New and overdue

[Anonymous 0]

Good morning all. I have seen the acronym MGTOW several times but never investigated until recently. It’s about time.

I have always been the “nice guy”. Most of you know where this goes. Nowhere. I am a good looking guy and in good shape ( from what I have been told….I am no male model but not Shrek) and have always treated women with respect. Only to get screwed over time and time again. It didn’t take long to figure out my depression started shortly after my wife (now ex) had our third child. She changed and got very angry, selfish, and unappreciative . I finally bit the bullet and told her I was done with her crap and her attitude and wanted a divorce.

Of course it didn’t go like I wanted, I don’t need to tell you how biased the system is towards men in divorce. But I got free and still had time with my kids (and of course child support and alimony). Long story short I met a woman that I was actually attracted to for her looks and personality. We have been together for about 7 years, and is a great woman but I am starting to realize why do I need a woman in my life? I don’t.So now I am thinking it would be so much better alone.

Anyway, I just wanted a write a brief introduction about myself and plan on contributing quite a bit. Red pill all the way.

[Anonymous 42]

Drop that bitch in the dirty woman hamper and walk away! Life is better WITHOUT!

Judging by your avatar you’d like my friend’s mint restored 68 XR7-GT-E!

Welcome to the forums!

[ShineParticipant 1696]

Welcome 6pakatak,

Often the time we most need the brotherhood is when we are attached to a woman.

I’m sure reading advice from the men who go their own way gives you the upper hand in your relations~~~, or to put it in better terms, a balance of power, taking away her pussy pass.

From a single bloke on the highway of life, I have few regrets other than being naive when I was young.

Cheers

"Society is to blame" Denton

[StealthParticipant 5328]

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[DocParticipant]

Sounds like you have them figured 6pakatak but tread careful if thinking of bailing on the present gal.

7 Years is along time and she might take it hard and turn on you.

Not saying don’t ditch her. Just take it slowly.

You live together? That makes a big diffence as you know.

Gradual ‘decoupling’ might be an option.

Just don’t make life harder than it needs to be.

But you could always change the terms of your relationship into one that’s based more in what you want out of it. The occasional f~~~ for instance. If you want from her anymore nothing however you may aswell just start pulling away.

Anyway – welcome aboard. Tower has his the beer in his AMC AMX

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Anonymous 42]

Doc wrote:

Tower has his the beer in his AMC AMX

28 years and no dents until yesterday when my butterfingers dropped a crate and of course struck it with the corner, F~~~!!!

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, 6pakatk
Beer’s in the fridge
Looking forward to your posts

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Welcome Sir!

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

why do I need a woman in my life?

Does she bring any value to your life? Does she enable you in any meaningful way aside from keeping your dick wet? Does she have any hobbies and interests of her own, or was she conveniently interested in everything you’re into?

Women are chameleons and mirrors. They project what they think you want to see and bring less than nothing to the table–they actively drain you of whatever you bring to the table.

Walk away. You got lucky once. Don’t push it.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

but I am starting to realize why do I need a woman in my life?

Me again, thought about what you ^^said, that’s the crux of the turning point right there!

The uninitiated will say we can’t get a women, or we’re basement dwellers, and so on, and so forth.

When in fact the opposite, we’re thinkers and doers in the realm of logic and understanding, your own happiness level, your overall life’s good indicator.

For me it came in flash when I realized I’m safer, happier, and more secure than Fort Knox to strife, sacrifice, and relations~~~ turmoil.

Part of me didn’t like to be around them, and that part needed its feeding, but women see that a loosing control through emotional manipulation, like their string needed to be attached all the time, as if you were an asshole for not thinking about them, after a while and looking back on it, each and every women felt like a spider attacking webs to me.

I felt very unnatural in each and every relations~~~! Like it was foreign to my natural being! Finally one day (July 18th 1997) a real large F~~~ THAT came over me! My mind was racing at light speed!

I was done with everything as I knew it! The woman I was with was the last one, started her yo-yo come-and-go, on-and-off, up-and-down f~~~ing bulls~~~! I was stabbed in the back by local illegal form of government and a woman at the same time!

My F~~~ THAT vortex has only grown in strength and ferocity! I turned to my nature and started feeding THAT FOR A CHANGE! Around me looks like bomb blast leveled a forest! My F~~~ THAT vortex started sucking up all the trees! To this day I’m burning them in my home maid flex-fuel rocket stove boiler! I s~~~ you not!

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Anonymous wrote:

Long story short I met a woman that I was actually attracted to for her looks and personality. We have been together for about 7 years, and is a great woman but I am starting to realize why do I need a woman in my life? I don’t.So now I am thinking it would be so much better alone.

2 Important questions:
are you living with her?

and is she responsible for the contraception?

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Anonymous wrote:

Long story short I met a woman that I was actually attracted to for her looks and personality. We have been together for about 7 years,

Welcome Brother;

Her looks will fade.
Her personality COULD be a deception.

7 years is a long time – soon she may start making FURTHER demands of YOU AND YOUR TIME.

If she gives you an ultimatum, just get out.

@justanotherguy made a great comment:

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

Does she bring any value to your life? Does she enable you in any meaningful way aside from keeping your dick wet? Does she have any hobbies and interests of her own, or was she conveniently interested in everything you’re into?

No need to rush it, but I’d be honest with yourself and THINK THIS THROUGH.

Arc

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Arcturis wrote:

7 years is a long time – soon she may start making FURTHER demands of YOU AND YOUR TIME.

Women age rapidly. Their sell-by date is a cliff. Men will stop aging from about 28 to about 50 as long as they modestly take care of themselves and can build/rebuild muscle at almost any age.

The less valuable a woman becomes (as she ages), the more demands she will make. They’re so inured to receiving preferential treatment, deference, and general handouts as their social capital is completely front-loaded, that they expect to continue behaving like an entitled 16-year-old forever.

Drop the cupcake. Buy a doll. Spend time with your kids. The single reason I’ve yet to date since getting divorced is because of my kid–I want all my time to go to him. My ex got married almost f~~~ing immediately after getting under some other shlub who was just happy that an overweight, recently-gave-birth kind-of-attractive girl wanted his junk. Her time is split between the new husband and the old kid, and she’s about to s~~~ out another crotch fruit.

Be better than women. Invest in your children, invest in yourself. Walk away.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[Y_Participant 4591]

Anonymous wrote:

We have been together for about 7 years, and is a great woman but I am starting to realize why do I need a woman in my life? I don’t.So now I am thinking it would be so much better alone.

Please elaborate.
Sorry I am not convinced by what you have said so far.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Y_ wrote:

6pakatak wrote:

We have been together for about 7 years, and is a great woman but I am starting to realize why do I need a woman in my life? I don’t.So now I am thinking it would be so much better alone.

Please elaborate.
Sorry I am not convinced by what you have said so far.

^ This

Granted not everyone writes a graphic novel, but the guys who come here, come here with extensive history and a long backstory. A one paragraph posts concludes either, you haven’t really been through any s~~~, or your account is fake. The guys who come here, write long intros because they want to share their story. Tell about all the s~~~ they’ve spend YEARS dealing with. This intro almost seems like you aren’t even trying, like you don’t give a s~~~.

[MonkParticipant 16977]

Anonymous wrote:

… but I am starting to realize why do I need a woman in my life? I don’t. So now I am thinking it would be so much better alone.

As Doc says, be cautious. Start by quietly hiding cash and bank accounts etc.

Planning is everything.

[Anonymous 3]

Honesty is what is traded on this forum, that has been my experience as I have read through many, many topics & intros. Generally, I check in with MGTOW everyday
In my estimation, living with someone for 7 yrs is not a MGHOW.Maybe you are fed up but your ride seems to be awful smooth.
And I know a number of guys who wish they could get out but don’t.
So answer your own question & either move on or don’t.
I personally find life far more pleasant without the company of a woman.
Simply put, I come & go as I please

[DocParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Doc wrote:

Tower has his the beer in his AMC AMX

28 years and no dents until yesterday when my butterfingers dropped a crate and of course struck it with the corner, F~~~!!!

Aw f~~~ Tower. Sorry to hear that. Seriously.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[SimpleLifeParticipant 439]

6pakatak, all you need to do is tell your GF you’re depressed and going through a difficult time and you need to take time off of work and you need her to support you through this emotionally and financially for a few years.

She will be gone rapidly.

[Anonymous 0]

I didn’t write a long intro because I was (A) short on time but wanted to get my intro on and (B) it would be a long story. I will elaborate tomorrow on my life and the things that have happened. but thank you for a welcome and yes I love American muscle. 6 pak Dodge Coronet on a 383 and 4 gear. its soothed me more than once after dealing with women’s s~~~. But in short I am excited to be here!

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