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Sharing a true story thats been playing out the last six months.
A friend of mine for 15 years came home from work one day and the bitch stood there packed and ready and told him she was leaving him.
He begged her to stay! He was really in love with her – married for 6 years, his second marriage and thank god no kids this time.
She of course wanted a kid with him but he felt they were to old and both had kids from the prior engagements.So she moved in with her c~~~ sister or mother or whatever and started to party and f~~~ around. Bragging about how great her life was on social media.
My friend went from bad to worse, he could not stop thinking about her, he followed her on facebook and s~~~ allt the time. He begged her to take him back crying and s~~~. She hooked up with him a couple of times, i guess just to tease him and keep him trying.
He changed everything in his personality that she had mentioned as a reason for leaving him. But she sent him the divorce papers.They sold the house, he of course had to fix the house and garden before it was sold, i guess she was busy f~~~ing her boss at work (which she actually did).
I helped him move to an apartment (that he hated) – a week later he killed himself.Tragic as f~~~! He could have lived on if he just accepted that she was an idiot and not a princess! I mean no woman is worth dying for especially if the bitch is leaving you.
Keep clam i'm dyslexic.
Very sad … a good man thinking there’s no way out other then a womans ‘love’.
MGTOW saves lives. Had he know of us …. maybe just maybe he would still be here.
I know EXACTLY how he was feeling. It is in part why I’m here and speaking out.
Let this sad event be a warning to help our brothers.
So sad.
Dude you should have shown MGTOW it could have saved his life.
"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle
He chose his fate of his own free will. I honestly do not believe any persuasion on your part would have made the slightest difference.
Edit.
Yes, it is tragic.
Yes, it is sad.
Yes, it is pointless to die over some woman.
Yes, there are therapies for severe depression that might have saved him.
Yes, the red pill dose on this site might have saved him.No, he did not choose to avail himself of any of the things that might have saved him.
We cannot second guess his choices for him.
We can learn from him and others like him and incorporate the lessons in our own lives.
In that small way, we can honor his memory.Edit 2.
After spewing all that philosophical (Stoic mostly) crap, I still hope that bitch rots in Hell! There is a special place for evil witches like her.
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
And of course, this story will never make it to the news or suicide statistics because the mangina society doesn’t care and also because men don’t promote the victim mentality, even though we are victims.
I knew a woman years ago who was going through a divorce. Neither her nor the soon to be ex could afford the house on their own, and neither wanted to have it foreclosed on and destroy their credit…so they were both still living there and paying for it until they could sell it. The woman acted just like your friends ex…she would go bar hopping every night she had off and bring home whatever she could to f~~~ in an obvious attempt to make some kind of point to the husband…which totally confused me.
At the time I was semi-red piller…I thought women had more good in them than I do today, but I still kinda knew deep down inside society was f~~~ed up. Even being just a semi-red piller…all I could think was all she was doing was running up her c~~~ count, f~~~ing a lot of dudes she’d probably regret down the road, getting literally 2-3 new c~~~s a week is just begging for stds, and for what…the husband was probably just laughing at her now that he realized what a disgusting whore she was, and he couldn’t be more glad he would soon be rid of her.
But now that I’m a little older, and have had the chance to talk to more people and hear more stories both in real life and on this site…I could only imagine the hell that poor guy was going through during that time if he was a total blue piller and still in love with the woman f~~~ing random dudes in a house he was still paying for while he was sleeping alone in the next bedroom down the hallway. When you see the situation through a red pill perspective, and your head is in the right place its completely obvious the woman is only doing it because she still cares about the man…if she didn’t she wouldn’t be putting effort in into intentionally trying to make him angry or jealous, she’d just ignore him as much as possible and go about her life in a positive manner. I don’t ever know what happened to that woman I knew, or her ex whom I never had the chance to meet…I had always hoped she ended up slutting it up for a while before trying to get another man to settle down just to find out nobody wanted her used up post wall ass(as she was mid 30s at the time), and that the dude was just laughing at her stupidity and ended up going his own way or finding a younger, more attractive woman, less f~~~ed up woman afterwards.
I’m sorry for the loss of your friend…if only he had found the red pill he’d be enjoying his freedom and laughing at what a dumb slut his ex is rather than ruining everything over a low quality woman.
My condolences. Let us learn from this. Love will make you do very very irrational things for the sake of procreation. Women understand this need in men and have it down to a science. This is why they don’t kill themselves. They know there is always someone out there to take care of them. Men do not have this lyxury. When we are at a low there is no one. Just orders from others to man up and take it. Is this the life anyone wants to live? It is biological slavery and females are the taskmasters. Women are not evil. They just think they are in charge because nature has given them the cards to and blue pill culture fuels this. Let us honor this man’s memory and go our own way accordingly.
I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.
…she would go bar hopping every night she had off and bring home whatever she could to f~~~ in an obvious attempt to make some kind of point to the husband…which totally confused me.
They f~~~ around to prove these points:
1) I was miserable with you but now I am happy without you
2) You were happy with me, but now you’re miserable
1+2= You were benefiting in this marriage and I was suffering
3) I am much better than you in life: I can bed all these men in no time, but you can’t – you will never find such a smart and independent woman like me again.proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome
Its going to be difficult to go to the funeral and meet this f~~~ing bitch who drove him to suicide. Sure he is responsible for his own actions but she dindt care about his feelings one bit once she left him. The thing that really makes me hate her is that she still hooked up with him from time to time and gave him hope only to crusch him again the next week.
Hope she ends up alone and miserable!
Keep clam i'm dyslexic.
I am so sorry for your loss and I hope to god he can rest in peace now.
Look I can’t lie and say the thoughts haven’t popped up from time to time because they have. Whenever you lose who you truly are and allow a woman to be your only source of happiness, when you lose that happiness it takes a toll on a person, well men because women are soulless creatures.
Like others have said I wish he could have found this site because I believe it’s truly saved my life and could have his as well.
Like others have said I wish he could have found this site because I believe it’s truly saved my life and could have his as well.
Yes i think it could have! I dont know though, maube he had other problems also. But now its done. I will go to the funeral and think of the good times we had. I wish i would have found MGTOW earlier, his death is though partly one of the reasons im here reading and writing.
I will never let myself get attached that much to anyone!
The rally part is that he leaves his son behind to be raised by a woman ( son from earlier relationship )
Keep clam i'm dyslexic.
That’s true…no one knows what truly makes a person do it, could be a combination of many things…but you go and honor his memory and make sure to take care of yourself as well. It’s tough losing someone close to you but he didn’t die in vain. His story will save lives.
They f~~~ around to prove these points: 1) I was miserable with you but now I am happy without you 2) You were happy with me, but now you’re miserable 1+2= You were benefiting in this marriage and I was suffering 3) I am much better than you in life: I can bed all these men in no time, but you can’t – you will never find such a smart and independent woman like me again.
Yeah I get that now…but at the time I just couldn’t grasp the logic behind. That is how she thinks, but how a red piller thinks its
1)That’s not true or you wouldn’t be trying to prove it to me, you’d just move along and be happy.
2)Maybe I thought it was true I was happy with you at one time, but now that I’ve seen the real you I’d be happy with you f~~~ing off and getting out of my life.
3)I’m jealous of a bunch of low quality men using you for sex? Lol as you sit back and watch the head on collision with the wall, and her ultimately ending up becoming a bitter single cat woman as she realized she actually couldn’t upgrade, or settling for someone who treats her a lot worse than you did.
Its a f~~~ing shame not all men can see this reality…if I ever have a son I’m going to give him the best gift any father could give a son and begin administering small doses of the red pill before he is even old enough to think about dating.
Hey, it’s been quite some time since I logged on here.
First of all, I’m sorry for you loss. Suicide is something that has been in the mind of a good chunk of the members on here and sadly we’re missing some.
I don’t mean to derail this thread but I think this can be relevant. I’ve been discussing with male and some female coworkers about MGTOW as a whole. Some of the guys have been in the same relationship for years, some can’t manage to make it last more than a few months and some just cannot get women to be interested in them at all. At first they didn’t really grasp how MGTOW was relevant to our society, but after a few weeks, I even have those guys that are still with their highschool GF asking me questions. When I start thinking about it, I tell myself that these are the guys that are the most vulnerable when their GF turns into a harpy. I may not be able to “convert” them to our philosophy, but I feel like they are benefiting from my thoughts/opinions and that it could possibly prevent them from taking the easy way out if they ever get dumped.
Just three days ago, there was 2 guys and 2 girls in the lunch room with me. One of the guy has been with the same girl for 5 years and the other one broke up with his gf 2 months ago. I asked the latter, who fully understands my stance on women, to share his opinion on child support. He said that the system should be revised and before he could even finish, one of the girl called him an idiot. I stepped in and brought in the issue with women who lie about being on birth control and plan on keeping the baby. The same guy said that he would sit down with the girl, try to convince her to get an abortion, go to the hospital with her, pay for the procedure and everything. If she would refuse, he would punch her in the stomach. At that point, the two girls were just shaking their head and calling him names. Once again, I stepped in and asked the girls: “Should society tolerate that a woman can lie about being on birth control and handicap a man’s life for the next 18+ years without his consent?” They replied that it was the woman’s right and that the guy should have wore a condom if he didn’t want kids (as if condoms couldn’t be pierced or ripped). Just with their answer, I had a pretty good idea about how they would react next, but I wanted my male coworkers to see how these girls were really thinking.
So I asked the girls: “If a man gets a vasectomy and doesn’t mention it to his partner. She get’s pregnant (with another man) and he just plays along for 3-4 months before showing her all the paperwork regarding is inability to reproduce. Is that a situation that society should tolerate?”
*drum roll*
They said no. They said the guy would be (insert all the possible insults here).
I didn’t say anything after that. I just started slow clapping and glanced at the other guy who’s still in couple. I could have shown him all the introduction posts on this forum and it wouldn’t have had the same effect as what I orchestrated. I know he’s not gonna dump his GF anytime soon, and I have to respect that. But I know that somewhere in his brain, there’s a little MGTOW seed and that might help him one day.
Oh btw, I don’t promote violence towards anyone. On the other hand, I do believe that if someone is willing to spend 25 years in jail instead of being separated from his child on top of paying hundreds of thousands, you should show that person some respect. Or at least, understand his perspective.
tl;dr
I think we have the responsibility to inform our brothers, our friends, our coworkers that MGTOW exist because it could prevent them from committing suicide.
@oli – I think that’s a pretty valuable thing for men to understand. You don’t have to purge women from your life and go celibate, but embrace the red pill and understand what you are getting yourself into when dealing with women. Women are a lot like motorcycles…they can be a lot of fun but you shouldn’t ever be ignorant of the amount of damage they can cause to you…if you choose to ignore that, you WILL regret it. It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t ride motorcycles…it just means you should know the risks they present and treat them accordingly.
My sincerest condolences to you and your friend’s family.
I’ve seen this before and experienced first hand the self destructive behavior that ensues after a break up or divorce. Not quite as extreme as the aforementioned person, but self destructive nevertheless.
My buddy and his whore wife were married in their early twenties, and stayed together for about 14 years until she decided that some strange c~~~ would be better for her. No children were involved thank goodness, but the divorce kicked his ass. And then he started to kick his own ass shortly after the divorce was final. Alcohol was his wolfbane.
He had a good job driving for UPS but trashed that career with DUI #2. DUI #3 put him in the county jail for 6 months with a felony record. Of course, his ex-wife pointed her jagged little finger at his actions and promulgated what a loser he was. I sometimes think he f~~~ed his life up on purpose to get her back to help fix him. I’m also guessing that he had some grandiose fantasy that she was gonna help him and be his little female knight in shining armor……almost like an invitation for her to feel empowered.
Kinda sick, really.
Of course, she played along and would “mercy f~~~” him occasionally…..only to jump in the sack with a REAL loser that she ended up getting pregnant with. Then they split up and she’s raising their son on her own…..sort of. She has moved in with her sister as she cannot make it on her own…..now with a six year old boy. Poor kid.
Keep in mind that all of this s~~~ happened while I was married to my soon to be ex whore dike fat pig. While I listened to the banter of my live in legally married vagina owner while all of this went on……..that little mental “click” went off in my brain. The finger pointing was always at him. And men have been conditioned to finger point as well. We don’t wanna p~~~ off the vagina owners, eh? We’re keeping the peace, so to speak.
Yes, dear.
I flew out to stay with him for a few nights, ate well and drank some quality brew. This gent was ready to whack himself. A couple of good cigars later, I like to think that I kept him alive. I like to think that I gave him hope……move to AZ, stay in the guest room, and rebuild your life. I flew back home and presented my live in lesbian whore my plan…..she shot it down.
How I should possibly “care” for another person? How can I possibly devote ANY attention to someone other than her? This is when I realized that the “love of my life” was the quintessential attention whore. The epitome of “egocentrism.”
This is what they do, kids.
My ex uses societal pressure to feed her empowerment needs. She had the audacity to accuse me of domestic abuse to our mutual friends & family. It was merely a ploy to make me look bad in front of said friends & family. To “project” her misbehavior on to me and make it appear that is my fault. Never mind that she’s getting her rocks off with the biggest bull dike in town……bonus points for causing me stress and anguish.
My response?
I live my life with tenacity. If I were a perpetrator of domestic violence, then she would be dead.
Truth hammer.
Whore Magnet
My condolences as well. I can only hope he’s in a better place, but the one consolation is that he has Gone His Own Way with grace.
Tragic as f~~~! He could have lived on if he just accepted that she was an idiot and not a princess! I mean no woman is worth dying for especially if the bitch is leaving you.
So very sorry for the loss of your friend. I hope your post helps others who may possibly be in the same situation as your friend.
Seek professional help if you need it!
@Oli – I think that’s a pretty valuable thing for men to understand. You don’t have to purge women from your life and go celibate, but embrace the red pill and understand what you are getting yourself into when dealing with women. Women are a lot like motorcycles…they can be a lot of fun but you shouldn’t ever be ignorant of the amount of damage they can cause to you…if you choose to ignore that, you WILL regret it. It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t ride motorcycles…it just means you should know the risks they present and treat them accordingly.
Well said, Sir Beer
Hi guys from Australia.
I posted some time ago on the “intro” page before I understood MGTOW and the “Red Pill” philosophy properly. I posted my story (which, not unlike many guys here, a tough one). However, I didn’t truly understand MGTOW and understandably copped a bit of flack for acting “Blue Pillish.” After lurking and studying here for the last couple of months I have fully embraced MGTOW and have found that this post has inspired me to grow some b~~~~ and make a comment…..
I found myself admitted to the Psychiatric ward of a hospital because of suicidal thoughts after my wife left me. Although it has been 3 and a half years I still struggle day to day with where I belong, my self worth etc. I could of easily been “Limpan’s” friend. But I must say, my daily dose of red pills from this forum has given me new vigour and hope for a great future for not only me, but my 3 children I have the privilege (after the usual bulls~~~ of court) of having a high % of custody.
Thank you mgtow.com and also Keymaster.
And “Limpan,” I hope your story about your friend saves many brave men’s lives who visit this site and are lost and feel alone. Surely you guys can help them out of the abyss.
@dwh197935
But I must say, my daily dose of red pills from this forum has given me new vigour and hope for a great future for not only me, but my 3 children I have the privilege (after the usual bulls~~~ of court) of having a high % of custody.
I read your post the second it came in and want to respond immediately.
Very happy to read that. Thank you for dropping in and leaving it.
It’s so inspiring. Damned Excellent.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.- AuthorPosts
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