Psycho ex returns to create another public scene

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2100]

I’ve posted about this a few months back but an ex turned up to a social event i was attending last weekend. She tried to initially ‘re-engage in a friendly way – “hi, hi. Hope you have a nice birthday on Thursday (to me)”
I kept it short, polite and civil and tried to avoid her as much as possible. Later she is hovering near to where I’m sitting at the bar, so I go outside. I come back into the main room and am talking to a female friend and she starts accusing us both of “looking at her, that she feels uncomfortable etc” – total lies. Then she confronts me about leaving her ( it’s been 3 months) and not responding to her, that she’s fine with things. I walk off to the toilets and barely say much to her. Whilst I’m gone she sits next to my friend and accuses her of staring at her, that she wants to be friends, that “I” am the one that left her. She concluded her drama show with flirting with another guy, walking off arm in arm with him and hugging him outside because she was so vulnerable and upset.

I’m probably going to have to deal with this bitch again because our social circles are entwined. I’m considering approaching organisers of these events with harassment concerns because this is the third time she’s created public scenes dragging people I know and who have a good opinion of me into it and she’s also targeting women in with at the time. We know how society takes women’s side in these situations but surely at this point people will start seeing her crazy?

She turned up purely to see me again and because she wanted me back. I don’t want to deal with her mind games anymore and just enjoy my life but seems i can no longer be passive if this psycho is going to keep creating drama for attention and sympathy.

Helpful feedback appreciated as full no contact isn’t possible. Cheers.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[Anonymous 12]

Helpful feedback appreciated as full no contact isn’t possible. Cheers.

Then suffer until no contact is the only thing left.

[BoarParticipant]

In this sick society and culture, as long as she knows the venue you will be at, you are going to have to deal with her public tantrums. Your intertwined social circles are your greatest vulnerability and her greatest strength.

I encourage you to document each encounter and never be alone with her ever again. It is not being paranoid: if her smear campaign does not work, then she may escalate to bring in law enforcement. Think on it, how much would she enjoy you being led out of a dance in handcuffs?

The best thing you can do is be consistent in telling the truth to all witnesses she tries to drag into this affair. Do not be vindictive, be calm and rational. If you respond tit for tat, then she has set the rules of engagement. Your behavior is the foil by which others will judge her insanity.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Anonymous 42]

Gender Dynamics 101

Modern Female Narcissism;

Men are to be starved for affection, then fed when they start sniffing elsewhere, keeping the leash and harness in tact, and strengthening this dysfunctional transaction and mind prison for the man.

She must feel she still has her leash and collar on you, and the elapsed time between then and now has not computed in her spider web dysfunctional head.

There’s everything wrong with her programming or should I say indoctrination.

Unfortunately most, if not all, modern women have this minor affliction of mental disease with a whole plethora of other mental afflictions.

She was likely raised by a substandard woman, or the father was emasculated.

She was raised without discipline and free to form and mold her mind in the sea of mental disease we see all around us today.

Wanna shine yourself in front of all these people and feel better about yourself, at the same time pitting this f~~~ing spoiled c~~~ in her place?

Next time walk out and leave the moment you see her.

You will also walk out with the respect of every real person in the room.

She’s training you to tolerate her bulls~~~ and feels she can do this every time she sees you, walk away.

It ends when you end it, instead of being her magician that will juggle her s~~~ every time she sees you.

I don’t tolerate women with mental diseases, they also contract physical diseases from being weak willed and weak minded. Kick that feeble minded bitch down the street once and for all and every time she shows up.

She plays her game and you play yours, except there’s peace and tranquility playing it your way by vanishing from her bulls~~~!

You would have had a fantastic story today if you played it the only way to play.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

If you’d don’t HAVE to go to these “events”… Don’t go? I’m not saying be a hermit, but if you can avoid this drama, that may be the best strategy in this particular situation.

Just my 2 cents…

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[bladeParticipant]

Bro you need to get into rap dancing and moonwalk your arse away .

Next time she comes up drop ya sunnies over ya eyes and hit play .

Stop dancing with chicks . Rap dancing . Line dancing . Corrobiry . Stick to that s~~~ .

Or roll tusken then you get free s~~~ as well and dont have to abide by laws .

Dancing your own way bro is cool bro but try the above out .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[AwakenedParticipant 35245]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

I’m probably going to have to deal with this bitch again because our social circles are entwined. I’m considering approaching organisers of these events with harassment concerns because this is the third time she’s created public scenes dragging people I know and who have a good opinion of me into it and she’s also targeting women in with at the time. We know how society takes women’s side in these situations but surely at this point people will start seeing her crazy?
She turned up purely to see me again and because she wanted me back. I don’t want to deal with her mind games anymore and just enjoy my life but seems i can no longer be passive if this psycho is going to keep creating drama for attention and sympathy.

Dating Leads to Relationships

Relationships Lead to Cohabitation/Marriage

ALL LEAD TO MISERY EVEN AFTER THEY ARE SUPOSED TO BE GONE !!

Personally, I wouldn’t approach “organizers” of events about YOUR PROBLEMS.

THEY really don’t want to hear about it, and they will probably choose not to do ANYTHING.

I would just get the word out amongst your “circle” that you are doing everything possible to have an amicable situation in social settings, but for WHATEVER reason she is still CREATING PROBLEMS FOR YOU.

MAYBE, she will over hear the whispers, and be a little too embarrassed to continue her s~~~, or she may go full psycho next time she sees you in which case you’ll have plenty of witnesses for when the police are called, and you’ll have legal documentation to get a restraining order against her, and then you won’t have to see at ANY of your functions ever again.

Are you going to keep “dating” ??

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 54]

F~~~ her Sister.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

…

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 54]

Pick some dude there you dont like.

You know…Chad.

Wisper in her ear that he said he has the hots for her.

Problem solved.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2100]

Anonymous wrote:

Gender Dynamics 101

Modern Female Narcissism;

Men are to be starved for affection, then fed when they start sniffing elsewhere, keeping the leash and harness in tact, and strengthening this dysfunctional transaction and mind prison for the man.

She must feel she still has her leash and collar on you, and the elapsed time between then and now has not computed in her spider web dysfunctional head.

There’s everything wrong with her programming or should I say indoctrination.

Unfortunately most, if not all, modern women have this minor affliction of mental disease with a whole plethora of other mental afflictions.

She was likely raised by a substandard woman, or the father was emasculated.

She was raised without discipline and free to form and mold her mind in the sea of mental disease we see all around us today.

Wanna shine yourself in front of all these people and feel better about yourself, at the same time pitting this f~~~ing spoiled c~~~ in her place?

Next time walk out and leave the moment you see her.

You will also walk out with the respect of every real person in the room.

She’s training you to tolerate her bulls~~~ and feels she can do this every time she sees you, walk away.

It ends when you end it, instead of being her magician that will juggle her s~~~ every time she sees you.

I don’t tolerate women with mental diseases, they also contract physical diseases from being weak willed and weak minded. Kick that feeble minded bitch down the street once and for all and every time she shows up.

She plays her game and you play yours, except there’s peace and tranquility playing it your way by vanishing from her bulls~~~!

You would have had a fantastic story today if you played it the only way to play.

If she turns up at the next one walking out is exactly what I intend to do. I also intend to be upfront with my social circle about her entitled, childish behaviour.

Anonymous wrote:

Pick some dude there you dont like.

You know…Chad.

Wisper in her ear that he said he has the hots for her.

Problem solved.

I agree – once the claws are in another dude it should be easier. She can’t keep a man it seems though for any length of time. Seen a lot of other guys white knighting for her too.

Thanks for the responses…

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2100]

Awakened wrote:

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

I’m probably going to have to deal with this bitch again because our social circles are entwined. I’m considering approaching organisers of these events with harassment concerns because this is the third time she’s created public scenes dragging people I know and who have a good opinion of me into it and she’s also targeting women in with at the time. We know how society takes women’s side in these situations but surely at this point people will start seeing her crazy?
She turned up purely to see me again and because she wanted me back. I don’t want to deal with her mind games anymore and just enjoy my life but seems i can no longer be passive if this psycho is going to keep creating drama for attention and sympathy.

Dating Leads to Relationships

Relationships Lead to Cohabitation/Marriage

ALL LEAD TO MISERY EVEN AFTER THEY ARE SUPOSED TO BE GONE !!

Personally, I wouldn’t approach “organizers” of events about YOUR PROBLEMS.

THEY really don’t want to hear about it, and they will probably choose not to do ANYTHING.

I would just get the word out amongst your “circle” that you are doing everything possible to have an amicable situation in social settings, but for WHATEVER reason she is still CREATING PROBLEMS FOR YOU.

MAYBE, she will over hear the whispers, and be a little too embarrassed to continue her s~~~, or she may go full psycho next time she sees you in which case you’ll have plenty of witnesses for when the police are called, and you’ll have legal documentation to get a restraining order against her, and then you won’t have to see at ANY of your functions ever again.

Are you going to keep “dating” ??

Yes it it gets too bad I will indeed consider a restraining order.

Good advice

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[Anonymous 42]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

If she turns up at the next one walking out is exactly what I intend to do. I also intend to be upfront with my social circle about her entitled, childish behaviour.

By adopting that attitude and engraving it into your personality you’ll avoid living through countless bulls~~~ situations.

Why?

Because you’re not there, you chose to cut the bulls~~~ short, nipping its development in the bud. Let someone else deal with all the pin-less hand grenades!

[iMickey503Participant 12468]

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Walk away. It’s the only move you have. If you’re at a public venue like a bar with friends, just tell your friends your crazy ex showed up and you’re going to another bar. Invite them to follow. Problem solved.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[TaxGuyParticipant]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

Walk away. It’s the only move you have. If you’re at a public venue like a bar with friends, just tell your friends your crazy ex showed up and you’re going to another bar. Invite them to follow. Problem solved.

Amen. Eventually she’ll get the message. And your friends will too.

Ask yourself why you are still friends with people that put up with her toddler behavior. They should tell her to cut the s~~~ or she won’t be invited anymore. Life is too short to put up with that bulls~~~.

Good luck brother.

Order the good wine

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

We know how society takes women’s side in these situations but surely at this point people will start seeing her crazy?

Not likely to happen. Women are naturally much more machiavellian than men and you may not realize it but she is just doing what is natural to them in those kind of situations – ostracize or be ostracized.

She is at war with you, make no mistake, unable to deal with rejection. Of-course it is just great when she is dealing the rejections. Bottom line, if you want to stay in this social circle you have a huge problem. She will not stop.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

JustAnotherGuy is correct. “No Contact” with your ex- is the obvious option, otherwise you are only inviting trouble for yourself. If she turns up wherever you are, avoid her or make some excuse and leave the venue; it is simple enough to understand/obey. She will keep trying to involve/provoke you, because that is what women do; they are like eternal children. So, you need to cut-off all of her opportunities to involve/provoke you. It is your choice.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22608]

TaxGuy wrote:

men. Eventually she’ll get the message. And your friends will too.

No. She will not get the message.

I have been unfortunate to have known people in my life that got mixed up with such c~~~s. They are psychos. I mean that literally. They are psychopaths. For her, it is all about “me, me, me”. She will make it her life’s mission to ruin the lives of the men she dumps, especially if said men dumped her. And this twisted society will reward her for doing so.

If I had the means, I would be very tempted to become a hermit, because there is no reward for the sane and responsible in this society.

The only real solution is for society to be destroyed, either through collapse, or revolution. Until then it is more of bide your time and have as little as possible to do with society.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

Amen. Eventually she’ll get the message. And your friends will too.

Your friends will get it when you tell them “she’s crazy.” She, on the other hand, will never understand. Women are pathologically immune to the reflection necessary to understand this bitch behavior.

The only play is to leave the venue. Don’t make a big scene, just walk out. If she tries to stop you or confront you, that is when you say “I’m leaving. Don’t follow me. Yes, it’s because of you. Kindly f~~~ off.”

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

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