She "went there"…

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

It looks like it is time to drop the hammer. So the breeder and I had a huge now 5 day long blowout. I admit the argument is just as much my fault, but this time I got sick of trying to go into damage control mode as her subsequent asymmetrical rage follows. So I have been sleeping on the couch in the basement. I will save the long story, but I simply refused to apologize in the bowing manner she wishes. S~~~ kept going downhill until today. We get in a big blowout, and she throws a big family photo at me. It shatters at my feet and glass went everywhere, luckily no cuts though. When I mentioned “uh, that’s assault…” the woman officially turned into a pig, she threatened over and over that she was going to call the police and say I did it. UHHHHHH, NO! Boom that’s it done, the former NAWALT pulled the c~~~ card like all the rest.

So she calmed down and I am in the basement, she wants me out tomorrow and I am happy to oblige. I know she won’t call the cops later, because her ego won’t let her have that kind of scene in front of the neighborhood. She is beyond dead to me, there will be no friendship on any level. I don’t even know where I am going to live but I am at peace, she is spinning like a paranoid hamster…it’s all relative.

Sovereignty above all else.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Sorry to hear about your troubles brother. I hope things work out for you. Get away from this toxic c~~~ and be free. Just know that even living under an overpass is better than co-habitating with a toxic c~~~.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

And the funny part is that I am aware of my own part in the problem. I knew s~~~ was up, and I was loosely planning on possibly getting punted by her. But throwing a picture, and then threatening to call the cops is Stage-4 c~~~ mode. She didn’t do it, but I refuse to kneel under threat. The only downside is that I am going through PT for an injury, not a great time to be moving stuff. Whatever, the dummy has no idea how to fix anything around the house or fix her s~~~box car so she can have fun with that one – a classic woman that will start a project but has no idea how to finish one.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Get away as soon as you can,

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Another funny tidbit is that I have been binge watching Bad Popp all weekend, so I was well primed. The c~~~ started saying s~~~ like she was going to tell the cops to pull me over on my way out of work to have me drug tested, because I have been on painkillers for two weeks and she thinks I am some dope fiend now. She is really that out of touch with reality. #1) It has only been two weeks on a relatively low dose of Percoset a few times a day. #2) just because the label may say “don’t drive” doesn’t mean the cops are going to arrest me when leaving the office. They will literally laugh at her, like they don’t have better things to do than hassle a guy with an injury that took only three Percoset over an 8 hour work day.

Sovereignty above all else.

[OldBillParticipant]

Listen to Buller and get away as fast as you can.

Take a day off from work if you need to, but make sure to take any of the possessions you care about with you. Don’t forget to take away all your financial and other records too.

You mentioned watching Popp. He has a “divorce preparation” video which is must watching for this situation. Naturally, his advice is meant to be accomplished over weeks if not months. You going to have to try and get as much of that down as possible over the next few days.

One final thing; impose radio silence brutally. The next time she tries to contact you, tell her that all communications must be done through your lawyer.

Get a no contact order too and do so before she gets one against you. She threw a framed picture at you, use that incident for your benefit.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[experiencedParticipant]

Yeah, sadly, she may try to kill you in your sleep. I know that’s a bit over the top, but you never know nowadays. The laydeez are all nuts and there is no punishment when they do kill a man.
I’ll take OldBill’s idea even further: Have the NEXT communication be from your lawyer to her, period. And make sure she’s out of her ballistic missile launch distance and photo the glass etc. and get a restraining order. There is absolutely no reason not to. She just GAVE you that “round”.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[the roadParticipant 3125]

Run brother. F~~~ that bitch!

I agree with no contact except through a lawyer.

Buy a body cam or a Go Pro that you can mount on your person just in case. Not sure if she is the type to show up while you’re at work or a place that she thinks there are no witnesses around. Don’t let her have that avenue.

#MANOUT

[ConstantineParticipant 4419]

What a bitch. Take your things and run in the night. And I agree with The Road, it might pay to keep a gadget on you from now on. You just never know when you may need that s~~~.

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

So I have been sleeping on the couch in the basement.

Yeah and another thing, why do women always assume that they get to sleep in the bed?

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

She used to be NAWALT, as in: sweet and agreeable?

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Anonymous 0]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

It looks like it is time to drop the hammer. […snipped]

Yeah, the women get used to ruling the roost. Then one day you stand up to them and let them know that things have gotten out of hand and need to change, and they just can’t stand it. They would rather burn the whole thing down than give an inch. So they cross the line in one form or another.

Anyway, relish the moment and be grateful to her for giving you your walking papers. It’s clear at that point that she doesn’t have your back and never will. Time to get the f~~~ out.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Constantine wrote:

What a bitch. Take your things and run in the night. And I agree with The Road, it might pay to keep a gadget on you from now on. You just never know when you may need that s~~~.

KnightsTemplarRising wrote:

So I have been sleeping on the couch in the basement.

Yeah and another thing, why do women always assume that they get to sleep in the bed?

That’s what I always found strange as well. The man paid for the bed, so he’ll damn well sleep in it every night! Don’t want your man to sleep beside you? Go to the couch yourself, c~~~!

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Well, she didn’t kill me in my sleep. Hopefully will grab some stuff after work. As long as she doesn’t smash my Xbox One, I’ll be needing that!

Sovereignty above all else.

[OldBillParticipant]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

Well, she didn’t kill me in my sleep. Hopefully will grab some stuff after work. As long as she doesn’t smash my Xbox One, I’ll be needing that!

F~~~ the Xbox, brother. It’s well past time for you to get serious.

Take time off from work and start getting your s~~~ together NOW. You need to grab all sorts of documents before she hides or destroys them. You need to get your hands on your birth certificate, insurance policies, bank statements, car titles, mortgage/rental agreements, and all sorts of other similar legal documents.

It’s only once you’ve grabbed the legal stuff that you can start packing up heirlooms, keepsakes, and other sentimental things like your Xbox.

Grab the important things NOW. Talk to a lawyer NOW. Contact the cops NOW. Get serious NOW. Quit f~~~ing around making jokes and wasting time. This is your own life you’re procrastinating about.

Wake up and get serious, brother, before it’s too late.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[BoarParticipant]

Document everything. Make copies of everything financial. Guard your checkbook like Fort Knox. CHECK YOUR CREDIT RATING. I would not put it past any woman to open a dual account card to wreck the man’s credit….

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

leaving the house means you are surrendering it to her. talk to a lawyer first. be smart.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Dirtydog73Participant 232]

Nerevar wrote:

Constantine wrote:

What a bitch. Take your things and run in the night. And I agree with The Road, it might pay to keep a gadget on you from now on. You just never know when you may need that s~~~.

KnightsTemplarRising wrote:

So I have been sleeping on the couch in the basement.

Yeah and another thing, why do women always assume that they get to sleep in the bed?

That’s what I always found strange as well. The man paid for the bed, so he’ll damn well sleep in it every night! Don’t want your man to sleep beside you? Go to the couch yourself, c~~~!

I used up a years bonus to pay for my bed.Cost me $6000 AUD.
Best frikkin bed I have ever had in my entire life.
Aint no way the ex is getting her grubby mitts on it to f~~~ her new boyfriend in……I would burn it before I allowed that to happen.

Fed, Fucked, Appreciated. The three simple things men want, but women will never grasp.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

FunInTheSun wrote:

She used to be NAWALT, as in: sweet and agreeable?

She is fed up with me, which is fine – but threatening to call the cops fradulently is a whole new low that completely took me off guard. Whatever, her over the top BS is only solidifying me.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

She can have the bed. It stinks permanently from her. Especially after she hit menopause.

Sovereignty above all else.

[the roadParticipant 3125]

I agree with the sentiment that you should be talking to a lawyer immediately.

I would talk to the lawyer and discuss filing a claim of assault for her throwing an object at you if the lawyer recommends it.

Anyway, good luck.

#MANOUT

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