Single mom's absolutely love me!! And it sucks!

[singledad984Participant 201]

I just turned 30 and have now been officially a single parent for 3 years this month…great thing is the obvious I receive child support $122 a month and in the state of Texas we have no alimony. Now the bad thing about being a single parent is single mom’s love me and they are pretty much the only females who do…now i dont want to get married or even exclusibely date for that matter but occasionally I like to go out and pump and dump a female..but it sucks bc I can’t get the young 23 year old with the nice tight body bc she doesn’t want anything to do with me bc I can’t party with her every night bc I have a child…but these single mom’s flock to me like wild vultures bc they think “well he takes care of his daughter by himself maybe he wants to take care of my 3 kids also! Sucks bc I don’t trust them at all…everytime one talks to me I automatically assume she a lying bitch who after my money! Just insane little stage I’m in right now has anyone else experienced this?

[Honorable_Juice_BoxParticipant 591]

singledad984 wrote:

Sucks bc I don’t trust them at all…everytime one talks to me I automatically assume she a lying bitch who after my money! Just insane little stage I’m in right now has anyone else experienced this?

Can’t say I have but you are right to not trust them; that gut instinct can literally save your life. You have not only your own life to protect but also your daughter’s; last thing you need is a crazy single mom messing up both your lives.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

@singledad984 do not even consider settling down with one of these parasites……avoid LTR with single mothers at all costs….

that being said, there’s nothing wrong with letting your child hang out with their kids…..

good luck pal

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 42]

singledad984 wrote:

Just insane little stage I’m in right now has anyone else experienced this?

Yup! My relatives (women) tried from time to time to sabotage me with a date, I scrutinize everything they tell me about them until I prove to my relatives what’s the matter with any given one of them. I drop the NO bomb when I hear “single mom”.

They say I’m too picky, I say it’s not a matter of selection and being finicky, It’s a matter of strict standards I will not surrender or compromise. I’m not riding the c~~~ carousel, therefore I see no reason to pay for a riders seat.

I guess I’m old fashioned, we’re not here to assume anyone’s responsibility, only our own as we have something seldom seen, genuine dignity…

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

They see you as a good provider, good father for her spawn. Stay away!!!!!!!

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

singledad984 wrote:

Just insane little stage I’m in right now has anyone else experienced this?

I get attention from single moms all the time as well. 32, no kids…I think they just see I’m a relatively happy guy and not hurting for money so they can’t resist. I don’t know whats worse…the single mom who wants me to play captain save-a-ho or the post waller with baby rabies who would without a doubt try to get knocked up by any guy with a decent job dumb enough to shoot a load in her.

Anonymous wrote:

I guess I’m old fashioned, we’re not here to assume anyone’s responsibility, only our own as we have something seldom seen, genuine dignity…

Right on man. Women just don’t get this. They had a blast riding the carousel for the last 10-15 years and when all the baggage, drama, and bulls~~~ explodes in their face its not my job to make it go away. I’d rather be single than be responsible for another persons mess that they spend years making for them self while I was working hard trying to move my life in a positive direction.

[Anonymous 42]

Beer wrote:

Right on man. Women just don’t get this. They had a blast riding the carousel for the last 10-15 years and when all the baggage, drama, and bulls~~~ explodes in their face its not my job to make it go away. I’d rather be single than be responsible for another persons mess that they spend years making for them self while I was working hard trying to move my life in a positive direction.

High five Beer!
I had a woman try to reenter my life with three kids in tow. It was 24 years ago when she and I were dating (no kids).
Upon meeting her out of nowhere I started to befriend her in a totally platonic way, I wanted nothing from her, my life was all set.
After a while (a matter of months) she tried hugging me and found herself hugging an ice burg as I backed away. That was the last day I saw her as she rejected my hand of friendship while looking for a slave. I’ve learned just how shallow, empty and cold a woman’s heart truly is…

[OrlandoParticipant 833]

Consider carefully how a female arrives at being a single mom. Here is my rough sketch.

1. She allowed herself to get pregnant by a thug, and hence didn’t give a s~~~ about bringing a child into the world without a descent father. She is inherently unstable mentally. She will likely dispose of you when another thug comes along.

2. She allowed herself to get pregnant by a stable man, and hence disposed of him. She also doesn’t give a s~~~ about the child, and she will likely dispose of you in a similar manner.

3. She is widowed. Although this is not her fault, you may be putting yourself in a situation where you are compared and contrasted with her deceased, and expected to live up to her idea of his standards.

Statistically, association with single women with no kids is doomed to failure. Why bother with a single mom?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

singledad984 wrote:

little stage I’m in right now has anyone else experienced this?

Brace yourself the next 6-10 years will reveal more of the same.

30-36 is when I felt like a sudden “target for lock down”.

This is JUST my observation….. but something happens at 40 when your pace slows a bit. You walk slower. Talk slower and less often. Are more solid and grounded. A real “prime of life” happens and the dynamic switches. Women sense this and they are less “pushy”, almost as if they can sense you’re “over it” and it’s tougher to manipulate or get their claws into you. They are more apprehensive.

Just what I have noticed.

“30” for a man is just before he begins to realize his potential.
It’s also just before a woman faces the reality of the wall.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

singledad984 wrote:

Now the bad thing about being a single parent is single mom’s love me

That’s not because you’re a single parent, but simply because you’re a single man with a wallet. And honestly it doesn’t even have much to do with you being single.

Single mothers will go after anything with a wallet. I’ve seen them go after married men with kids of their own, doing everything they can to break up the marriage to get themselves into his pockets.

[Anonymous 5]

Orlando wrote:

Consider carefully how a female arrives at being a single mom. Here is my rough sketch.

1. She allowed herself to get pregnant by a thug, and hence didn’t give a s~~~ about bringing a child into the world without a descent father. She is inherently unstable mentally. She will likely dispose of you when another thug comes along.

2. She allowed herself to get pregnant by a stable man, and hence disposed of him. She also doesn’t give a s~~~ about the child, and she will likely dispose of you in a similar manner.

3. She is widowed. Although this is not her fault, you may be putting yourself in a situation where you are compared and contrasted with her deceased, and expected to live up to her idea of his standards.

Personally, it was No.2 that turned me into a Blue Pill MGTOW for life about 16 years ago.
It wasn’t my own divorce that did it,,,it was a very attractive woman telling me how she felt a bit guilty about leaving her husband who was a great provider, non-abusive, no drug/alcohol or gambling problem,,,and great and loving father to his kids.
She said she left him because she felt empty inside and knew/thought there was something missing in her life.
She was currently being f~~~ed silly by a young Chad who I knew and she thought she had a chance with me next, as a beta provider in a traditional relationship.
This is despite just telling me that she effectively destroyed her Ex’s life on a whim,,,,,,(but she felt sorry for what she’d done,,,,so that makes it ok)
EDIT: My Ex did exactly the same thing to me,,,but I thought we were an exception. I always assumed other men were covering up when they said their wives left them on a whim. It wasn’t till I heard this s~~~ straight from a c~~~’s mouth that I realized the reality.

[BoarParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

This is JUST my observation….. but something happens at 40 when your pace slows a bit. You walk slower. Talk slower and less often. Are more solid and grounded. A real “prime of life” happens and the dynamic switches. Women sense this and they are less “pushy”, almost as if they can sense you’re “over it” and it’s tougher to manipulate or get their claws into you. They are more apprehensive.

That has been my observation as well. I also find it easier to fly below the radar.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Anonymous 11]

It does suck, because they simply suck. For me, it feels kind of like being a f~~~ing cuck.

Good points made by Orlando. I’ve done 1, no kids, and 3 never a case 2.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

RUN RUN AWAY FROM SINGLE MOTHERS ,they want to trap.you

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

I have been seeing in the news about single moms killing their own children. What is to stop a single mom involved with you from killing your child if she decides to go full on nuts? I wouldn’t trust them not only with your child’s life but everything you have worked for. Just pump ’em (making sure you are using an intact condom everytime) and dump ’em and then forget ’em. Your child’s life is too precious to risk it.

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[LurchParticipant 3866]

Keymaster wrote:

30-36 is when I felt like a sudden “target for lock down”.

This is JUST my observation….. but something happens at 40 when your pace slows a bit. You walk slower. Talk slower and less often. Are more solid and grounded. A real “prime of life” happens and the dynamic switches. Women sense this and they are less “pushy”, almost as if they can sense you’re “over it” and it’s tougher to manipulate or get their claws into you. They are more apprehensive.

Well I’m 45 and despite being 6’4″, regularly go to the gym and have a six figure income, I don’t get the flattering attention of women at all. If anything they cringe and skulk away like I’m about to devour them like an apex predator or something.

So I guess the issue is that, as you say…

Women sense this and they are less “pushy”, almost as if they can sense you’re “over it” and it’s tougher to manipulate or get their claws into you.

…they see I’m not one to be manipulated. The irony is that when I was married to my now deceased wife, I was not only her husband but care giver. I would do anything and everything for her, to help get her though her ESRD, mood swings and drug dependencies. If anything I was as blue-pill as you could get during that time. So if I was to get involved again, there is a real possibility of that care giver blue-pull personality re-emerging again.

Maybe my “apex predator” facade is a good thing. Keeps the real predators at bay.

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[AscendedParticipant 698]

Repel these parasites away! They are no good.
They had their chances, they trashed it away and want YOU now into their pits.
Run and don’t look back!

"We are free to follow our own path. There are those who will take that freedom from us, and too many of you gladly give it. But it is our ability to choose – whatever you think is true – that makes us human. There is no book or teacher to give you the answers, to show you the path. Choose your own way! Do not follow me, or anyone else."

[GrumpyParticipant]

I have an older post about my experiences as a custodial father with single moms.
My advice
Keep them at arms length, no commitment, do not help them out, reiterate its for sex only and make sure you that keep that at the forefront.

1. Don’t frigging do it.
2. They think it’s easier to get rid of YOUR child so they can get your resources.
3. DON’T F~~~ING DO IT
4. She will f~~~ your kid up emotionally, in order to get at your resources.
5. did I mention don’t do it?

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I call bulls~~~ about you saying – it happens out of nowhere.
I am 36 and I NEVER had this problem. If I’m out with my daughter or not. That’s because I am not seeking.
Sounds like you’re actively seeking young pussy with no children and single moms see you in the seeking mode and try to steal the limelight. Or that’s because you’re driving a brand new car and wearing expensive clothes.
S~~~ like this never happens out of nowhere. People here who claim it does – are not telling the whole story.
No offence, but I don’t believe you. You’re creating your own problems and then complaining about them
But the good news is that I got a solution for you: stop creating your own problems
But I agree that rejecting all of these single moms could be hard and draining. Wear a shirt – no single moms or something. Not sure what to tell you.
If you’re chasing tail – you’ll have to weed out these single moms – it’s side effect, a price to pay for all your chasing endeavors

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[NewgroundsParticipant 558]

They see how you have your s~~~ together and they want it for themselves because they know they’re miserable, Ignore them and their rugrats

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