Oh, but you'll fall in love and then you won't have a choice

[narwhalParticipant]

I agree that you can’t really fall in love. I can find it difficult to keep my eyes off some women and/or really likely they’re personality, but that doesn’t mean I’m willing to throw my life away for them.

That said, I know I’m capable of love as verb, and I can grow attached to people and miss them when they are not around. I have had girlfriend in my blue pill days where I ended it because it wasn’t going to work, and missed them after.

Personally, I think the majority of women who would love couldn’t possibly want to marry me. If there really thought about what’s best for me, they wouldn’t ask and wouldn’t accept marriage. There’s the financial aspect, where they would be legally bidding me to whatever financial issues (medical or otherwise they have). You don’t do that to someone you live. So she would have to financially supporting herself completely, which is rare.

Then there is the fact that she must also fully understand who she is and what she’s capable of. If she grew bored from a previous marriage, she should understand that it could happen again, and wouldn’t put me through that possibility.

And I’m passed the point of more kids or any other pressing excuse to marry sooner rather then later. There is no excuse to not wait for marriage, practically indefinitely, if it’s not about acquiring resources.

Ok. Then do it.

[The DealParticipant 236]

I can’t imagine being in love with a woman again now that I know they won’t love me the same way. Besides that, all the women my age are fat, broke, and have burned through a husband or two. I can hardly relate to most people around me and a younger women might as well be from another planet. The last woman I met that I was attracted to was 8 years ago and she was married. So I just don’t see it happening.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Basically what they are saying is that when you fall in love, you effectively jettison all rational thought. I suppose that is true for people who still have blinders on and who still buy into the false plantation narrative that being married or being in a relationship is this awesome thing. Where it fails with MGTOW’s and when I say MGTOW’s I mean guys who have lived the life and internalized it, not the ones going through the red pill rage phase – we understand female behavior and we understand societies bias and absolute hatred of us. More importantly we value our freedom above all things and in that scenario this bulls~~~ claim that “you didn’t have a choice and fell head over heels” is just that bulls~~~.

Truth is that you always have a choice and you never relinquish your ability for rational thought. The moment you do that you basically have tossed out reason and you find yourself being her slave. When I was younger sure there were times when I was head over heels in love. Looking back at those times I realize that I was a completely different person. Not better in anyway, more like a damn drone whose greatest priority was to fulfill the desires of a woman so that like a good slave I’d be rewarded.

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