Just Heard a Long Time Ex(?) is Hunting for Me

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

Earlier tonight my friends wife said, “Did you tell Tecumseh that CrazyChick has been messaging you on Facebook asking about him?” CrazyChick is someone I last saw about 10 years ago. She was a friend of my buddy and had a military fiance who was almost always overseas. Somehow I became a shoulder to cry on and CrazyChick began to tell me how she believed her fiancé was cheating on her with foreign women. This progressed to her chucking her engagement ring out the window of a moving vehicle (allegedly) and breaking things off with him (allegedly). Not long thereafter we began to have a “closer” relationship. She was a bit nutty obviously, so it was on and off. We never really had an official relationship, so calling her my Ex is a bit of a misnomer.

So one day it occurs to me that she seems to have disappeared for good. Off the grid. Well, I learned her old man came home and she got back with him immediately, just like nothing ever happened. Of course, it didn’t take me long to realize maybe nothing DID ever happen between them – maybe she made that s~~~ up about him cheating, broken up, etc. just to get some action from me until he got home once she saw I wasn’t going to be a party to cheating.

According to her Facebook they are still married, have three kids…meanwhile, she is asking around about me with a degree of urgency, at this point for reasons unknown. WTF? I feel sorry for her damn husband. I almost want to hear her out and see what kind of bulls~~~ she tries to pull with me just as an experiment. Unreal.

[Anonymous 43]

stay away from this bulls~~~

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

Anonymous wrote:

stay away from this bulls~~~

This.

Do not communicate with her ever again.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Agree with the other men’s posts…

Tecumseh wrote:

I almost want to hear her out and see what kind of bulls~~~ she tries to pull with me just as an experiment. Unreal.

Rest assured, it will indeed be just that….bulls~~~, regardless of what it is.

If you do, you will wished you hadn’t…

[joetechParticipant]

Treat her like Ebola.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[TaoTheMgtowWandererParticipant 263]

one chance per lifetime per woman. Bar none.

My peace of mind is worth more then your vagina...cunt.

[SmeeParticipant 228]

All l’ll say is you need to remember paternity fraud stands at around 10 to 30 percent

Smee Again

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Don’t let your curiosity get the better of you. You have absolutely nothing to gain by talking to or seeing this lil cupcake again.

Tecumseh wrote:

I almost want to hear her out and see what kind of bulls~~~ she tries to pull with me just as an experiment. Unreal.

You already know that it’s going to be “bulls~~~”, so, what’s the point ? Say you actually meet up with her, and the lying nut case runs home to her hubby and tells him that you’re banging her ? Maybe he’s as nuts as she is, then he comes looking for you. It’s a stretch, but why even let the possibility take up any pace in your head.

LET IT GO !!!!!!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[OgreParticipant 5863]

You say it’s been ten years. She’s that much closer to the wall,and he’s probably deployed.

There is nothing to gain from allowing her to make contact.

Every once in a while I look at my first high school girlfriends’ photos on Facebook. I thank the flying spaghetti monster for dodging that f~~~ing bullet. The next one hit center mass, but I’ll make a full recovery.

Keep the memories and leave the lying and cheating bitch in your past.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Anonymous 18]

Now that junior is grown up he doesn’t quite resemble her ‘alleged’ father.

She is going down the line doing some process of elimination.

Perhaps, you are the father.

Not.

Ignore the nutcase.

[BritGHOWParticipant 2566]

Odds are you looking at one of two possibilities.

1. She made the biggest mistake of her life letting you go and getting back with him, you’re the love of her life and he’s an asshole, she wants you to save her.
2. She thinks at least one of the kids is yours and wants something.

Neither is worthy of you time or consideration, she had her chance and blew it, let he lie in the bed she made.

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

Thanks guys. Yeah, sorry, I wasn’t clear – I definitely won’t ever see her again. Among a thousand other reasons, I have never been a willing party to any cheating scenario. I was contemplating checking what she had to say online for scientific research, so to speak (to share on here). But mainly just posting to share my latest can-you-believe-this-s~~~ moment. Don’t worry, I’ll steer clear of her altogether. Thanks guys and hope all of you are well.

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

BritGHOW wrote:

2. She thinks at least one of the kids is yours and wants something.

Good point. Fortunately things didn’t go that far back in the day. I was very naive and very horny at that time, but my fear of messing my life up was strong then. Somehow it seems to have deteriorated a little with age, but I’m working on it. Which is one reason I’m very glad I found this site.

[Anonymous 43]

we don’t need the scientific research, we know from empirical experience. Do not go there. You do not want an 18 year reminder that we told you so. You do not want to be picked up for assault after she slams her face in a door and you were the last person seen with her. You do not want her standing on the porch the next morning “look I made blue berry muffins.”

Stay away from her. No good can come from this.

[OldBillParticipant]

Radio silence.

Tell your friend, the one who is stupid enough to still be on Facebook, that he should not contact her either.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

Ha ha, okay guys, I got it loud and clear! I would never see her in person, and no I won’t talk to her over the Internet either, you’re right. Not even in the name of “Science” :). Don’t want to chance a slippery slope, no matter how unlikely it seems. You’re right on target.

Anyway, I mainly posted because I think it’s crazy she’s got a seemingly happy family and is attempting the “monkey branch”, but I guess that’s nature and/or societal influence in action.

[OldBillParticipant]

Tecumseh wrote:

I would never see her in person, and no I won’t talk to her over the Internet either, you’re right.

You need to understand that you’re no longer in control of the situation. Whether contact is made or not isn’t up to you.

Your ex is contacting your friend about you via Facebook and your friend’s wife knows all about it. You won’t contact your ex and your friend won’t do the same, but his wife sure as hell will.

It’s what c~~~s do.

Be prepared for the email, phone call, or even knock on the door that is coming. Your friend’s wife will rat you out as sure as the sun comes up in the morning.

When the direct contact attempt occurs, you need to shut it down quickly and in no uncertain terms.

Be prepared.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

OldBill wrote:

Your ex is contacting your friend about you via Facebook and your friend’s wife knows all about it. You won’t contact your ex and your friend won’t do the same, but his wife sure as hell will.

It’s what c~~~s do

Head this warning. Women ALL have the hive mentality hardwired into them, and this is just the type of thing that gets the ole hive a buzzin.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

OldBill wrote:

Tecumseh wrote:

I would never see her in person, and no I won’t talk to her over the Internet either, you’re right.

You need to understand that you’re no longer in control of the situation. Whether contact is made or not isn’t up to you.

Your ex is contacting your friend about you via Facebook and your friend’s wife knows all about it. You won’t contact your ex and your friend won’t do the same, but his wife sure as hell will.

It’s what c~~~s do.

Be prepared for the email, phone call, or even knock on the door that is coming. Your friend’s wife will rat you out as sure as the sun comes up in the morning.

When the direct contact attempt occurs, you need to shut it down quickly and in no uncertain terms.

Be prepared.

I’ve got to admit, I’m completely lost now. I haven’t done anything whatsoever, yet I’m being talked to like I’m in the midst of engaging in some sort of criminal activity. You are starting to remind me of my ex-wife dude. Not good.

Jiminy Christmas I just shared this story on here as an example of crappy female behavior that I detest and it’s ASSUMED that I’m sharing it because I’m considering talking to this person.

Let’s all just chill out. Man, some of the s~~~ on here is as toxic as my ex.

[TecumsehParticipant 98]

Yeah, f~~~ this place, I’m out – I came here to relate and feel better not to feel like I’m under the thumb of the thought police. That’s why I got f~~~in’ divorced.

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