People getting annoyed, even angry when you mention not wanting children

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

It’s funny to me because while a lot of dudes in the younger crowd COMPLETELY understand the state of the relationship between men and women, there are still quite a few that can’t get it through there heads that people don’t have any sort of “responsibility” (which is their first argument), to have children.

The second argument they pose is “don’t you want to pass on your genes, your family name”, and when I give the answer that no, passing on the family name and genes is more of an ego stroke as far as I’m concerned- that it is not important to me in the least they claim that it’s some sort of “defeatist attitude”.

What they tend to say in a last resort is “You can’t say that right now, you don’t know what will happen. You could find the most awesome woman, etc”.

My response to that is that I don’t, and will never “fall wildly in love”. Falling in love and doing something stupid demonstrates a weak, flimsy mind. Just like I can decide to wear either a red shirt or a black one, I can and have made that decision- and it’s not that hard of a choice.

Regardless, these types of people always get annoyed, mad even, at seeing someone who decides not to make that choice. I mean, if they want to have kids, good for them, that’s their decision, but they don’t seem to understand that they have absolutely no position to get irked at someone else for not choosing to.

One particular gentleman got so worked up, he began yelling about how “that’s not proper” and other assorted s~~~- and I told him “what are you going to do about it?- NOTHING. Your opinion about what I should do means nothing!”.

They can never tell you why they are actually angry, and I believe it’s really due to jealousy of your freedom of choice, and the fact that you aren’t patting them on the back, reaffirming something they are doing because they were told to do. I think the angriest ones are simply angry because you refuse to be a slave to the same group-think that they have decided to let control them. People generally seem to expect you to let society control at least some aspects of what you are directed to do, and the responsibilities you undertake out of some misdirected sense of “giving back and being an adult”, so when you, as a “Real Man” do whatever the hell you want, as a true man does, it bothers them since they don’t have the b~~~~ themselves to try it.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Maybe they’re jealous of your freedom? I’ve also never felt the urge, though I am aware many people do, and I’m not shaming them for it. These are the men who are hurt the most by gynocentrism because it is very hard to make their dream a reality in the current environment.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[AussieParticipant 2509]

Q. ” do you have any kids? ”
A. No, I have a life instead.

F~~~s them up every time.

" I feel threatened "

[Anonymous 54]

I have never had the desire for kids.
I have no reason or explanation other to say I just dont.

I had a Stepson for a while, it was great.

Dont give two flying f~~~s what anyone thinks about it.

[sidecarParticipant 35842]

Most of those people are those “muh white babies” wannabe nazi s~~~heads.

Their opinions don’t matter.

[SkelatorParticipant 1261]

Misery loves company.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Yeah, usually I don’t even entertain this trash, but once in a while, I like seeing the best they can do in their argument, which is never very good, since their whole main point is “just because you’re supposed to”.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Jackinov wrote:

They can never tell you why they are actually angry, and I believe it’s really due to jealousy of your freedom of choice

You called it mate. Most of the time it’s JUST THIS.

– Much like being ridiculed for being single.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[UnKnownSurvivingParticipant 173]

Jackinov wrote:

“don’t you want to pass on your genes, your family name”,

It’s stupid. There is nothing spectacular about me, except my goals. Nobility is mundane. You are equal like everyone else. You came from your mother’s womb, who told you YOU ARE SPECIAL. It is my experience that mothers will say that to their children. Fathers knows reality better than the mother, because she doesn’t teach them to be sharp or on tack, like the father. Children need to be taught by their father not their mother. Probably why we have idiots think that their blood is special, mainly because their mother told them so, they grow up to be useless mothers, and fathers, uncle, or whatever.

You are not special. Nobility is mundane. Everyone bleeds, and return to the dust.

"I come in Peace. I didn't bring Artillery. But I'm pleading with you with tears in my eyes, if you fuck with me, I'll kill you all." - Gen. Marine Mattis Mad DOG

[SkelatorParticipant 1261]

A lot of people have kids to save the marraige, start a marriage or make them happy.

Having a kid will do none of those things.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

I love my son and he is my world. He’s just about grown. 18 in one month. But I love telling people I’ll NEVER do it again.

“what if you meet the right girl?” or don’t you want a daughter?”

HELL NO! They look at me like I have two heads. They just don’t get it.

It’s hilarious! The funny thing is, most women with multiple kids WISH they had a” second chance” while the simps are mad you didn’t imprison yourself.

#ICETHEMOUT
#MANOUT

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[AwakenedParticipant 35206]

Just tell them that You are waiting to find the RIGHT WOMEN before having kids, and then walk away grinning and laughing.

No Need to get into it with people that will NEVER Get It !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[MusclecarGolferParticipant 637]

I have two responses depending on who I’m talking to and where I am (work purposes mostly):

1. This one is lengthy, comprehensive, articulate, and polite.
2. This one usually says, “I’m only looking out for one person…this guy (points at self).”

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Awakened wrote:

Just tell them that You are waiting to find the RIGHT WOMEN before having kids, and then walk away grinning and laughing.

No Need to get into it with people that will NEVER Get It !!

^^^^ THIS. Just tell them you’re waiting for the right one. Gets ’em off your back every time. Also works for “why aren’t you married/why don’t you have a girlfriend?”

They don’t deserve any further explanation.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[SwimcatParticipant 3599]

Tell them like anything involving women the risk is not worth the reward.

Women just don’t see the risk involved. Mangina’s, Simps, and White Knights are dirt. Their opinions mean no more than a dogs would.

[FragmentedParticipant 2758]

I love how they channel their hatred of me, in a way that they think makes them look good.

Do you have kids ?

Nope

Oh you poor thing, just haven’t found the right one yet ?

Nope, i’m a lone wolf

Awww don’t worry, you’ll find someone eventually

They think we can’t see right through this bulls~~~ HAHA … morons i tell you.

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[ZerenityParticipant 500]

At the end of the day your still dead and alone in the graveyard

God grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change: Courage to change the things I can: And Wisdom to know the difference. -Reinhold Niebuhr 1951

[Admiral CrunchParticipant 776]

As for women who bring their babies/children to work…it is best for men who are MGTOW to stay as far away from them as possible, and to definitely do not interact with their brood, or even acknowledge their existence as these moms seem to view unmarried men without children as “creeps” at the very least

Women do not love men. Women only love what men can provide.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6414]

I don’t want to pass my genes, genetic traits or haircolor to anyone. the end.

[WallyParticipant]

Excellent post and I have no arguments in my own life I don’t tell people I don’t want kids, just for me it would paint a target on my back but my circumstances may be different.

When Someone try’s to set me up with a woman or single mother, I simply tell them I don’t have time and list off the things I am doing and their heads spin and they let it go. The thing that helps also is I word these activities I am doing as if they are helping someone or something else even my hobbies and they have no argument. I didn’t realize it but one of the people I supervised for 10 years told me I explain things to people in such a way that they think it’s their idea, one of the skills I guess I developed from working with women for 20 years.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

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