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[IRuleMeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I didn’t write a long intro because I was (A) short on time but wanted to get my intro on and (B) it would be a long story. I will elaborate tomorrow on my life and the things that have happened. but thank you for a welcome and yes I love American muscle. 6 pak Dodge Coronet on a 383 and 4 gear. its soothed me more than once after dealing with women’s s~~~. But in short I am excited to be here!

Yes. Do over. This time, do it right. Take the time, share your story.

[AttonParticipant]

Don’t continue to make the same mistakes.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 0]

I apologize for my short intro .Now i have the time for a proper introduction. It may get long.
As is said,being the proverbial nice guy got me screwed time and time again. I grew stronger because of it. I dint marry until i was 31, and like many others wasnt with “the one” if there is such as thing. I wanted my own kids and i figured thats what people do, and i wont be like the others, i will still have my independence. WRONG.She turned into a selfish lazy hateful woman. I not only worked all day,but came home, bathed all 3 kids,made dinners, and everything else from day one. She worked part time at night. So i learned how to cook healthy, braid my girls hair, do laundry and all the other stuff on top of working full time and doing automotive repair on the side in my time off. Family and friends knew i did everything. Of course her women friends told her ” you are so lucky to have a good man”. (a slave)
After 14 years i finally had enough,told her i wanted a divorce. Very ugly. I sat the kids down and explained the way it should be, honestly,and upfront, and explained to them what was happening. It was the hardest thing i had to do. So she pipes up and tells the kids ” thats all crap…your dad is leaving us all”(even though i told them over and over we would be even split custody) .The look on their faces. But they knew how she treated me, kids arent dumb. To sum it up ,it was ugly and she had no problem involving the kids in her bulls~~~ ( like she told them she was so scared and lonely and had my two daughters sleep in the bed with her….one actually slept on the floor. They were 11 and 12.

The best part is she tried to hurt me. I got a call from our pest control guy that he requested to be taken off the route. He said my wife walked out of the room naked and tried to get him to do her. He refused,smart man. How pitiful are you when you try and screw the bug guy and he declines?!?!

So the divorce went like most. She lied her ass off and my lawyer talked a tough fight and turned into a pussy. I didnt get half custody, and the main reason being was something i later found out from my lawyer after papers were signed…. her and her lawyer(asshole) gave me just enough time with my kids so the ratio would be just enough to warrant a certain amount of child support. While i have no problem providing for them, it was a kick in the face on top of having to pay alimony.

So in the meantime, i found a good woman, started over financially while having nothing, but got the satisfaction of seeing the look on the poor schmucks face that she is with every time i pick up my kids. The “what was i thinking getting hooked up with this bitch” look.On top of it, after they got together she went from 125 lbs to about 180. Enjoy dude!hahaha karma.

So now i have been with my present gf for about 7 years. While shes alot of things my ex wasnt, im still not jumping off that marriage cliff. She originally understood but now its changing. She has been married before as well, but she wants to get married ” someday soon” . And on top of that, with both of us having kids( our boys are a year apart and get along like brothers, but he is an only kid and spoiled ) ,there are arguments. Mainly about the kids,and the fact that my ex constantly does things to be a bitch and cause problems, and my gf is the type that thinks into these things way too long and then ends up a basket case because she has filled her head with all kinds of crazy scenarios ( “like what if your ex wife is trying to get you back?”…seriously…like id do THAT again?)

So i can see her changing , and making me wonder alot lately why i really need a woman??? i cook, i clean,i handle my finances….i dont NEED a woman in my life. Ive figured out the level of stress is directly related to the amount of females in your life. I would have to start over again,finding a place to rent, as she owns her house in which we live. I have been going over it and over it in my head that i would probably be much happier alone. I dont believe in the happily ever after with a woman anymore. Ive been screwed over into a bitter,cynical angry person. But the anger gives me fuel to motivate myself. So im at a crossroads in my life again. Life would be so much simpler with just me, my boy,and my hot rod. (my girls are over 18,so its just my son).

So thats my story. I assure those who suspected my intro was not a genuine account, trust me,i am real. That story is just a small part of me. I am enthused to be here and communicate with other like minded men who have been screwed over.

[Anonymous 12]

I would have to start over again,finding a place to rent, as she owns her house in which we live. I have been going over it and over it in my head that i would probably be much happier alone. I dont believe in the happily ever after with a woman anymore. Ive been screwed over into a bitter,cynical angry person. But the anger gives me fuel to motivate myself. So im at a crossroads in my life again. Life would be so much simpler with just me, my boy,and my hot rod. (my girls are over 18,so its just my son).

Bruh, there is your answer.
Okay i get it… starting up for the third time… gets boring…
But as the years roll by, you learned a great deal about who you are, what you do (and do not) need.

I’d say yea, get your own place.
But before you do any moves, make sure she cannot take your hotrod or your Boy away from you, sue you for alimony and all that Jack s~~~.
Investigate first, then take action, do it right as it might be your last chance to live the life you deserve.

Welcome!

[Y_Participant 4591]

Thank you or that.
Welcome and put your feet up.
Join in the forums.

PS: Get rid of the bitch

[Anonymous 0]

Thank you for that.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I apologize for my short intro .Now i have the time for a proper introduction. It may get long.
As is said,being the proverbial nice guy got me screwed time and time again. I grew stronger because of it. I dint marry until i was 31, and like many others wasnt with “the one” if there is such as thing. I wanted my own kids and i figured thats what people do, and i wont be like the others, i will still have my independence. WRONG.She turned into a selfish lazy hateful woman. I not only worked all day,but came home, bathed all 3 kids,made dinners, and everything else from day one. She worked part time at night. So i learned how to cook healthy, braid my girls hair, do laundry and all the other stuff on top of working full time and doing automotive repair on the side in my time off. Family and friends knew i did everything. Of course her women friends told her ” you are so lucky to have a good man”. (a slave)
After 14 years i finally had enough,told her i wanted a divorce. Very ugly. I sat the kids down and explained the way it should be, honestly,and upfront, and explained to them what was happening. It was the hardest thing i had to do. So she pipes up and tells the kids ” thats all crap…your dad is leaving us all”(even though i told them over and over we would be even split custody) .The look on their faces. But they knew how she treated me, kids arent dumb. To sum it up ,it was ugly and she had no problem involving the kids in her bulls~~~ ( like she told them she was so scared and lonely and had my two daughters sleep in the bed with her….one actually slept on the floor. They were 11 and 12.

The best part is she tried to hurt me. I got a call from our pest control guy that he requested to be taken off the route. He said my wife walked out of the room naked and tried to get him to do her. He refused,smart man. How pitiful are you when you try and screw the bug guy and he declines?!?!

So the divorce went like most. She lied her ass off and my lawyer talked a tough fight and turned into a pussy. I didnt get half custody, and the main reason being was something i later found out from my lawyer after papers were signed…. her and her lawyer(asshole) gave me just enough time with my kids so the ratio would be just enough to warrant a certain amount of child support. While i have no problem providing for them, it was a kick in the face on top of having to pay alimony.

So in the meantime, i found a good woman, started over financially while having nothing, but got the satisfaction of seeing the look on the poor schmucks face that she is with every time i pick up my kids. The “what was i thinking getting hooked up with this bitch” look.On top of it, after they got together she went from 125 lbs to about 180. Enjoy dude!hahaha karma.

So now i have been with my present gf for about 7 years. While shes alot of things my ex wasnt, im still not jumping off that marriage cliff. She originally understood but now its changing. She has been married before as well, but she wants to get married ” someday soon” . And on top of that, with both of us having kids( our boys are a year apart and get along like brothers, but he is an only kid and spoiled ) ,there are arguments. Mainly about the kids,and the fact that my ex constantly does things to be a bitch and cause problems, and my gf is the type that thinks into these things way too long and then ends up a basket case because she has filled her head with all kinds of crazy scenarios ( “like what if your ex wife is trying to get you back?”…seriously…like id do THAT again?)

So i can see her changing , and making me wonder alot lately why i really need a woman??? i cook, i clean,i handle my finances….i dont NEED a woman in my life. Ive figured out the level of stress is directly related to the amount of females in your life. I would have to start over again,finding a place to rent, as she owns her house in which we live. I have been going over it and over it in my head that i would probably be much happier alone. I dont believe in the happily ever after with a woman anymore. Ive been screwed over into a bitter,cynical angry person. But the anger gives me fuel to motivate myself. So im at a crossroads in my life again. Life would be so much simpler with just me, my boy,and my hot rod. (my girls are over 18,so its just my son).

So thats my story. I assure those who suspected my intro was not a genuine account, trust me,i am real. That story is just a small part of me. I am enthused to be here and communicate with other like minded men who have been screwed over.

Thanks for taking the time to share your story, and thank you for taking the time to post a proper intro. Many of the men on this forum are no stranger to the court shenanigans. Getting finagled out of split custody and then having to pay child support sucks. Which is why, you have to be all hands on deck with your lawyer. You can’t trust him/her on their own to get the job done. You’ve gotta be tuned in to what’s happening at all times and be dictating to the lawyer what you want. Another thing is documentation. You’ve got to document EVERYTHING. If nothing else to cover your own ass. But also to use as much stuff against her as you can. Her attempted infidelity with the pest control guy should have been used. I would have had a sworn affidavit from him.

But anyways, as it relates to this girlfriend of yours.. She wants marriage for the same thing they all do. To extract wealth, but also because these wymen are so miserable in their own skin, that they can’t handle being alone. So they need a partner. Problem is, their own behavior makes the people around them miserable. In your shoes, I would only continue to date this woman until it’s no longer “fun” for you. Once her drama starts, boom, see ya later.

One chance, per person, per lifetime.

[Anonymous 0]

Thank you and yes, you have to be hands on with the lawyers. Hopefully the forums here will help some men down the road by reading what we have gone through.

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