Made to Suffer….

[DJKevgeezParticipant 141]

Questions:
Weren’t you p~~~ed when you realized she got pregnant by someone?

Why didn’t you leave?
I expected the story to end there by it kept going. I honestly was surprised.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Binary Logic

Im sorry you went thru all that brother.Your experience along with all of our experiences can be a lesson for other men.

 

Just so you know i was cheated on too and im not sure if my son is my biological son.If i knew he wasnt mine i would not have raised him.

Even as a teenager i knew something wasnt right about women but i was still a glutton for punishment and abuse with different women well into my 40s …..MGTOW is a logic based philosophy giving men a much needed corridor of  of escape from the all too common machinations of female thought, mind and behavior  .

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

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Binary, sorry to hear about the way you got screwed over. Hopefully this place will give you some meaning and sanctuary for a method of recovery. Now you can regroup and pick up the pieces. It will take time, effort and energy but it does get better.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

DJKevgeez wrote:

Questions: Weren’t you p~~~ed when you realized she got pregnant by someone? Why didn’t you leave? I expected the story to end there by it kept going. I honestly was surprised.

 

To answer your question; Yeah, I was overly p~~~ed. To a degree that not many can understand. Have you ever been so infuriated that you come full circle? That was something I picked up on while deployed. If you can’t understand it, it’s not a bad thing. It’s something I  wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. You detach yourself from yourself, and focus on the end goal, which was my family as a complete unit.

Why not leave? I was deathly afraid of the stigma of being “Another Black guy that couldn’t hold his family together.” That stigma may or may not exist, but to me it was important. More importantly as I would find that the same exact thing happened between my father and mother. Irony? Maybe. Generational curse? Probably that too. But,  at the end of the day brother, we are all human. Yes, some more f*cked up than others, but still human. I figured either we could learn from it collectively, and try to press on with me shouldering the weight, or we could let it all fall apart.

In the end however, know that I at least have the comfort of knowing I did absolutely everything in my power to make it work. I don’t loose sleep over it. Not one bit. In fact, I recently found that things are falling apart for her. Professionally, personally… and you know what? Honestly, I kind of enjoy it. It is a satisfaction of knowing that by no hand of my own, the pendulum starts it’s return path, and I am already out of the way.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

Binary wrote: Why not leave? I was deathly afraid of the stigma of being “Another Black guy that couldn’t hold his family together.” That stigma may or may not exist, but to me it was important. More importantly as I would find that the same exact thing happened between my father and mother. Irony? Maybe. Generational curse?

My wife f~~~ed around within two months of my daughters birth..I forgave and tried to hold things together but within a year I was planning escape…My daughter was 5 when I left, so I can relate to you wanting to be optimistic and save face…I am white so it is a man thing not a race thing.. No man wants to fail at any endeavor and we take marriage much more serious than women do…

Irony is I am the oldest and only one of three that was my fathers true biological child.. My mother and father split when I was 4 and I went to live with my father and his mother my paternal grandma…My mother always blamed my dad’s drinking for their divorce, but I know the truth…My father just like yours, just like you and I, could not live with a woman who had no respect for him, and he had no trust in her..My guess is we all shrugged off some beta tendencies the moment we realized it was time to throw in the towel…We become better men when we lose tolerance for the intolerable….generational curse indeed…

You are in good company here…Thanks for your service! Welcome to MGTOW.. Much respect and enjoy the forum..

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

harpo-my-“SON” wrote:

My wife f~~~ed around within two months of my daughters birth..I forgave and tried to hold things together but within a year I was planning escape…My daughter was 5 when I left, so I can relate to you wanting to be optimistic and save face…I am white so it is a man thing not a race thing.. .

 

I can see the logic and reason there. The truth is blind to color, gender, etc. Well put friend. Thanks for the welcome as well. On another note, I think you’re quote is thought provoking. I do believe I will meditate on that today.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

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