Paternity testt 13 years later? Should I verify?

[.50calParticipant 62]

Long story short….My girlfriend thinks my daughter looks a lot less like my two boys. I got my ex pregnant on accident when I barely knew her and I have no doubt she could have lied to me that my daughter was mine in order to lock me in. I now how full custody of my three kids but I’m wondering if I should or shouldn’t do a paternity test?

So then, he who marries the virgin does well, but he who does not marry her does even better. 1 Corinthians 7:38

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

NO—if it ain’t broke don’t fix it.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

PistolPete wrote:

NO—if it ain’t broke don’t fix it.

Agreed. You’ve got full custody? Just be a good dad to your kids. The past doesnt matter.

#ICETHEMOUT

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

PistolPete wrote:

NO—if it ain’t broke don’t fix it.

Yes do it, my reasons:

1) it’s broken from start.
2) you have the right to know, and admit it YOU HAVE THE NEED TO KNOW.
3) the kid has the right to know who the real father is.
4) medical reasons.
5) facts trump feelings, this is the real world.
6) is your life, do as you must, if after knowing is not your child you decide to be a Good Samaritan is your call, explain to you kids why it happened, how it happened.
7) living in a world of deception is what made us the crap we are today, break the cycle, is time to stop.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22564]

May not need one. You may be able to tell if you know everyone’s blood types. Some child blood types just cannot happen with the parents blood types. So you may not even need to go that far.

If its going to keep bothering you, and the blood type doesnt rule it out, get it done. Stealthily.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

SH3LLZ wrote:

PistolPete wrote:

NO—if it ain’t broke don’t fix it.

Agreed. You’ve got full custody? Just be a good dad to your kids. The past doesnt matter.

#ICETHEMOUT

False, the past is everything, the truth will teach your kids not to be victims in the future

“the men who doesn’t know his past is bound to repeat it”

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

Carnage wrote:

PistolPete wrote:

NO—if it ain’t broke don’t fix it.

Yes do it, my reasons:

1) it’s broken from start.
2) you have the right to know, and admit it YOU HAVE THE NEED TO KNOW.
3) the kid has the right to know who the real father is.
4) medical reasons.
5) facts trump feelings, this is the real world.
6) is your life, do as you must, if after knowing is not your child you decide to be a Good Samaritan is your call, explain to you kids why it happened, how it happened.
7) living in a world of deception is what made us the crap we are today, break the cycle, is time to stop.

I agree with everything Carnage says. Now is not the time though. HOWEVER, If you must do it. Wait til shes 18. Dont do it now while shes still a kid.

Kids are innocent in these situations. Ultimately you have to make the choice yourself but just remember this doesnt just concern you alone. Tread carefully.

#ICETHEMOUT

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

May not need one. You may be able to tell if you know everyone’s blood types. Some child blood types just cannot happen with the parents blood types. So you may not even need to go that far.

If its going to keep bothering you, and the blood type doesnt rule it out, get it done. Stealthily.

Sorry but taking into consideration most people is A+, that’s a false negative.

Only if the kid is a weird group migth make sense, but if one of the parents is A, AB, O, s~~~ gets f~~~ed up. Is a mess.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

By some miracle you have custody and aren’t under any support order. At this point a DNA test wouldn’t change anything. You raised her. She’s yours. What would you do if the test came back negative? Unless you need a bone marrow transplant or something like that for her, I wouldn’t bother.

.50cal wrote:

My girlfriend thinks my daughter looks a lot less like my two boys.

Of course she thinks that. Women always like to see other unrelated females pushed out of the nest. It means more for them.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

You can sometimes if a child is possibility the offspring of two persons from blood type. There are a lot of websites that show how to tell if a child of one type can be from parents with a specific blood group. The complication is that if a third person is involved with the same blood type, it may lead to the same conclusion. So, it is only a possible preliminary step.

[JVBParticipant]

1-yes you should
2-your girlfriend could also be jealous of the attention you daughter gets.

Peace is > piece.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Dude if you need to know, you need to know, STOP DOING THE “I THINK IS THE RIGHT THING” THING.

Is what got us here in the first place, DO WHAT MUST BE DONE WHEN SOMETHING IS WRONG.

That’s what got us here too late, “I married here because was the right thing to do, I could not abandon her, marry and have kids, BE A MEN”

F~~~ all that s~~~, if you have doubts do it, it will come out anyway one day and don’t even expect an “thanks you for raising me”

Wake up guys, world ain’t a pretty place, that’s why we here.

The kids? F~~~ the kids.

But that’s just me I guess. REMEMBER IM A MONSTER.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

By the way if you have doubts there is more than a 50% chance she is not yours, and that increase the risk the other ain’t your either.

Sorry but you know is true.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 43]

child thinks you are daddy, why f~~~ with an innocent child like that. that is some cruel s~~~.

If she isn’t yours, do you throw her away? Really after 13 years? You really want to go there?
What do you hope to prove?

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Here is a website that gives the blood types of the parents and the possible blood types of their offspring. It may help to decide if you need to test genetically.

https://canadiancrc.com/Paternity_determination_blood_type.aspx

[WPLParticipant 2393]

I’ll side with the “don’t do it, at least not until she’s grown” opinion. Unless you need to know for medical reasons, what difference does it make now (I’m not asking this to be a smartass — I’m asking it as a real question)?

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Anonymous wrote:

child thinks you are daddy, why f~~~ with an innocent child like that. that is some cruel s~~~.

If she isn’t yours, do you throw her away? Really after 13 years? You really want to go there?
What do you hope to prove?

THE KIDS, the kids, the kids, everyone is worried about THE KIDS.

F~~~ THE KIDS, F~~~ THEM. I DONT GIVE A FLIYING F~~~ ABOUT KIDS.

How about the men?
How about his doubts?
IS HIS F~~~ING LIFE, he has the right to know. The kids are not at foult, but he should be able to easy his mind and send his ex bitch the results, looking her straight to her face.

F~~~ THE KIDS.
Think about you for a goddamned moment in your life.

YOUUUU. Is ok to be selfish every once in a while. Is ok to say ME FIRST some times.

IS YOUR FYCKING LIFE.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[TheDudeParticipant 724]

I would want to know. I have some doubts about my eldest son, and if the ex ever hits me up for child support, I’ll insist on a test.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Being a Dad is less about who f~~~ed who and more about who is there now.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

The kids don’t even have to know.

But he does.

Test them all, maybe the girl is the only one that is yours. Maybe none of them are.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

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