Just Heard a Long Time Ex(?) is Hunting for Me

[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

Let this be a lesson to the men out there who think they can trust a woman to be faithful while they are gone.

[OldBillParticipant]

Tecumseh wrote:

I’ve got to admit, I’m completely lost now. I haven’t done anything whatsoever, yet I’m being talked to like I’m in the midst of engaging in some sort of criminal activity.

Huh? We’re warning you that your friend’s wife is going to rat you out to your ex. Nothing else.

We know and believe you have no intention of contacting her. We know and believe you have no intention of talking to her.

All we’re doing is warning you that there is very good chance you friend’s wife is going to give your ex your email, your cell number, and maybe even your address. There’s a very good chance that you’re going to get an email, a phone call, and maybe even a visit from your ex.

That’s it. She’s going to contact you despite your wishes.

Jiminy Christmas I just shared this story on here as an example of crappy female behavior that I detest and it’s ASSUMED that I’m sharing it because I’m considering talking to this person.

I didn’t assume that. No one else here is assuming that either. In fact, we’re certain of the exact opposite. You want nothing to do with this person and you aren’t going to talk with her.

However, she’s going to try and talk with you and she’s going to get the information she needs from your friend’s wife.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Tecumseh wrote:

I almost want to hear her out and see what kind of bulls~~~ she tries to pull with me just as an experiment. Unreal.

Hey man, your words here imply you are contemplating hearing her out, at bare minimum. then….

Tecumseh wrote:

and it’s ASSUMED that I’m sharing it because I’m considering talking to this person.

Well, by your own words in my first point, that would be the logical progression of your train of thought. i.e. You being on the fence about it.

Tecumseh wrote:

Let’s all just chill out. Man, some of the s~~~ on here is as toxic as my ex.

And then you conclude with this “gem” bomb??

Agree with you, you need to chill out and stop with this toxicity.

If you really think we men are NOT trying to give warnings of the risks and disaster waiting to happen, and that we are just being thought police, then that is truly sad…

What we have here is a failure to communicate. How many of us men have done the very thing we are warning you against??

How many of us paid the damn price for doing so? And you want to oversimplify it with thought police straw man argument?

Sadly gentlemen, there are some men you just can’t reach…no matter what you do….

Tecumseh wrote:

Yeah, f~~~ this place

Wow. Let this be a lesson men: Some have to learn s~~~ the hard way, no matter how many men have gone before and try to warn other’s of the traps that befell them along the way.

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

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[TecumsehParticipant 98]

Nathan R. Jessep wrote:

Let this be a lesson to the men out there who think they can trust a woman to be faithful while they are gone.

Congratulations to Nathan Jessup for actually reading my f~~~ing post and understanding WHY I POSTED IT.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Tecumseh wrote:

If you really want to examine yourself, go back and read the original post and ask yourself honestly if it’s deserving of all the f~~~ing preachy, judgmental responses. It’s like a f~~~in’ old ladies bridge club in here.

LOL, note to self….not worth expending my time and energy responding to your post because I failed to read your mind, etc.

Duly noted, and you wont have to concern yourself about me wasting your time or mine, again…

Good day sir.

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

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[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Tecumseh wrote:

Maybe if you have some uncertainty about what I meant, you should ask instead of being a dick. Nobody asked you to read my mind you f~~~.

You also, could take your own advice, instead of being a dick also you f~~~.

Two wrongs don’t make a right. Assuming I concede, and say you are right, your “logic” is lackluster…

done here

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

You’re right MGTOW Age. My apologies for being both a dick and a f~~~. I lost my s~~~ and I shouldn’t have.

I just am perplexed as to why nearly everyone on here missed the entire point of my post (except Nathan Jessup) and ignored my initial, very congenial attempts at clarification. I said half jokingly in my post I might hear what she has to say for research. I then came back and very clearly stated that I had no intention of talking to her. So I remain perplexed as to why so much preaching and animosity was directed toward me.

Still I regret my anger and inexcusable language and wish you well sir.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Tecumseh wrote:

You’re right MGTOW Age. My apologies for being both a dick and a f~~~. I lost my s~~~ and I shouldn’t have.

My apologies as well Tecumseh, but for whatever it’s worth, it was not my intention to give off any negative vibes of any kind.

I made the mistake of allowing a female access to me again, after yrs had passed, and I regretted my decision…I just didn’t want to see another brother make my mistake, was all.

Cheers bro, hope we got it sorted & are cool.

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

Yes, we are cool. I truly appreciate your kind understanding. It’s out of character for me to act this way. I’m not making a good first impression considering I’m new here.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Tecumseh wrote:

es, we are cool. I truly appreciate your kind understanding. It’s out of character for me to act this way. I’m not making a good first impression considering I’m new here.

Likewise bro, on your kindness & understanding as well.

Don’t even worry about it man, we handled it like men, and it’s done, over and all good in my book.

Cheers sir 🙂

[OldBillParticipant]

Tecumseh wrote:

I just am perplexed as to why nearly everyone on here missed the entire point of my post…

Missed the point of your post? Really?

We all agreed with you. We all agreed that you shouldn’t talk to her. We all knew you didn’t want to talk with her.

Then, when I and few others tried to warn you that she would get your contact info from your friend’s wife, you flipped your s~~~. We warned that your friend’s wife was going to rat you out and suddenly we’re the bad guys? Really?

We missed the point? We didn’t understand your posts? You’re perplexed?

I’m perplexed that someone could miss the point of my posts warning you that your friend’s wife was going to f~~~ you over.

Tell you what. Pull your head out of your ass, re-read this thread, and pay attention this time.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Tecumseh wrote:

Yeah, f~~~ this place, I’m out

Bye, Bye

Please help me, I’m trying to make sense of this particular posting.

This individual creates a posting, and then becomes annoyed when men begin to give him good solid advice because he:

Tecumseh wrote:

came here to relate

and apparently didn’t want any advice and everyone was supposed to some how know what he wanted without him telling us.

I’m not trying to offend the OP., but this is about as illogical as my wife’s reasoning, or maybe I am missing something here. Sir, we don’t read minds.

Between this and the Paul postings, I think I might find some solace in talking with the resident old lady. Just Joking, it sure as hell didn’t get as bad as all of that in here.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[JaguarFacedManSpectator 13]

stay away from this at all costs. There is a good chance that she will manipulate her poor unknowing husband into trying to fight you or something. this could blowup spectacularly if things hit the fan.

As if we havent swam enough...

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Not precisely about the topic, but about communication.

Sometimes when talking on online forums, the subject can go to every direction. I’m on kind of person that usually, if the subject is open, I feel free to talk about it in any way that I think that would be productive.

But that some times isn’t the direction that the post meant to go. So who fault it is ? NO ONE.

Communication problems happen. Just keep in mind that both sides can be responsible. As you can see, a lot of guys here didn’t get your point of view. So what you can do ? You can narrow down, filter, be specific.

After a story for example, if you don’t need advice, you can say for example “I wouldn’t meet her, I’m not even considering it, just to point out that she is a crazy bitch someone that I can’t trust”….

It’s not criticising what happened here, but just avoiding conflicts, as in the end of the story, we all spoke the very same thing and want the same thing, help each other.

[blacksheepmgtowParticipant 27]

I would tell my buddy to stay a very,very long way from her……and do the same thing myself. No Facebook,no text, no email and certainly no face to face. Having had some experience with vindictive, borderline ex I cannot emphasize enough the need to go No Contact……..if you acknowledge her existence, it only feeds her need for attention. Mine sometimes asks about me, but my buddies all say the same thing…..he ghosted and hasn’t been seen in a long time.

You CANNOT negotiate with crazy! Their thought process cannot handle logic and reason. They counter with dysfunction and hormonal thinking. best not to let them get that close.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Read your post again, out loud, even better read it to someone close to you. But do it out loud. Then ask yourself why would you do this again.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

I would give an EX a chance to try to convince me to be back with her again if only for the learning experience of what sort of bulls~~~ they would try to sell me that time.

Only problem is I could always read women like an open book and they know it, so they dont even try.
What I am saying is they dont even have the courage to try if they dont think its gonna work.
How much do you think they will “try” when the relationship aint going too well from their point of view?

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

CatsPaw wrote:

I would give an EX a chance

She had her chance…the first time.

Have you ever been actually kicked in the b~~~~?
Would you ever give that person a chance to do it again?

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