Psycho ex returns to create another public scene

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22558]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

I’ve posted about this a few months back but an ex turned up to a social event i was attending last weekend. She tried to initially ‘re-engage in a friendly way – “hi, hi. Hope you have a nice birthday on Thursday (to me)”
I kept it short, polite and civil and tried to avoid her as much as possible. Later she is hovering near to where I’m sitting at the bar, so I go outside. I come back into the main room and am talking to a female friend and she starts accusing us both of “looking at her, that she feels uncomfortable etc” – total lies. Then she confronts me about leaving her ( it’s been 3 months) and not responding to her, that she’s fine with things. I walk off to the toilets and barely say much to her. Whilst I’m gone she sits next to my friend and accuses her of staring at her, that she wants to be friends, that “I” am the one that left her. She concluded her drama show with flirting with another guy, walking off arm in arm with him and hugging him outside because she was so vulnerable and upset.

I’m probably going to have to deal with this bitch again because our social circles are entwined. I’m considering approaching organisers of these events with harassment concerns because this is the third time she’s created public scenes dragging people I know and who have a good opinion of me into it and she’s also targeting women in with at the time. We know how society takes women’s side in these situations but surely at this point people will start seeing her crazy?

She turned up purely to see me again and because she wanted me back. I don’t want to deal with her mind games anymore and just enjoy my life but seems i can no longer be passive if this psycho is going to keep creating drama for attention and sympathy.

Helpful feedback appreciated as full no contact isn’t possible. Cheers.

Nope, you need to un-entwine those social circles. You are asking for something proven to be not possible. Already have evidence its not going to work. You have to do it or you will suffer and she will get worse and start lying to authorities who give no s~~~s about the truth and she will f~~~ your life over. I don’t think you realize how serious a thing you are in right now.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22558]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

TaxGuy wrote:

Amen. Eventually she’ll get the message. And your friends will too.

Your friends will get it when you tell them “she’s crazy.” She, on the other hand, will never understand. Women are pathologically immune to the reflection necessary to understand this bitch behavior.

The only play is to leave the venue. Don’t make a big scene, just walk out. If she tries to stop you or confront you, that is when you say “I’m leaving. Don’t follow me. Yes, it’s because of you. Kindly f~~~ off.”

No, they actually are capable of introspection its just that nothing in society ever demands them to honestly look at themselves and recognize (ie own) they create a large amount of their own problems. Since nothing around them demands they improve as flawed human beings, they see their problems, but then hamster kicks in and rationalizes it off on anything other than themselves.

Its why they cant stand hearing hard truths about themselves or their situations, regardless if men are involved or not. The truth cant be rationalized away and it can often be hard and unpleasant to hear and cupcake doesn’t like that,especially when its about her. Women instinctively regard any critical truth as a vicious personal attack on them.

Think about fights, they say they tell you what they really feel. They use truth bombs as weapons in fights. about the only time you get supposed honesty from them is when they are drama s~~~ testing you in a fight. That is how women regard truth.

So when you tell them a hard truth, that is how their mentality takes it.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[MelkiorrParticipant 200]

Well her s~~~ only work because you are there.

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