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  • #734144
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    Arcturis
    Arcturis
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    I run the marketing department for a private business. Our MD recently retired early due to health issues and the commercial director got his job so I now report directly to him.

    I know you guys have warned me about female bosses but the power has gone to his head, is totally out of his depth and doesn’t know how to handle his emotions. He asked me to compile a report on the brutal realities facing our business. I gave him the truth and he crucified me for it.

    He constantly asks the management team for constructive criticism but can’t take it. He said something to me this morning and I almost gave him my notice there and then.

    I’m not in the best financial situation atm to be able to quit…but I know I’d be okay. I’d find something. Maybe it’s time to start my own business. I came here to vent so I don’t make any rash decisions, but I refuse to work for an asshole. My notice period is 6 months. I’d planned to have a new job by then anyway so maybe I should get my notice in now.

    ARGHHHHHHHHHH!…And breathe. Thanks for listening.

    Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT
    #734148
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    Blade
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    Always good to leave on good terms if possible . If you ever need to go back to that job it’s there .

    Cool vent bro . At least ya new to walk away .

    What sort of self buisness are you looking at doing

    THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

    #734158
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    Arcturis
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    Always good to leave on good terms if possible . If you ever need to go back to that job it’s there .

    Cool vent bro . At least ya new to walk away .

    What sort of self buisness are you looking at doing

    Thanks Blade, that’s very true.

    Using my current skillset probably digital marketing…but would be nice to play with something different for a change.

    Lots to think about.

    Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT
    #734164
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    Blade
    blade
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    If you love what you do you will succeed . Good luck bro

    THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

    #734180
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    Anonymous
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    I can’t stand emotionally abusive people in power! Turn the tables and I bet he’ll be sucking your dick and rubbing you b~~~~!

    Your boss is a worm! A maggot to be more precise!

    #734199
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    Dark Kenshi
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    Sometimes, men are the worst c~~~s around.

    I completely understand you, since I am going through a similar situation.

    But still, suck it up now, and when you get better in your financial situation, and/or you’ve opened your own business, then you can destroy this cuck on the fist meeting with him you can get, and then leave.

    Revenge is a dish best served cold.

    "Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

    #734203
    SH3LLZ
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    Polish up the resume and start looking man. I’ve found myself in the same boat. Keep your head up and try to stay positive!

    #ICETHEMOUT
    #MANOUT!

    #ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

    #734216
    JB Books
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    Don’t quit until you’ve got a new gig. Not sure, but a 6 month notice… would avoid playing their game and how 2 weeks. Try as much as possible to emotionally detach from your job duties. Good luck, brother!

    We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

    #734223
    Gerald
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    How do you get 6 mos notice?

    I know of at least one country that requires a month, but 6 months? That is a ridiculous amount of notice. But it puts you in a good spot. Giving that notice can potentially mean they realize they will lose you and better find out why… or else it gives you time to find something sustainable during that period…

    It is traditional in my business to be lucky to get/give 3 weeks notice, 2 is normal.

    Good Luck, whatever you choose.

    No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

    #734233
    DorkShit
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    Your level of I care should not exceed your bosses.

    Crime scene two is always worse than crime scene one. (Means don’t do anything rash)

    I spoke to the Lord and he told me that he thinks he can get you out of this mess but your boss is f~~~ed!

    My point is LAY LOW

    Peace brothers

    #734241
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    Stealth
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    Yeah I’ve gone the starting your own business route, and it turns out clients can be the exact same way. The good news is you can fire them if the problem is pervasive, but only if you have enough other clients to fall back on . . . In short, wherever you have people in business the problem persists. Maintain professional boundaries and enjoy the s~~~ sandwich. Oh and nice shades!

    "Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

    #734246
    Awakened
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    A six month notice is more then a lil ridiculous.

    If you give them six months, they’ll give you six months of abuse because you are leaving anyways and they have nothing to lose.

    On the other hand, maybe he won’t be even more of an asshole to you for your LAST SIX MONTHS. LOL

    What do YOU THINK is the more realistic outcome ??

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #734262
    Arcturis
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    I completely understand you, since I am going through a similar situation.

    Sorry to hear that mate.

    Polish up the resume and start looking man. I’ve found myself in the same boat. Keep your head up and try to stay positive!

    Thanks mate, that’s all I can do at this stage. Quiting is suicidal unless your in a comfortable position to do so. I know that but can act on my morals when people in higher positions are rude to me – no need for it.

    Don’t quit until you’ve got a new gig. Not sure, but a 6 month notice…

    Yeah it’s ridiculous! I recon I could get away with 3 months but that would be the minimum. They ‘need’ the time to find a ‘suitable replacement’. If i get a new job, I guess in their eyes ANY notice is better than none.

    Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT
    #734265
    Arcturis
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    My point is LAY LOW

    Thanks Brother – think this is the best option till I get something else.

    If you give them six months, they’ll give you six months of abuse because you are leaving anyways and they have nothing to lose.

    @awakened Probably this. Knowing him, he’ll take it personal and make it hell.

    Guess it’s best to lay low, find something new, then slip out the back door with a notice that suits me 😉

    Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT
    #734291
    Harpo-My-"SON"
    harpo-my-“SON”
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    I agree with Gerald and awakened Six months is
    to long.

    2 weeks is normal

    a Good stonemason is not easy to find,
    I am normally not worried about being
    fired.

    I have worked for some who rushed
    my work. asking time and time again:
    When are you gonna be finished?
    Can you tell me when you will be done?

    after about the forth or fifth time
    I will toss my tools down and reply
    “I CAN BE FINISHED RIGHT NOW IF YOU LIKE”

    Give em 3 weeks at most if you decide
    to leave.

    You should stay just to spite the asshole!
    I believe he is on his way out do to the
    stress he is under.

    Just outlast the prick and maybe take his job.

    I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

    #734334
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    Prophet Micah
    Prophet Micah
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    You should stay just to spite the asshole!
    I believe he is on his way out do to the
    stress he is under.

    Just outlast the prick and maybe take his job.

    Exactly what I was thinking.
    Your new boss sounds like a woman lol.
    He won’t be there too long.

    No Wife - No Strife

    #734370
    Trailboss
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    Give him all the hell you can, then let them fire you. Then collect unemployment while you look for new job. F~~~ ’em…..#MANOUT!

    An educated, armed populace cannot be enslaved.

    #734485
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    Secret Agent MGTOW
    Secret Agent MGTOW
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    Dont do it while the emotions are high.

    Calm down and let it pass. Then analyze your own job and make yourself a brutally honest report. Then make your decision from the logic of the report.

    Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

    #734518
    Arcturis
    Arcturis
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    Calm down and let it pass. Then analyze your own job and make yourself a brutally honest report. Then make your decision from the logic of the report.

    Thanks Pal. Emotions are back to normal now, I’m over it. Just needed a vent earlier!!

    I’ve been looking for a new job for the last few weeks anyway so I’ll just increase my efforts.

    Thanks for all the comments guys! – Much appreciated!

    Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT
    #734539
    IRuleMe
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    Dont do it while the emotions are high.

    Calm down and let it pass. Then analyze your own job and make yourself a brutally honest report. Then make your decision from the logic of the report.

    I agree, but sometimes a man just needs to go “F~~~ THAT S~~~!”

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