Self worth and it's root

[The Wood RatParticipant 143]

Firstly; just by existing we have value and the only thing need to do to cash in on this worth is exist and the root of self worth issues is that which separates us from our living breathing experience.

How do you put urself down in subtle ways? How do we chose to show up or not show up in this world?
Are we avoiding uncomfortable feeling?
Or are we fixated on emotional content and the stories we tell ourself and other people?

These stories we tell are really just the flowers of a poisonous root.. we can fixate on the flowers and attempt to cut them out like a cancer.. only for these flowers/fruit to grow right back..

We can burden other people with these “stories” and literally suck then energy out of people without being conscious of doing so.

Once again, what do we do with these blockages?

My question for you is what has your suffering given you?? and I’m not talking about symptoms.
What gifts/skills/wisdom has your suffering given you? And if your suffering has given you all these gifts.. then why would you wish your suffering away??

Don’t you see how self worth issues can be the root of any illness/suffering? The violence and self abuse we do to ourself in order to force change or hold fast to denial.

How do we pull up this root of self abuse??
How bout do nothing.. how about make friends with your illness/suffering/conditions instead of forcing more constraints on one’s self

Truly who are you? Well, your not ur car, or your social status, your not your “stories” or your suffering..

Who are you??

Really, ask yourself, who are you?

You will find that things that disconnect us from our external and internal world is what prevents us from being our true selfs, only when we differentiate between the fruits/leaves and the root can we truly be our true self in the moment.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome. Deep.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

BlacqueJacqueShellacque wrote:

Welcome. Deep.

that’s what she said!

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

Blue Skies wrote:

BlacqueJacque Shellacque wrote:

Welcome. Deep.

that’s what she said!

I had to think on how to reply to try prevent BM turning into a joke.

Nice post The Wood Rat.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Duke Togo wrote:

Bayerische Motoren wrote:

BlacqueJacque Shellacque wrote:

Welcome. Deep.

that’s what she said!

I had to think on how to reply to try prevent BM turning into a joke.

Nice post The Wood Rat.

hahaha

seriously tho.

That’s what a modern wife would say right after she meets Chad and before she files her divorce papers.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

BURNED! Good one Bayerische Motoren. F~~~er. 😉

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

Blue Skies wrote:

Duke Togo wrote:

Bayerische Motoren wrote:

BlacqueJacque Shellacque wrote:

Welcome. Deep.

that’s what she said!

I had to think on how to reply to try prevent BM turning into a joke.

Nice post The Wood Rat.

hahaha

seriously tho.

That’s what a modern wife would say right after she meets Chad and before she files her divorce papers.

I cant argue with you on that BM.

[Anonymous 42]

Hey Motoren, you’re on a roll! Got me laughing!

[Anonymous 16]

Im nothing, Im but a minuscule piece of s~~~ in this vast universe full of stars and planets.
My worth? Is nothing.
Even the most inteligent, powerfull, important of humans been is nothing compared to the vast universe.
I deserve your respect becouse you are a piece of s~~~ just like me, women are not special, men are not special. Im not special.
Why all this? couse… why not?
I try to believe this, but find my selft sometimes dreaming about something cool to happen to me… you are rigth, we suffer becouse we think we worth something. But maybe thats necesary to some degree soo we keep strugling… rigth?
If you dont give a s~~~ about anything, maybe you become more happy, but also you migth become homeless, hungry, cold, etc…
I dont know, im just a men who doesnt know s~~~.
Hahahhaa

[BoarParticipant]

The Wood Rat wrote:

Really, ask yourself, who are you?

Good question. It took me a long time to accept that fact that I am an insensitive, cis-gendered pig.

Who are you?

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[HitmanParticipant]

You become the sum total of your experience ‘ s. .
…there’s a lot more to it. .just don’t have time to get into details. …

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Hitman wrote:

You become the sum total of your experience ‘ s. .

i agree 100% with this ^^^

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[BoarParticipant]

Boar wrote:

Who are you?

I just came across your other thread. Excellent advice in both!

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Welcome and your right,self worth comes from within

What I’ve learnt is to make myself my own best

friend unlike most people who seem to be their

own worst enemy.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[The Wood RatParticipant 143]

I’m a big fan of the “everybody is special” movement…

Because then I can say “Nobody is special”! MwahaAha!

Yes, yes we can into the niddy gridies of let’s say quantum physics and talk about the interconnectedness of the universe ect…
But as soon as you point out the big pink elephant in the room (aka the connection between self worth and the human condition) it’s like everybody can hear a pin dropped in the room.

It’s so close to home yet we do everything imaginable in order to run and hide from our true selves and how we present ourselves to the world.

Next to women… a man’s biggest self deception is that of covering up self worth issues in which all of us men have and will continue to experience.

It’s one thing to talk about interconnectedness in which everybody jumps on board.. why is this??
Because it’s empty and anybody can attach whatever they want to it, god, quantum physics, ect.

The truth is we men spend a lot of energy disconnected from ou rselfs and our external environments and refuse to accept that of which is true.

What is true? shrugs, when u drop all of which is false all that is left is truth/the root.

Suffice to say self worth issues usually are the root cause of a man’s life troubles

We all most have to give our selves permission to not self abuse, this can manifest in so many different ways and then there’s getting into all the different ways we mask/hide these manifestation adding layer apon layer

It’s a good topic to bring up because it’s so elusive and multi layered!

[The Wood RatParticipant 143]

Go ask my ex’s : )

I’m probably some kind of mythical dragon creature to them lol

Maybe I’m a misogynist ie. I hate women as much as women hate other women?

[The Wood RatParticipant 143]

Yes, seeing my ex (it’s funny how it’s usually the ugliness woman u f~~~ that steals ur seed) gave me a push to start interacting with men online again, it’s been awhile : )

[Anonymous 16]

AHAHAHA my ex told me
“you are a good men”.
That p~~~ed me off to no end.
Soo if you ask her, she will tell you “he is a good men, a bit negative, but a good men”.

[The Wood RatParticipant 143]

Yes; you can spiral down the center and you’ll find its bottomless.

The question is what you do with it; that’s what counts…

Or do what the woman folk do… they spiral down endlessly into insanity, old age, and *ugliness

To be perfect is to meticulously hide ones flaws which is ugly as hell!

[Anonymous 54]

I have zero worth.My conclusion after years of thought.This is freedom.

And for once my f~~~ing c~~~ of an x wife agrees.

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