Living for yourself.

[Anonymous 43]

Tower ty for the couch and the cart to roll it home with…very thoughtful!

Wally, I have to laugh at my bulls~~~ life, I ran out of tears years ago, its all I have left.

Gotta take care of yerself because no one else will do it for you.

[DocParticipant]

One of the things I found hard was classing myself as a divorcee.
I always hated guys and gals who were divorced. Maybe that’s because my parents divorced when I was a kid.

Vowed it would never happen to me. Then before I knew it am I a divorcee myself.

Now it’s divorcee for life. Because the ‘married’ box aint ever getting ticked again.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Anonymous 43]

I used to think of divorced people as some one cheated and got caught, had an abusive personality, gambling problem, drug/alcohol addiction, huge money problems or just too stupid to keep it going. Divorced people were losers. failures. out of control

Maybe that was what made my own situation so shocking to me…no money problems, she was abusive, but I could take it, no drugs/alcohol/gambling. I wasn’t cheating…I thought only guys cheated, and she constantly accused me of cheating.

We were mid to late 30s, solidly married and it still fell apart. Of all the couples I knew, I thought we had the best marriage.

Then it did happen to me, I was the loser, the failure and everyone knew it. I thought I could see the look on their face…loser failure. now, I don’t think that was the case, I misread sympathetic pain for disgust.

Now, today, I regard divorce as normal, and why hasn’t it happened to every man, yet. I am not a loser, I am a survivor. I am set free to live the way I want. The ex was stupid to throw me away, and she has all the responsibility, the house, the kids, cars, yardwork, all of it. I can’t thank her enough for cutting me loose, free from her wackiness, abuse and violence. I just wish it didn’t cost as much.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

The ex was stupid to throw me away, and she has all the responsibility, the house, the kids, cars, yardwork, all of it. I can’t thank her enough for cutting me loose, free from her wackiness, abuse and violence. I just wish it didn’t cost as much.

Enjoying this without the responsibility of caring for another person. You could never do this without her nagging in the background or forcing you to do some chores or make more money.

Peace…you found it May……

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

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