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  • #648609
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    Untamed
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    Thanks, Venom.
    It’s true that younger MGTOWs can learn a whole lot from us old geezers but I value the opinions and views of the young MGTOWs in here. As I stated previously, every generation gets smarter and more intelligent than the next so I recognize that there is a lot to learn from the younger guys as well as this world changes and becomes more their environment than ours.
    Also, I’m 47 with enough experiences for two lifetimes yet enough mistakes to fill a cargo container and I do pay heed to my elders and give them the respect they deserve, first because I realize I’m not the sharpest tool in the shed and second because I can sometimes be as naive as a child due to my mental condition that keeps aggravating as time goes by.
    I also find fascinating to talk to the 20-somethings and get fresh new perspectives on issues and matters that have been beaten to death by my generation without finding ourselves – as a specie – any better off than when those issues started to rear their ugly heads.
    And to finish, I’ll add that we – as older gents – owe a debt to these younger ones who find themselves in the middle of a war they had no idea was raging while they were in middle-school but now are embroiled in it by virtue of what sex they happen to be born with so I think it’s good that we are able to exchange stories and ideas right here at mgtow.com, without putting them down for some of their immature and sometimes ill-advised choices.

    Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
    #GenderSegragationNow!

    #648610
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    FrostByte
    FrostByte
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    19005

    I’m in a place where I just accept life as is. Step over the dog turds and keep keeping on. Maybe it is age, being in my late 50’s.
    No F~~~s Given becomes All F~~~s are Manageable.

    I see it like this:
    1. You step on the turd
    2. You wipe the Turd off your boot
    3. You curse the turd
    4. You despise all turds
    5. You avoid all the turds
    6. You acknowledge and step over the turd

    If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

    #648617
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    Hermit
    Hermit
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    I’m 50 and look back wondering how I could be so stupid in my early 20’s. How I’d love to have a time machine sometimes.

    However, maybe that horrible experience causes me to appreciate my freedom so much more than if I hadn’t lived through the misery.

    Towards the end of the awful experience of being legally bound to a woman, I had just given up and was waiting for death. Then, some light of freedom started to shine and it was like I was being released from jail. The light began to shine brighter and I could taste the freedom. It was and is wonderful.

    Now how do I go back in time and convince my 20 something self that he is living the good life and will continue to do so as long as he never gets married, thereby not wasting 21 years of my life?

    The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

    #648636
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    Anonymous
    54

    You must over come your own desire.

    Words of wisdom from the Mountain top.

    That, and dont give a f~~~! Hahahah

    #648643
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    Freedom
    freedom
    Participant
    5129

    well, as an early 30’s guy I have to say that you are lucky to go MGTOW so young. I spent too much money and energy on women instead of pushing myself forward, I told myself “don’t quit the job you hate now, You should focus on woman” what a simp… only now I’m partly pleased with my life, after making a s~~~ load of changes.

    It’s even harder to get to that point when you hit 30, because I always thought that by that time I’ll have a wife and 2 kids, now I know what happens to you once you fall into that trap, lucky for me It didn’t happen.

    #648685
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    Anonymous
    12

    Old…
    Experienced?

    Experienced MGTOW are the mentors i found this year, irrespective of their age in years, their location, their sexual orientation…

    The men with scars from the Battlefield.
    Divorce battles stretching ages
    Parental alienation
    Custody battles
    Paying through their nose
    lives and existence ruined, still holding on
    eaten shotgun slugs because their women nagged them to death
    Trusted women and had a good thing going, now finding themselves on the street
    Picked up their lives and marched on

    The men who dodged bullets
    stuck their dick in crazy and got away with it to tell the tale
    listen to family and shake their heads
    left home early because of gynocentric behavior
    damaged by parents and ran off to do their own thing
    put their energy in places other than T~~~ n Vag
    those that resist the Blue pill thinking, the social paradigm and expectation, the hive mind

    Those are the kind of men I listen to and learn from.
    Those are the kind of men I would have loved to have as a Father.
    Those are the kind of men that walk the same type of path I do, in different locations, in different directions.

    Their message Echoes in my head a thousand times an hour
    Their lessons pop up each and every day.
    Ev´ry Keystroke powers
    Be they B~~~~ack, Tower, May.

    #648694
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    Sky-O
    Sky-O
    Participant
    18934

    ‘Im down with NFG. Yeah you know me. . .

    Cause when I see a hole, I ain’t thinking bout hitting it. But back in my blue pill days, I was always splittin’ it!!

    Get down with NFG! Yeah you know me!!’

    #648738
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    TaxGuy
    TaxGuy
    Participant

    A little advice from a 53 year old:

    Don’t let Blade give you a prostate exam. He’s not really a doctor and that isn’t his finger!!

    Order the good wine

    #648753
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    Sky-O
    Sky-O
    Participant
    18934

    And regarding age. . .

    I’m sure most of you that read my posts assume I’m 19 years old.

    Multiply that by 2, and

    Understand: I live my life like I’m 19, with just enough maturity and wisdom to navigate through the complexities of this world.

    When I was 30, I wondered what I would do differently if I was 20 again.

    It’s just a birthdate. Approaching 40 now and living like I’m 19. But with the bonus being, I have two decades of knowledge and wisdom to keep things under control.

    And THAT is what women try to destroy with marriage. Man’s spirit. And at a time when he should be maximizing his life force in his 30s and beyond.

    Not ‘settling Down’, sacrificing his goals, dreams and ambitions for an illusion or becoming a slave after he was convinced to ‘man up’

    F~~~ that.

    #648764
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    Anonymous
    54

    A little advice from a 53 year old:

    Don’t let Blade give you a prostate exam. He’s not really a doctor and that isn’t his finger!!

    hahhaha!! Thats right Tax Guy!
    Never lose your sense of humor!
    It makes life enjoyable and its good for your healtth.

    #648768
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    Anonymous
    6

    A little advice from a 53 year old:

    Don’t let Blade give you a prostate exam. He’s not really a doctor and that isn’t his finger!!

    And if you do, at least tell him to do the “reach around”.

    #648774
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    Gargamel
    Gargamel
    Spectator
    29101

    We are the fathers they never had…

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

    #648782
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    TaxGuy
    TaxGuy
    Participant

    When I was 30, I wondered what I would do differently if I was 20 again.
    It’s just a birthdate. Approaching 40 now and living like I’m 19. But with the bonus being, I have two decades of knowledge and wisdom to keep things under control.

    I’ve said this to too many people to keep track of: Guys are done “maturing” at around 26-28, 30 at the latest. I’m not ANY more mature than I was then. I’m older, but you have to remind me because I haven’t matured a damn bit since then. My back and knees hurt a little more.

    You have to grow old, you DON’T have to grow up.

    Order the good wine

    #648783
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    Gargamel
    Gargamel
    Spectator
    29101

    Understand: I live my life like I’m 19, with just enough maturity and wisdom to navigate through the complexities of this world.

    When I was 30, I wondered what I would do differently if I was 20 again.

    It’s just a birthdate. Approaching 40 now and living like I’m 19. But with the bonus being, I have two decades of knowledge and wisdom to keep things under control.

    That’s why c~~~s always say “We never grow up”…

    No, we just never lost our personality while we aged.

    I never gave up my personality to a bitchy and ungrateful woman.

    And they see me as dangerous. Because I/we can pass this mindset on to their future victims.

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

    #648795
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    Gargamel
    Gargamel
    Spectator
    29101

    The men who dodged bullets
    stuck their dick in crazy and got away with it to tell the tale
    listen to family and shake their heads
    left home early because of gynocentric behavior
    damaged by parents and ran off to do their own thing
    put their energy in places other than T~~~ n Vag
    those that resist the Blue pill thinking, the social paradigm and expectation, the hive mind

    Those are the kind of men I listen to and learn from.
    Those are the kind of men I would have loved to have as a Father.
    Those are the kind of men that walk the same type of path I do, in different locations, in different directions.

    That is my “department”, my center of activity.

    Beyond that I have “insider movies” in my head from the 4000 customers I served over an 18 year lifespan. And countless stories and observations.

    I had to deal with the blown-up entitled female customers and the complicated disdainful wives of my married “family father” customers.

    And I saw them suffer so bad that I rejected all women even in my money “overflow” phase when all gold diggers came rolling in.

    Stories lived through cannot be unseen. My sex drive is dead.

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

    #648809
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    JVB
    JVB
    Participant

    You’re a switched on dude Venom. I think you’ll make wise choices.

    Peace is > piece.

    #649102
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    Maddlad
    Maddlad
    Participant
    765

    When I was 30, I wondered what I would do differently if I was 20 again.
    It’s just a birthdate. Approaching 40 now and living like I’m 19. But with the bonus being, I have two decades of knowledge and wisdom to keep things under control.

    I’ve said this to too many people to keep track of: Guys are done “maturing” at around 26-28, 30 at the latest. I’m not ANY more mature than I was then. I’m older, but you have to remind me because I haven’t matured a damn bit since then. My back and knees hurt a little more.

    You have to grow old, you DON’T have to grow up.

    Yep, me too. I still do the things at 44 that made me happy at 24, and that keeps me young, fit and enjoying my life. I dont care what anyone else thinks of my life, its mine and i’m the one who has to live it. 🙂

    #649106
    +3
    Ghost
    ghost
    Participant

    Wait, you don’t give a f~~~ about the older MGTOW being mentors to the younger ones!?!

    Apologies, I was in NFG mode earlier.

    #649187
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    Kaido
    Kaido
    Participant
    2395

    I was very lucky to learn the mistakes from past friends who been in relationships that had to deal with the drama and bulls~~~ women bring. My first relationship was hell which taught me even more. And my second one was just dumb. I had to get out before I got trapped and I am glad I did!

    Still, to this day I still hear many stories, on here and in real life, which teaches me more. Information is great if you know how to use it follow it for yourself. I also trust my gut and back off or leave when I have too. There are some sneaky c~~~s out there that will try to seduce you once they see who you really are (I swear they know they cant get me or something, its f~~~ed)

    The Older MGTOWs are the wisest and smartest because they have more experience. But truth is we all learn from something. From them, from life, and ourselves.

    What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

    #649317
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    PuniShredder
    PuniShredder
    Participant
    2268

    Ask some questions and we shall answer honestly and unequivocally.

    Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

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