Shamed into having children

[IRuleMeParticipant]

trader1913 wrote:

I have no shame, I do whatever the f~~~ I want.

I cant stand children, I cant stand women, even as a blue pill person I never wanted children, which led to a natural reluctance to commit long term to a woman.

Same with me.

Mencken wrote:

The responses are disgusting to me. These people are listing all the negatives to having children in a marriage saying its expensive and your life will be for other people. Living for yourself now is hedonistic and selfish.

Society does not need more children. With dwindling jobs, and overpopulation, the world needs less people populating. Or you’re going to continue to manufacture welfare queens. As the job markets in different countries shrinks, more people are going to end up on government entitlements. Do you really want to bring another person into this world, disadvantaged to add to that statistic simply so you can have a kid? THAT is selfish behavior.

[MenckenParticipant 693]

I have no intention of curing these people. The only problem is they are sending young men into destruction. I messenged this young man because he seemed worth it. All these “successful” parents are completely failing to warn him of the risks and actually encouranging him to not even think about it. Thats why I didnt post any information and simply privately messenged him.

Misogynist - A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.

[MenckenParticipant 693]

This guy isnt even asking why men are walking away. Just blames them for cheating. He says the following:

choosing not to have children is

1) ignoring/discarding a fundamental part of your nature. disregarding ones nature is not something we should do without a really, really good reason.

2) paraphrasing a recent molyneux episode i think : Ignoring/discarding the fact that everyone single one of your ancestors successfully had children going back thousands/milllions/billions of years. Doesn’t seem right to me to just say “nah i dont need to participate”

Misogynist - A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.

[AttonParticipant]

He married his wife under the pretense that neither of them wanted children.

Biology is an extremely powerful force, this guy will have kids. One day the misses will accidental not take the pill for several weeks in a row. Oops the birth control f~~~ed up its totally not my fault.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

VassagoShax wrote:

Now call this my inner cynic, but I have that little nagging feeling in the back of my tiny mind that suspects she fully intended to have kids from the get go and begged off having them just to ensure she gets that shiny ring and champagne reception. Now she gets to call herself a ‘Mrs’, she figures she can bully and threaten him into having kids against his wishes. Colour me surprised

Of course she planned to screw him. Women are cunning and plan these things way ahead of time. The only reason women can do such things is that they are a) very cognitively dissonant and b) in conjunction with ‘a’ they find a way to justify their actions. It comes natural to them.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[bstoffParticipant 4892]

Mencken, you did the right thing by advising him privately. If he hasn’t responded, send him another message encouraging him to talk directly with the wife about the previous agreement and leave the “club” out of their most important family matters.
It’s only a matter of time before the wife gets pregnant. If he’s “lucky” it will be either as a staged “accident” with him or by him ceding to her threats and demands. If he’s not so lucky, she will get knocked up by one of her orbiting betas or a random Chad and convince her Sweety that it’s his baby, and he will be a slave to her and the child for the next 20 years.
I hope he divorces her immediately.

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

Well, in no particular order:

1: tell him about the preggy trap.
2: Tell him about MGTOW
3: Tell him about this site.

After that, let him make his own decisions.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

[1MGTOWSpectator 301]

Children are happiness! The only negative part is that you need a woman to give birth to them.

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

Prefer Peace to Piece wrote:

I suspect she knows exactly what she is doing.
This guy is being played like a violin.
She probably intended to have kids all the while and simply told him what he wanted to hear.
He should cut his losses.

^This.

She would have wanted to have children all along. Her thinking would be that he’d come ’round to the idea after they’d been married for long enough. Remember that women always marry men wanting to change them. Hell, his aversion to kids was probably the first thing that attracted her to him – it would’ve made her think, “Ah, there’s a meaty challenge to work on.” Nothing turns women on like seeing something in a man that they can be the first to alter, or claim to be.

Never listen to anything that women say if you’re unfortunate enough to find yourself engaged. Whatever they want at the time of engagement is either not going to last, or was never there to start with; they just said that it was. This isn’t the first time (and probably won’t be the last) that I’ve heard about a woman demanding a life choice after swearing that she had no interest in it previously. And once again, the man is considered the arsehole despite her being the liar.

I know that I’ve said this before, but if elected prime minister of my own country, my first official act would be to pass a law stating that couples can no longer have children until they’ve passed a series of gruelling tests. Be interesting to see just how keen women would stay on the idea then.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

I can’t tell you how many women I’ve dated who tell me they don’t want kids at the start. It usually takes about 1-2 years before they start trying to have the baby talks.

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