Myth of the Alpha Male

[MorpheusParticipant 2177]

Trash belongs in a trash can.

That is stupid people like other stupid people.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

My take on the Chad/Alpha dynamic:

Chad/Alpha is whatever “edgy” guy gives her the vagina tingles. Women need to be “thrilled” in some way, it feeds their psyche. Remember that this “bad boy” vibe is all relative to socioeconomic standing sometimes. This is why average women will go for scummy guys, while upper middle class women will “slum” and date average but edgy guys like me (I’ve already had one like that).

Even though much of my appeal to women has been a bit of a chad/alpha persona, there is no rhyme or reason to which women buy into it. When I tell them of my extreme sports interests, for half it is like a pantie melter and the other half think I’m insane.

Chad/Alpha is no specific archetype. He is whoever fits the whims of that woman. Trying to nail down a list of attributes will be futile and maddening, because women are as fickle as the weather.

Sovereignty above all else.

[narwhalParticipant]

I’d also say you are misinterpreting what ‘alpa’ is, or better put the characteristics that make women attracted to you. You seem to think you should be looked as alpha because of what you have accomplished. That ain’t. What I read from your posts, and I didn’t real all, is that once you got the women’s attention, you treated her like a princess. That isn’t what she’s looking for, despite what she says.

That bum on the street, he probably treated her like she was nothing special. He probably didn’t give a damn whether she stayed or left, or maybe asked her to leave so he could enjoy his beer in peace.

You said that one of these women just came up and hugged you. You probably should have pulled a Seinfeld on Kesha and rejected her. Does anyone doubt that Kesha is dying to get into his pants now?

You see the difference? I’d not advocating that you start trying to behave any particular way. Not at all. Although I think the more you contemplate MGTOW, the more you won’t care, and quite possibly the more women will be intrigued by you.

I personally just have better things to do with my time these days to bother either way.

Ok. Then do it.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Here is some mansplaining::
You have over-thought the whole concept to the point of rendering your argument pointless. Don’t redefine a concept you don’t understand and tell others it is truth. Just admit you don’t understand it. Try learning more before making yourself the self-appointed expert.

This is MENspainling

Your argument is full of s~~~.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Maximus AureliusParticipant 351]

It is California! that should be enough said. But like Neo stated..

Some women just don’t any self worth, so they associate with someone of similar value, or lack there of ( to them ).

California is the leader in f~~~ed up people, and in this new world dis-function, Chad and PUA’s, and Alpha/Beta’s may be evolving into a new warped ideology…

Its just crazy,, and I live here.!

Meditating on the Wisdom & Truths of Man, Isn't just a Philosophy, but a Calling......Be willing to be Called a Man!

[Anonymous 11]

MR TV wrote:

Does anyone have an explanation for this strange behavior?

1) They flaked, because they found a better resource to extract.
2) Hybristophilia
3) ‘Gina tingles

There are times when I am alpha as all get out, but I still don’t possess Chad.

[Subcomandante SantiagoParticipant 149]

Excellent posts, Mr. TV – and congratulations on all of your achievements.

I’ve just found a vid of you performing “The Bank Robbery” on Venice Beach, which I shall watch later when I have more time to focus (am still ostensibly working at the moment).

Alpha, beta, omega males: I guess like all sociotype labels, they are accurate up to a point, but encompass vun helluva lotta exceptions.

I have been both extremely successful in academia, business and music, and a homeless, alcoholic street beggar. And I can tell you for sure, women seemed to be equally repulsed by me in both incarnations.

In your case, it could be a manifestation of the Spanish proverb that translates as “Got to bed with children – wake up covered in s~~~”. At a point between my two extremes of existence as described above, I was a street performer too, and the plentiful women I met, while looking good, were invariably drug-addled sluts who were incorrigibly lazy and had the attention span of gnats.

So essentially, I suspect extremely strongly that most, if not all, of the women you came across in your work were simply unable to retain the concept of you for long enough in their heads to string together any kind of meaningful lengths of time spent together.

Not because of you, your appearance, your attitude, your skills and achievements – but DESPITE these.

And so they went back to hanging around with street bums, because that’s the highest level of activity that their brains are equipped to handle.

IMHO

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