Overprotective White Knight Dads

[narwhalParticipant]

Nero wrote:

I can’t disagree with you here, but how will you enforce such a thing?

I didn’t say I was going to prevent it, I said I wasn’t going to sign off on it. Another words, she’ll know I think it’s a very bad idea. That said, I will use leverage if I have it. For example, if she’s depending on me for college funds, then I will be allowed some say in how and who she is spending her time with. If she does not like that, she can provide her own funds.

I have a friend who’s little brother decided he and his girlfriend were going to live together at 19. The Dad’s response was to essentially disown his son. No money, no contact, no anything while he was living with the girl. IIRC correctly, that last a semester. Dad welcomed him back, no questions asked once he cut ties.

Nero wrote:

Their daddies pedestaled them to the point where they want a man to worship their vagina. A daughter is no more special than a son. End of story.

Which is why I find it extremely important to teach my kids value NOW. I’m sure I treat my daughter somewhat of a princess, she is my daughter after all, but I do make a strong effort to make her understand personal responsibility. I don’t want to wait to teach them what they need to know till they actually need it.

Ok. Then do it.

[narwhalParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

Yeah that’s predictable. He hated being judged like that when HE was 18, and so that’s his way of getting even on young men — who really just like the girl and maybe want to get an ice cream or go see a movie.

That’s an interesting conclusion. I’m not saying it’s wrong per se, but that’s not entirely true either. At least when I put myself in the father’s shoes.

I’m going to say know because despite the fact that she’s adult, she is still ultimately my responsibility. If she gets pregnant, who’s going to be asked to provide the funding? I’m guessing this girl still lives with her parents, and I’ll be asked to bring another baby into my home. This also is going to effect my daughter’s ability to develop a career and provide for herself. That’s going to cost me further still.

But it’s not all about me. Is she really able to handle the kind of adult relationship a 28 year old will want to have? All these things.

If daughter turns out to be a completely wise and self-sufficient woman at the age of 18, then I will have nothing to say.

But, I must admit, I don’t quite fully understand why it matters to me whether the men she is spending time with is 18 or 28? If I’m going to say that an 18 year old can’t handle personal responsibility, why would I feel better about 2 18 year olds who don’t know what they’re doing…over a naïve 18 year with a relatively wise 28 year old? There is no reason to think the 18 year old is somehow less predatory than an 18 year old. It certainly isn’t jealousy. “he can’t do what I wasn’t allowed to do”. It is something else.

Ok. Then do it.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

That’s interesting. I tend to find that dads are pretty chill and F~~~ING MOMS are the ultimate c~~~blockers. One girl sent a picture of me to her mom and apparently her mom was p~~~ed because I had a beard. WTF?

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Guess what? If her dad liked you then you would have been dumped like a live hand grenade. If you must then pump and dump and run for the hills—hoping she doesn’t sperm jack you!

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

This has to be trolling right?
It has been one day, and the horrible father doesn’t instantly roll out the red carpet for PUA Chad to use his 18 yo daughter as a cum bucket (plate)? Is this serious?
OP’s intentions are not exactly pure, and even if they were sometimes it takes time to win the parents over.

F~~~ me, I think I need to step off for a while.

[JVBParticipant]

F~~~ her and hit the road. Probably what she will do to you until mr better comes along. They are cunning creatures.

Peace is > piece.

[RennieParticipant]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

This whole “older guy is like a predator, girls are innocent and angelic” mindset really needs to go. If I’ve learned anything in my life experiences, the girls that are under overprotective parents tend to be the most rebellious and needy for a man like me.

10 years is really not that much. Older than that is not uncommon, especially in the old days.

But white knight daddy needs to understand that if she doesn’t get it from you, she’ll find a way to get it from somewhere else and completely out of his control.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

narwhal wrote:

When my daughter reaches the age of 18, there is no way I’m going to sign off her going out with a 28 year old man. I don’t care if it’s dating or just friends. The answer is no.

50-w60 years ok, I might have been ok with it. A woman didn’t need to experience life on her own because most marriages actually were lifetime commitments. Now a days, she absolutely does.

And yes, even though you might not be interested in sex with her, there are plenty of men out there that would be looking for it.

Personally, this sounds like a lot of trouble. I have no doubt that the second you ‘break her innocent little heart’ she’ll be running to Daddy. Next thing you know, Daddy’s knocking on your door.

I understand wanting to have fun while it lasts…but it looks like it isn’t fun anymore.

Sorry to break it to you but you won’t have any say in the matter. You think you will be able to control what your daughter does? Can you control your (ex)wife or any other woman in your life? Get used to the idea that “daddy’s little princess” is going to be getting f~~~ed seven ways from Sunday as soon as she’s ready for it and by whomever and however she pleases. In fact, the more strict you are, the more scary the men she’ll parade in front of you.

Start getting over it now.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

narwhal wrote:

That’s an interesting conclusion. I’m not saying it’s wrong per se, but that’s not entirely true either. At least when I put myself in the father’s shoes.

I’m going to say know because despite the fact that she’s adult, she is still ultimately my responsibility. If she gets pregnant, who’s going to be asked to provide the funding?

Roger your point ( in response to mine ), but before she would turn 18, I would sit her down and tell her when she turns 18 she can have sex whoever she wants, whenever she wants, but THE MISTAKE AND RESPONSIBILITY WILL BE HERS. She will be entirely responsible for her own mistakes and s~~~ty choices.

The responsibility is not yours.

This would radically reduce the number of “OOPS!!” women make with 12 forms of birth control available to her. You’re not ultimately responsible.

narwhal wrote:

If she gets pregnant, who’s going to be asked to provide the funding?

If she gets pregnant… stop right there.

She can MAKE SURE she doesn’t.

And when you’re clear that SHE will pay for HER OWN mistakes and s~~~ty choices, she will be less inclined to fall on er back with her legs in the air. There will be no empathy. There will be no paying for her mistake. She will accept personal responsibility for allowing herself to get pregnant which she can avoid herself.

An unwanted pregnancy is 100% avoidable — >> BY HER.

Single mothers are the number one cause of single motherhood.

Stargazer wrote:

You think you will be able to control what your daughter does?

Give her all the freedom to date, shag, bang – whatever – and don’t bash every guy she brings home as if that’s going to be an effective deterrent. But she can not date ANYONE until she understands that she will pay for her own mistakes and bad choices.

She has the right to date whoever she wants??
For every RIGHT she has, she also has the right NOT to.

For every right she has to get an abortion (or have the baby). . . . she also has the right to MAKE SURE she never gets pregnant when she doesn’t really want to be.

100% choice for women?

OK.

= 100% RESPONSIBILITY.

Nobody seems to teach women this basic s~~~. They want the right to “choose” AFTER it’s too late and they allow themselves to get pregnant when they didn’t really want to be. Unacceptable. Who gives a s~~~ about what a woman chooses AFTER. An unwanted pregnancy was entirely hers to avoid.

And if she wanted it… then she will pay for it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Blood AxeParticipant 1179]

It’sallbs wrote:

Cot off all communication with her immediately and change your telephone number and if she knows where you live consider moving.

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What a great video you posted Itsallbs. It really put my mind at ease, and full of wisdom. Truly a great video you got there.

Back off Barbie!

[RennieParticipant]

narwhal wrote:

When my daughter reaches the age of 18, there is no way I’m going to sign off her going out with a 28 year old man. I don’t care if it’s dating or just friends. The answer is no.

At this point you really have no way of stopping her from doing what she wants. If she wants to date an older man, or wants to score, she’ll find a way to accomplish that regardless of whether you approve or not. She’ll probably end up as a pincushion in college/university.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

This is a prelude to a false rape charge.

Run now.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Can’t Stump Trump wrote:

That’s interesting. I tend to find that dads are pretty chill and F~~~ING MOMS are the ultimate c~~~blockers. One girl sent a picture of me to her mom and apparently her mom was p~~~ed because I had a beard. WTF?

Because the older whores teach the younger whores.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Before they’re 18 is the time if there is ever one to be the over protective dad.

I have two daughters over 18. One has married and now divorced both guys she has had sex with. The younger one does what she pleases based from her own apartment and has had at least twice as many partners.

Both raised in the same house with same rules, vastly different results. I raised them both with heavy doses of personal responsibility. Once they moved out they knew that they were calling their own shots and owning the results.

@Megachris, you’ve faltered before. Just make sure you’re keeping your eyes open and the big head stays in charge.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Overprotective WKDs become less protective when snowflake brings home a beta wallet that has alot of money.

There are two reasons for that:

Dad is smart enough to know that he can transfer her over to beta via marriage and then beta while have to pay her ills and support her.

And he can rest at night knowing that she won’t be f~~~ing beta like a porn star. She will have secret Chad’s on the side banging her that dad doesn’t have as a son-in-law.

[,Participant 1301]

uhhh Hey GM%, She got a Sister>?

with joy/without hate

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

I should make some important notes here that I failed to mention:

Her mom was all for the idea of her going out places with someone like me because I’m someone more mature than the guys this girl’s age. The only reason she told them about me was to seek permission to hang out with me. I didn’t see a huge deal with idea only because my sister is seeing a guy 9 years older than her. Seems like a normal thing these days. Women 24-25 years old these days are overweight, have kids, are druggies/alcoholics, and/or show signs of hitting that inevitable wall VERY soon.

I once dated an 18 year old before and her dad LOVED me after he met me. Not to say I’ll date this girl (I don’t message her as much now, but she still says says he really wants to go places with me), my whole point of the post was that I hate hearing the whole “he’s a man so I KNOW what he’s thinking,” but he thinks women’s minds are 100% PURE!? Come on.

[narwhalParticipant]

Stargazer wrote:

Sorry to break it to you but you won’t have any say in the matter. You think you will be able to control what your daughter does? Can you control your (ex)wife or any other woman in your life? Get used to the idea that “daddy’s little princess” is going to be getting f~~~ed seven ways from Sunday as soon as she’s ready for it and by whomever and however she pleases. In fact, the more strict you are, the more scary the men she’ll parade in front of you.

I completely understand that I won’t control her at 18, nor do I intend to. However, if she wants me to fund college, she’ll have to agree to my conditions. That can be called control if you want, but that is my money to use as I see fit. Now, if she ops not to go to college, then she will have greater freedom, in a way, but that doesn’t mean that she’ll get my approval if she behaves badly.

Keymaster wrote:

Roger your point ( in response to mine ), but before she would turn 18, I would sit her down and tell her when she turns 18 she can have sex whoever she wants, whenever she wants, but THE MISTAKE AND RESPONSIBILITY WILL BE HERS. She will be entirely responsible for her own mistakes and s~~~ty choices.
The responsibility is not yours.

She is currently 10, and aren’t talking about this yet, but we certainly talk about responsibility. Whenever I discipline my kids, I always tell them why. That’s usually “because it’s not my job to clean up your messes” I also regularly tell her “Whatever you want in life, plan on working to earn it yourself. Never expect anyone to give it to you”. I never tell this to my son, he already knows.

Governor Megachris% wrote:

my whole point of the post was that I hate hearing the whole “he’s a man so I KNOW what he’s thinking,” but he thinks women’s minds are 100% PURE!? Come on.

That is an excellent point. I can’t speak for this Dad, but if I ever make such a decision, it wouldn’t so much be that I thought the man wouldn’t treat her with respect, but more that she couldn’t handle a mature relation that the more man probable can.

Ok. Then do it.

[Johnny84Participant 192]

Her father is doing you a favor. Run for the hills. It’s a matter of time before the relations~~~ ends, when it does, the last thing you want is her f~~~ing mother chasing your ass down, or cops getting called for allegations of s~~~ you have never done. DO NOT CONTINUE. Do NOT pass go. Leave it alone. Block her on social media, on the phone, everything, because this girl WILL chase you because her father told her not to. Women LOVE to do the opposite of what their fathers or husbands or brothers or family tell them. Stay away. This girl is still understanding the control she has with her vagina, and at a younger age, they will use it with impunity and go full retard on you. Stay away from it. The last thing you want is a false rape allegation, with your picture and name in the news and in the paper for s~~~ you did NOT do. Not worth your life. Shun women. Stay away from them all.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

this thread reminds me why I am happy not to have children – especially a daughter!

back on topic though – I have to agree with Phoenix on a thread like this when he says how loads of men who claim to be MGTOW actually aren’t. They are really just waiting for that unicorn to come along and kid themselves before she does. The reality is AWALT and a lot of men will just get used over and over again thinking the new woman in their life is another unicorn

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