it feels good breaking girls hearts?

[FreeGhostSpectator 318]

Don’t discount this woman as possibly being worth your time. Yes, there is a high percentage chance that she is using you in someways, but from what I’ve seen, if she cares about you dumping her, you should at least reexamine your original proposition of he. Do this for your own future, not from my opinion. There are good women out there, yet it is a needle in a haystack scenario. Imagine knowing you passed up a needle in the haystack, how would you live with that? Just saying examine before you dismiss.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

BlackPill wrote:

it feels good breaking girls hearts?

“Breaking her heart” is just a poetic feminine euphemism for her not getting what she wants. It’s something she does to herself. How is that your problem?

It’s empowering, but at the same time i don’t want to get too drunk off of that false sense of power.

But is it really a sense of “power”, or is it more a sense of relief and freedom? Because if you think you have any power over her, think again. All you have is a better bargaining position.

I don’t know about you, but I always get a sense of satisfaction when I spot a trap… and step over it.

She’s upset because she’s realizing she doesn’t have any power over you and she has to actually earn everything she gets from you. Don’t be surprised if she now tries to use other ways to assert control over you and your resources. It’s probably only a matter of time before she tells you she’s pregnant. Have your cards lined up before she does that.

Or she’ll imply find some other chump and move on to greener pastures. When you tell her you are in it for the companionship alone, you are telling her that she can have you… but she can’t have your stuff. Her being upset about that says a lot about what she really wants, and it isn’t you. It’s the goodies, and she can get those elsewhere.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Best thing to do is not to give them what they want.

Think of them like Ferrel children, and what are most children like?, SELFISH. Me, me, me, me. Once the focus is taken off them, and crap isn’t given to them at the level they expect, they either chase you further or give up.

For example, A Child will want the sweetest candy, or the worst crap on the Menu, now a smart Parent will say: “well, hows about we eat this instead of this”

Sometimes it works, it worked for me. In my house growing up, if you didn’t like what was prepared before you, then make your own meal or starve. That’s how you have to be with Women. Direct in the beginning is the route i usually take because it avoids bulls~~~ later on, I can always fall back on “Hey, this is what I told you in the beginning, you don’t like it, then see ya….”

I totally understand where you’re coming from as far as breaking a heart goes, we’ve all done it, and I’m pretty sure most of us don’t really do it anymore. Why?, cause it ain’t fun for the most part, and secondly, Females are vicious when it comes to revenge. Especially with Snapchat revenge sex stories, and/or sex videos being posted of them banging other dudes while the video is rolling.

It’s good you were upfront in telling her it’s not going past sex. Trust me, her tears were shallow, she needed a reaction. Don’t give in to the tears, or any other form of manipulation.

Yeah, avoid that s~~~ all together.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[BiG_WeaselParticipant 116]

I’ve been here myself recently. Broke up with my last girlfriend, and an ex wanted to get back together. Went out, had a good time, and she pressured me into sex, which I wasn’t really into. Did it, she messaged me/called me, said I “sounded weird”. Told her that I was tired of pinballing from one relationship to the next with no time in between, and that the sex/hookup/whatever felt rushed, and left me feeling cold on the whole idea. She was generally p~~~ed off, and understandably so, but I gotta go with my gut. And my gut says no more of any of that. Focus on me. Do I feel bad? Yeah, but I also feel like I was used, despite her knowing me for a couple years, and my backstory- I was content to just hang out. Can’t take it back, but, it is what it is, as they say.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

Blackpill is the chosen one. He will bring balance back to the force. Dude, I’m totally with you. It’s really funny how non feeling I am about women now. I’m totally like you’re lucky to be around me now because later I will want you gone. Women always have to get these emotional attachments and I’m guessing you are a guy with resources. These are the women to weed out and throw them away like a used condom!

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