relationship with a woman, a blowjob, or whatever, can be ordered like pizza tonight. For less than a cost of your train ticket. So I REFUSE to believe that was holding him back from being “happy”.
Believe it or not i asked him many times why he didn’t just hire a hooker or two. He never seemed up for it for some reason.
You’re talking to DYD here, I told him how much i despised women and that he should tell the c~~~s to f~~~ off if they invited him to another wedding.
He was too nice for his own good but saw sense in most of my raging rants haha.
He was red pill as f~~~ but wanted to f~~~ badly.
He wasn’t as red pill as you think. If that’s what a man wants… he should STOP being nice to girls in an effort to get them to “like” him more.
I think he fake the nice guy act to try and score some pussy
Thats’ pretty ass backwards and I’m not buying it. You’re talking about PUSSY? Or paying respects to your friend on the day of his funeral??
PUSSY IS WORTHLESS . WAKE UP.
You’re talking to DYD here, he knows I despise women
You don’t despise women. When you say things like “f~~~ my life” you despise yourself more. Perhaps you don’t love yourself enough to change things.
See my signature?
“If you keep doing what you’ve always done….
you’re gonna keep getting what you always got”.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.the time to show your respects was when he was alive.
That’s a way to pay your respects without needing to be there in person.
KeyMaster is spot on DVD and the memories that you have of your friend will be those that you shared when he was alive. The stories will be those of when he was alive. You probably do not want to remember anything about the funeral.
Funerals are for the families and showing them how much the departed meant to you. If you were not close to the family then this gesture is lost on them and not worth the effort to accomplish.
Reaching out individually to those family members, his sister, is also a very respectful and courteous thing to do. U.S. funerals increasingly have opportunities where you can donate to a non-profit/for-profit cause that was important to the deceased. Maybe this would be an option for you in the future.
One of the things that I dislike the most about funerals is that all the attention is immediate. No one contacts the family in the weeks, months, and years after the funeral to help support.
One would assume that a visit a year after the funeral would be more important that one immediately after passing. The people taking the time to do so would be much less but the impact upon the person/family would be much greater.
I also am sorry for your loss DVD and hope that you come to terms with your friends passing soon.
"My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it." - Clarence Buddinton Kelland
Thats’ pretty ass backwards and I’m not buying it. You’re talking about PUSSY? Or paying respects to your friend on the day of his funeral??
PUSSY IS WORTHLESS . WAKE UP.
What are you going on about? I’m just explaining to you what he said/thought when we talked.
He wasn’t as red pill as you think. If that’s what a man wants… he should STOP being nice to girls in an effort to get them to “like” him more.
Maybe not no. But he was well on his way after years of bulls~~~.
You don’t despise women. When you say things like “f~~~ my life” you despise yourself more.
Jesus, you’re like a f~~~ing shrink.
Perhaps you don’t love yourself enough to change things.
Change what exactly? The outcome of outward reaching?
Jesus, you’re like a f~~~ing shrink.
I’m not your shrink or interested being that.
I have never taken that kind of “f~~~ my life” attitude and dont’ even understand it. But Im here trying to understand you more, while offering you SOMETHING useful.
I have no problem leaving you to mourn – but you brought this here.
What are you going on about?
I’m going on about how your friend apparently just want a blowjob to be happy and how TRAGIC the “friendzone” is on the day of his funeral Jesus Christ.
“What are you going on about” — >> is MY question.
• I’m sorry about your friend.
• I’m sorry you despise women as whole because you don’t even see how silly that is.
• I’m sorry for your “f~~~ my life” attitude.I’m outta here. Have better day.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.I’m not your shrink or interested being that.
I have never taken that kind of “f~~~ my life” attitude and dont’ even understand it. But Im here trying to understand you more, while offering you SOMETHING useful.
I have no problem leaving you to mourn.
I get your prose very well KM, but you always end your replies with a kind of self gratifying ending. ” I have no problem leaving you to mourn’ is coded isn’t it? You berated me over not saying the right f~~~ing thing or not saying what you would have done, seeming as everything you do turns to gold.
As for your signature, its BULLS~~~ to say that thats me. How the f~~~ do you change the S~~~ around you when its part of everyones every day life. Digging a hole and going “no f~~~s given’ solves nothing when the likes of me wants to make films which involved other people. Maybe you are not at the end of your f~~~ing rope like some of us here, despite trying EVERYTHING.
I’ve just come back from the other side of the world. I’m hardly doing the same thing over and over.
I get the sense that because you’re in a much better position than me in your ivory tower of mental clarity and wisdom, you are asking me why I can not attain the same?
You berated me over not saying the right f~~~ing thing or not saying what you would have done
It has nothing to do with that. When I don’t like something I FIX it. I move 6000 miles away and I have done it a few times. If I don’t like something about myself I FIX it. I quit my job. I change my apartment. I will dump a friend who is anything less. I kick the girl out. Whatever it takes.
YOU will come here whenever you’re inspired to be “so p~~~ed off” and vomit about the “c~~~s” downstairs who make noise that is so unbearable you can’t take it anymore. And then you STAY THERE.
seeming as everything you do turns to gold.
No… I just refuse to let it turn to s~~~.
Big difference.
I get the sense that because you in a much better position than me in your ivory tower of mental clarity and wisdom, you are asking me why I can not attain the same?
You won’t be hearing from me again.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
Anonymous42lets love life a little more and be grateful we’re breathing.
I just found out my cousin was ran over by a semi riding his bicycle. You never know when you time is up, live moment to moment and be grateful because that’s all we got, here today, gone tomorrow…
You won’t be hearing from me again.
Your choice.
Your choice.
And being miserable is YOUR choice.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.- AuthorPosts
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