Shouldn't MGTOW be closed to outsiders?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

I guess I was just trying to point out that one should not be feared into not speaking his mind here, that is all.

Exactly what I meant as well.

Narcissists are actually afraid of the truth being expressed to them. They prefer to live inside their own heads instead of reality and their prison is a familiar, comfortable zone…. padded with walls of velvety self-deception.

They are not “blocking” others (or reality) out.
They are only locking themselves IN.

I once overheard a woman lecturing a man “you can’t SAY that to a woman”. I couldn’t believe my f~~~ing ears. I turned around and said directly to him “Yeah you can. Don’t listen to her. You can SAY anything you want, anytime you want.”.

He laughed. Because it’s true!

That’s a woman trying to fear-shame a man into believing there are things you can’t say – JUST because she is a woman. I mean, truly. One wonders how women think they are suitable for leadership positions when they are SO THREATENED by a man’s freedom of expression.

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Here is an email we received from a female site visitor a few days ago:

“I recently found out about your group. The whole idea is horrifying. It’s horrifying because I totally get the concept. If I had a Y chrosome I would join MGTOW in a heartbeat. Females in this country are taught that they are the center of the universe. Sex is sex, it’s just an act of pleasure. It is not called “making love” anymore because young women don’t know what real two way love is.
Best of luck to you, I hope your idea really catches on, and that our country gets your message!”
– Name provided but withheld here
New Hampshire

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 24]

Keymaster wrote:

Narcissists are actually afraid of the truth being expressed to them. They prefer to live inside their own heads instead of reality and their prison is a familiar, comfortable zone…. padded with walls of velvety self-deception.

They are not “blocking” others (or reality) out.
They are only locking themselves IN.

I once overheard a woman lecturing a man “you can’t SAY that to a woman”. I couldn’t believe my f~~~ing ears. I turned around and said directly to him “Yeah you can. Don’t listen to her. You can SAY anything you want, anytime you want.”

I grew up with a textbook Narcissist in my life, maybe this is part of why I am the way I am. I have a very low tolerance for bulls~~~ and being quiet about it when I see it is very hard for me to do. This person said that in their childhood they kind of went into themselves from trauma, kind of took themselves away from the world, and this evidenced later in life with their selfishness and commanding intolerance for views outside of their own, especially when directed towards their person. I am much like you in public Keymaster. I see injustice and or bulls~~~ and I more often than not step in. Sometimes I regret that I did so, but censoring oneself is just self imposed fascism likely implanted by many years of social conditioning/fear. F~~~ that s~~~.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Keymaster wrote:

They haven’t even BEGUN to see “radical” pushback from men. And they can pray they never do.

I’m not suggesting we go around confronting people with our ideas. Quite the opposite, in fact, as attempting to engage society in a frank discussion about the role of men and how we are individually re-shaping it for ourselves would be folly.

What I mean is that talking big about the what’s, why’s and how’s of going our own way on this site but then being afraid to have those statements revealed publicly (the purpose of hiding the forums from non-members, I would presume) is hypocrisy, as is not “walking the walk” in our daily lives… e.g. saying here that marriage is a system rigged to entrap men into economic slavery to women but then telling our mothers that we’re “focusing on our career right now before looking for a mate” so as to let her believe we are still on script.

Yes, I’m likening the idea of being secretly MGTOW to being a closeted gay. We don’t have to fling it in people’s faces and throw ourselves a f~~~ing parade, but hiding our truths and denying our beliefs when confronted with them in public (which we increasingly will be) is, to my mind at least, not acceptable.

We don’t need to hide the forums so we can post our anti-gynocracy rants in secrecy… we need to be out in the open so that our thoughts and beliefs can have a chance to compete for survival and grow stronger in the free market of ideas… and not for the good of society but for our own good.

[Anonymous 3]

Keymaster wrote:

We live in a society where SANITY is “radical”.

You are totally right 🙂

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