Possible Unicorn? Or just lucky, lucky guy?

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

I can’t help but think I really missed the boat on this one.

Back when I was 18, I met a girl in Fort Lauderdale, Florida on spring break.
Even though it was only for a few days, I honestly think it was love. But back then there was no internet or facebook or anything. So we never stood in touch.

Fast forward to a year ago, we were both 41. I found her on facebook and she was so happy to hear from me. She said to me it is too bad I did not contact her just a month earlier. She has a serious relationship with a guy now.

Her story is that she was living with a guy who gave her a baby boy. She was living with him for 10 years. According to her he was abusive, not physically but verbally. Treated her like yesterday’s garbage throughout the 10 years. But had 100 acres of land in rural Nebraska. and of course she “loved him.”

But she had enough and moved out. She met a guy online in Florida. He has a very good job, has good money, his own house near the beach. She still lives in rural Nebraska but she flies out and visits him every weekend. She had a good job as a physical therapist.

She looks damn good, is really into fitness and paleo dieting and all that sort of thing. She always had such a strong sexual appetite and seems to still have it more than ever now.

I can’t help but think that this is the luckiest somabitch on the planet. He only sees her on weekends and occasionally she will come out to him for a week vacation. She gets a lot of vacations with her job, luckily for her.

This guy is so lucky. That guy could have been ME. However, there is no way that guy could be me because 1. I earn lousy money and would not have a pot to p~~~ in if it weren’t for my parents. 2. I am not an Alpha. She does not go for Beta’s and I am definitely a Beta.

I am angry at myself because if I had a high paying job and if i were an Alpha, she would be mine.

She even said that what we had on Spring break 20 plus years ago was definitely love. She was very sad when I went home. I just can’t help but envy this guy and wish I could be him.

I know, this is not very MGTOW’y of me. Did I miss out on a unicorn? A one in a million unicorn?

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

You literally just pointed out every single AWALT aspect and then asked if she’s a unicorn.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

She said to me it is too bad I did not contact her just a month earlier

This raised the red flag for me. The f~~~, this is manipulation tactic to turn you into orbiter.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[narwhalParticipant]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

Her story is that she was living with a guy who gave her a baby boy. She was living with him for 10 years. According to her he was abusive, not physically but verbally. Treated her like yesterday’s garbage throughout the 10 years. But had 100 acres of land in rural Nebraska. and of course she “loved him.”

This is not unicorn behavior. In order to be a unicorn, she would have to demonstrated solid behavior.

It sounds to me like you’re disappointed you missed out on a good time, and maybe you did. However, if you think the guy she is with has it good, then see what happens when he loses his job. See what happens when she starts pressuring him to marry her and be her boy’s new Daddy.

Ok. Then do it.

[DwightDavidParticipant 859]

How many times has he paid the airfare? I obviously don’t know for sure, but I suspect you are the lucky one.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Jackinov wrote:

You literally just pointed out every single AWALT aspect and then asked if she’s a unicorn.

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I am angry at myself because if I had a high paying job and if i were an Alpha

If my dick was 4 inches longer – If my car was a vet – If I could put her on my home deed – If I could make her a dependent on my 401K
When does it end??

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

I’ll just say this bluntly. She’s full of s~~~ and using you as an orbiter.

She chases Chad c~~~, you’re not a Chad.

1 month makes the difference between serious relationship and single?

Single mother

….. in summary, she’s still riding the carousel guzzling cum, dragging along her kid, and playing you for a bp fool. Unicorn alright, with its horn chopped off and shoves repeatedly in all its orifices for the past 20 years before parading herself to you.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[hansmolemanParticipant 194]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I can’t help but think I really missed the boat on this one.

Back when I was 18, I met a girl in Fort Lauderdale, Florida on spring break.
Even though it was only for a few days, I honestly think it was love. But back then there was no internet or facebook or anything. So we never stood in touch.

Fast forward to a year ago, we were both 41. I found her on facebook and she was so happy to hear from me. She said to me it is too bad I did not contact her just a month earlier. She has a serious relationship with a guy now.

Her story is that she was living with a guy who gave her a baby boy. She was living with him for 10 years. According to her he was abusive, not physically but verbally. Treated her like yesterday’s garbage throughout the 10 years. But had 100 acres of land in rural Nebraska. and of course she “loved him.”

But she had enough and moved out. She met a guy online in Florida. He has a very good job, has good money, his own house near the beach. She still lives in rural Nebraska but she flies out and visits him every weekend. She had a good job as a physical therapist.

She looks damn good, is really into fitness and paleo dieting and all that sort of thing. She always had such a strong sexual appetite and seems to still have it more than ever now.

I can’t help but think that this is the luckiest somabitch on the planet. He only sees her on weekends and occasionally she will come out to him for a week vacation. She gets a lot of vacations with her job, luckily for her.

This guy is so lucky. That guy could have been ME. However, there is no way that guy could be me because 1. I earn lousy money and would not have a pot to p~~~ in if it weren’t for my parents. 2. I am not an Alpha. She does not go for Beta’s and I am definitely a Beta.

I am angry at myself because if I had a high paying job and if i were an Alpha, she would be mine.

She even said that what we had on Spring break 20 plus years ago was definitely love. She was very sad when I went home. I just can’t help but envy this guy and wish I could be him.

I know, this is not very MGTOW’y of me. Did I miss out on a unicorn? A one in a million unicorn?

What the bloody f~~~ is this s~~~, and why does it get posted to MGTOW central.

[Anonymous 25]

Saying she was in an abusive relationship is a red flag right there.

She was probably pushing his stress levels to get a response and make him shout. The hallmark of a female abuser. Either way, she is someone who gets into abusive relationships, so that’s a stay clear.

I would bet money her kid hardly got to see his dad. That’s another hallmark of an abuser. It’s about the women having complete power and control.

You’re looking at it through rose tinted spectacles.

The only way you can really judge a woman in those situations, is to know how long your honeymoon period is. Then wait to your honeymoon period is over and you will start to see the real person. Sexual attraction is an emotionally charged state, it makes humans stupid. Human’s don’t make good decisions when emotions are high, because it shuts down the higher cortex.

That’s what women pray on to manipulate men into marriage and cohabitation then steal all their money. Now that men have figured it out, we’re getting one up on nature.

[Anonymous 1]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

According to her he was abusive, not physically but verbally. Treated her like yesterday’s garbage

Well it must be true then.

Seriously, this is the oldest trick in the book.

You can be the guy who becomes the next false abuser if you really believe that s~~~.

I’m amazed you even found this site with that type of thinking.

Wake up.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I know, this is not very MGTOW’y of me. Did I miss out on a unicorn? A one in a million unicorn?

This isn’t April 1st, but please tell us all you’re joking. If you’re not joking, you NEED to READ a lot more, and for your own safety stay away from any women for the time being.

I re-read your post in its entirety, you have to be putting us on.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Or just lucky, lucky guy?

this should say unlucky, unlucky guy?

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[OldBillParticipant]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I found her on facebook…

Get off Facebook.

… and she was so happy to hear from me.

Of course she was. She’s a post-Wall skank with Chad’s womb turd and no prospects. Then, some guy she had brief, yet, intense fling with during her c~~~ carousel days shows up out of nowhere. It was like finding a lottery ticket.

She said to me it is too bad I did not contact her just a month earlier. She has a serious relationship with a guy now.

Oh Christ… you didn’t believe that s~~~, did you? You haven’t seen her for over twenty years and she just happened to start a serious relationship a month earlier? Pull my other leg, it has bells on it.

As Jackinov wisely points out, this broad is the AWALT poster child.

This guy is so lucky. That guy could have been ME.

Wrong.

If that guy really was lucky, he would be you.

He’s not lucky. Instead he’s got some well-preserved, post-Wall, divorced, skank slowly setting her hooks and reeling him in. He was lucky, he’d be you and shed of her.

Do really think some whore is paying to fly between Nebraska and Florida on her own dime every weekend because she’s in love? Women don’t want to pay for anything. Hell, they won’t even tip. But you believe her story?

I am not an Alpha…

Drop the Alpha/Beta s~~~ right now. That’s PUA pussy beggar talk. That’s s~~~ women use to shame men. Don’t ever refer to yourself in those terms again.

She even said that what we had on Spring break 20 plus years ago was definitely love. She was very sad when I went home.

Of course she said that. You’re a lottery ticket she found on the sidewalk and she’s scratching off the numbers to see if she’s got a winner.

Did I miss out on a unicorn?

You missed out on a life sentence and you’ve missed out on the meaning of MGTOW. Tour the site again and do some more reading. There’s a reason you’re here and you’ve seemingly forgotten it.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Anonymous wrote:

Saying she was in an abusive relationship is a red flag right there.

Oldest dodge in the book – rescue me.
Only you can make it all better (if you give her all your s~~~ and go away).

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 1]

This deserves some sort of award for the most blue pill topic I have ever f~~~ing seen on this site.

[Anonymous 6]

You didn’t miss out on anything, you were spared from a whole pile of steaming s~~~, shes no unicorn just a good chameleon and you should be patting yourself on the back for having dodged it.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6408]

Imho .. there is no such thing as earning lousy money. Put away a few dollars here and there whenever possible and soon you will have more of a nest egg than most around you. Most everyone eventually lives beyond their means; in other words, driving by the big houses with the manicured lawns, the two or three cars, the house, the wife and all her needs .. so many are still living pretty much and pretty dangerously paycheck to paycheck. So, as I truly believe .. sock away what you can whenever you can, sell some things that you don’t need anymore .. live simply (you don’t need to become a true miser like me).
..as far as the girl, I have no advice .. as I have been avoiding all kinds of relationships for decades.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

^ lol @joller984. And it’s not like he’s a FNG (fcking new guy) either. He’s been around for 1.5 years

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

dude.

she stayed with an abusive guy for 10 years. She only left him when she found this,”Great guy” with a good job, good money, and a house near the beach. Also, if he’s so “great” how come she’s flying down to meet him instead of being there, or him with her? And she has a kid? (Wild guess. Chad ain’t paying for it.) Avoid this one man. This time, The disguise isn’t even good. I’m betting by summer next year she’ll be married to this “great guy” and not long afterward, he’ll be a no-good whatever kinda so-and-so that she had to divorce. well, she’ll still have his house, her kid, and you’ll be looking at him like a guy watching the city bus he just missed getting hit by a meteor. Both of you will be all bug eyed and saying,S~~~!!! That coulda been ME!!” If the chances of getting raped in divorce court were as slim as getting hit by a meteor, more people would be married. Unfortunately, they aren’t. I’m staying MGTOW until death or better days.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

~BS wrote:

^ lol. And it’s not like he’s a FNG (fcking new guy) either. He’s been around for 1.5 years

They can do that to you, to me it looks like she is manipulating her agenda through guilt (wow boy, why didnt you catch me one month ago, wow boy, why are you “beta with no money”, wow boy, i really dig you, just orbit me and you will save me one day, etc). This s~~~ i was exposed to for years and it is a direct attack on your psyche though invoking guilt which is horrible mental state. And once you are there you are in her hooks.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

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