Lazy in bed

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

I left my marriage after 8 years (yes, you read that correctly)of no sex. My dear wife said we could probably resume sex
when the kids left for college, and she was serious.
My next relationship was with a woman on the rebound from her husband. I was very good in bed because it took me an hour to climax (medication I was on at the time). Meanwhile she’d be having the time of her lifeying there while I was banging her. She’d often talk about her ex husband straight after sex. She said he had called her frigid and lazy and her multiple orgasms was the great proof of how good she was in bed. Ha ha. She was as lazy as f~~~. Never gave me a blow job and even a hand job was rare. When I asked her in bed if she would touch me she said ‘asking does not get;wait until I decide’. About an hour later she did start to touch me only to stop and say she remembered she had an e mail to check (at 1 am). She said she would be back to carry on my hand job. 20 minutes later she was back and had forgotten all about my pleasure. She got into bed and told me to ‘cuddle her’. The was the code to kiss her back, go down on her for her first orgasm and then f~~~ her so she could have a ‘real deep one’.
And do you know what? I always complied. I confess. I was the biggest blue – pill attention – hungry man that would try to get her to forget about her ex husband by being a great lover.
My most ardent desire was actually have her stroke my back and not my c~~~. I don’t know why but it always made me feel totally relaxed. She’d only rarely do that-and for a total time of 2 minutes.
Geez. Do any of you guys hate yourselves for being so blue – pill in the past?

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

A woman thinks she’s good in bed because you made her climax many times? Checking an e-mail at 1 in the morning? Apparently her e-mail is more important than you.
The moment she said asking does not get, I would’ve put my clothes back on and left. You’d think most women would’ve quit teasing back in High School but then again, that’s the mentality of today’s modern women.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[BadgerSwagParticipant 70]

Yes. I’m appalled at what I put up with. Why they do that crap is beyond me. She would basically lay there like a damn potato. She’ll do a hand, if that’s instead of sex. Sometimes she’s say crap while I’m trying to get stuff going like… “Do we have to kiss?” “Why do we have to take clothes off?” (I’d actually had enough of that one time and just peeled her shorts to the side – done). A proper blow job? Yeah, right! One single half-ass blow job (basically hand job with lips on the tip) in 28 years.

Sorry. Marriage should be “tit for tat.” Somehow it became her expecting all tat with no tit. Well, I’m done with tat and realize tit is just an illusion anyway.

[BadgerSwagParticipant 70]

One sobering moment I had years ago, I was talking with a friend while on business in Russia (being the addicted blue-pill guy I was) and telling of the great anniversary present I had given my wife. I went through the trouble of studying diamonds and then sifted through loose diamonds at a store to specially pick each one that went into a custom-designed tennis bracelet. I had picked a few too many, so had earrings made of those. His response – “I’ll bet you got one hell of a blow job for that!” No, matter of f~~~in’ fact I didn’t. Now I was p~~~ed at my own stupidity. So, while shopping in Russia I bought a really nice Faberge pendant. But instead of my wife, I gave it to this chick at the office I thought was really hot. Now THAT resulted in the best blow job ever!

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Sparticus66 wrote:

Geez. Do any of you guys hate yourselves for being so blue – pill in the past?

Yes, yes & yes…

Even when I got sex, I still wasn’t getting sex…

Lay there like a potato sack.

I am fairly certain a fembot would move more, but I don’t have one to do experiments on to substantiate my claim with data.

Even if the lack of movement is across the board, at least it will be eyecandy & not hit me with STD’s & false rape charges.

[Anonymous 42]

If it isn’t saddling, straddling, and bumping uglys with both parties sweating, then it’s just easier and better to masturbate!

Landwhales and heffers are not capable of heated passionate sex.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Yes its funny looking back at the blue pill training,

[perpedes66Participant 259]

Yes, lazy and comfortable are the right terms. And there are always some excuses. Too warm, too cold, too loud, the neighbors, the new hairstyle, etc. When I think back I might come across 10 times of genial sex in all my relationships. Actually the border to necrophilia is really quickly exceeded.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Funny how women think they’re good in bed. They think it’s some talent to make a dude cum or even to cum a lot. Most women just sit there like a dead fish and then try to brag about how good they are. LOL

Anyway, what’s worse when a woman is more active and does all the riding and does more than sit there like a fish, and she thinks she’s hot s~~~, but she’s terrible at it LOL. Yep, sorry to break it, ladies, you’re not as good in bed as yo think you are.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[MENGINEERParticipant 583]

Heard the saying “familiarity breeds contempt”?

Been in a couple LTRs and arguments always get more prevalent while the sex gets repetitive as time goes on..

Not worth the trouble honestly..

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

I was reading an article on young guys that prefer to use prostitutes. It’s now so common in some parts of the country, that it’s almost acceptable.

Anyway, the comment that one guy made resonated with me. It went something like this “If I visit a prostitute she will have hot sex with me any time I want, always ready always willing. My Girlfiend on the other hand will make excusses that shes too tiered or what ever….And She’s supposed to Love Me?

It's Time to get Wise

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Sparticus66 wrote:

And do you know what? I always complied.

Brother, I am angry for you. Ugh if men just knew the S~~~ that goes on in women’s minds when we do things for them, we would not be doing crap like this. Glad you’re out of that phase. That was cringeworthy.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

“Why are all brides smilling?”, “Because they know they have given their last ever blow job” is 100% true. That is until they decide to get back on the carousel anyway.

Marriage is all about no blow jobs and reward sex. They use sex to control you so you will only get sex if you buy something expensive or install a new kitchen. This however is laying like a potato sack sex hoping you get it over as soon as possible.

After a couple of years you will find even this stops and you will be lucky to get sex once a month. The excuses will be “I’m too tired”, “I don’t feel very well”, “I can’t just turn it on you know”, “Stop pawing me, I have had the children all day, I am stressed” etc. They will try and give you a hand job just to avoid having to have sex with you.

Couple more years later and they will tell you that they are “just not interested in sex any more”. They will wear pyjamas to bed and pretend to fall asleep to avoid having to sleep with you. Any attempt to even cuddle them will be rejected with a “you only give me attention when you want to have sex” before turning away from you in bed.

Funnily enough, once they are separated the c~~~ carousel party starts and they become the biggest sluts you can imagine. F~~~ing 20 something guys, 3 somes, inviting chads over to suck them off etc. These are the women who told their husbands they were just not interested in sex.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Whoregies & as nasty as it can be is what they seem to get off on…
not that intimate lovemaking bonding s~~~ with the person they lied and said they loved & married.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Phantom wrote:

Whoregies & as nasty as it can be is what they seem to get off on…
not that intimate lovemaking bonding s~~~ with the person they lied and said they loved & married.

Totally agree, you would not believe what they get up to when the separation c~~~ carousel party starts. much younger guys, 3 somes, sex parties, they basically want to be f~~~ed as hard by as many c~~~s as possible in the most degrading way they can thing of. Rape fantasy is also high up, they want you to come over, force them on the bed or against a wall and f~~~ them while they pretend to struggle.

These are the same women who wouldn’t give their husband a blow job as “it’s gross” but they are happy to do the same to a chad they have never met before.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Anonymous 2]

Maybe I am an asshole for doing this, but I make it perfectly clear to any girl that a bad performance in the sack means I’ll get sex from someone else. It’s 2016, I’m 34, my SMV says I don’t need to accept this kind of s~~~… so I don’t.

Instead of expecting monogamy and getting it for free, it’s now up to THEM to satify me and prevent anything polysexual from happening.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

Totally agree, you would not believe what they get up to when the separation c~~~ carousel party starts. much younger guys, 3 somes, sex parties, they basically want to be f~~~ed as hard by as many c~~~s as possible in the most degrading way they can thing of.

I hear you on all that. One of the reasons I said my mind was blown regarding all the s~~~ Keymaster saw them doing before their wedding day, etc.

It just never dawned on me that they would do that type of s~~~ right before getting married. I don’t even want to refer to them as cupcake anymore, now, after that bullseye.

More like c~~~fake.
Edit: It was in The Most Guys are Losers thread, iirc…that KM was sharing on it. Just FYI.

[Artboy99Participant 369]

The last woman I had sex with was all about herself, a very self centered woman.
I believe she thought she was great in bed, but she was terrible in bed. I once went soft while she was giving me a blow job it was so bad.

[Better without YOUParticipant 234]

I could deal with the “lazy in bed” if they helped their man achieve their goals, but they won’t/can’t even do that. They are literally dead weight. Why the f~~~ do they insist on getting married?

[NeroParticipant 1466]

This thread is full of truth on sex and marriage. And, let me tell you, it does not matter if your sexual market value (SMV) is high or even higher than hers. You will get this treatment. I can also testify that it is partly our f~~~ing fault for EVER tolerating it from the beginning. Knowing what I know now, I would have demanded it or just cheated or just left her in the dust. It sounds immoral and degrading, but I have turned down heaps of potential, interested hotties over the years for the mundane grind of excuses or lack of enthusiasm discussed here.

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