it feels good breaking girls hearts?

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Ever since going MGTOW, i’ve been emotionally disconnected from women to a point.

Just recently I told a girl the deal about not getting into a relationship with her and all I’m in for it is the companionship and physical intimacy. She was all about it. of course with more frequency and f~~~ing, they start to get “too close”, so while we were in bed, I told her verbatim, “listen, I’m fine with all of this f~~~ing and cuddling s~~~, but you realize that’s all it will ever be….right?” She started shaking and had tears in her eyes and that’s when it hit me; I felt……great about it. It feels good to not be the chump getting dumped or heartbroken and being the one who does it to women all the time. It’s empowering, but at the same time i don’t want to get too drunk off of that false sense of power.

She said she will want “more” in the future. I told her that when it gets to that point then feel free to leave and do whatever. She told me to tell her if i’m seeing anyone else…i just said yea sure nonchalantly. she told me she will tell me if she is seeing anyone else and i told her “don’t because I won’t care.” I just had to be straight up, but her baby doll face had tears held back and I didn’t really have an ounce of sympathy. I found it quite intriguing though… Like she ALREADY fell in f~~~in love with me within a matter of days and she got so emotional already. I also think of all of the guys in relationships being influenced their overbearing partner and they would be the ones crying in this situation while their GF holds their b~~~~ in their clasp.

I remember being way too emotion with women which caused me to never even get physical with them.
But now, it feels good to be emotionally distant yet physical.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

BlackPill wrote:

Like she ALREADY fell in f~~~in love with me within a matter of days and she got so emotional already.

Yep, she told the last guy that, she told you that, and she’ll tell the next guy that.
Same thing with marriage. She’ll want to marry you and spend the rest of her life with you because she loves you so much.
After it’s over, she’ll go and marry the very next guy.
As long as she’s f~~~ing you, keep her around.
The second she stops, cut her loose.

[HitmanParticipant]

get that ass , lie , lie , lie ! then lead her over a thousand foot cliff ..DO NOT FALL WITH HER ! enjoy , rinse , repeat ! ….

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

It feels bad to me. That’s why I try not to put myself in a similar position

Speaking your mind, telling the truth, and holding your ground – that felt good, not her suffering.
If you really get off on suffering – you might have a problem

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[BeerParticipant 11832]

XSDBS wrote:

Yep, she told the last guy that, she told you that, and she’ll tell the next guy that.
Same thing with marriage. She’ll want to marry you and spend the rest of her life with you because she loves you so much.
After it’s over, she’ll go and marry the very next guy.

You have pretty much just summed up why overly slutty carousel riders disgust me. I don’t feel like a stud picking up a hotty…I feel like a tool that is getting stuck paying full price for a well used cum dumpster. How special do you feel being with her knowing she fed the same s~~~ to the 20+ guys before you, and will be feeding it to someone else less than a month after you are done with her?

[EntropyParticipant 902]

My $0.02,

Her “shaking” was not sadness… it was anger, the tears were for show (s~~~ test)

Saying she will want “more” in the future (s~~~ test) Means she’ll want more FROM you… not OF your dick…

Telling you she’ll notify you if/when she’s seeing someone else is her attempt to punch you in the b~~~~ emotionally (s~~~ test)

I’d say she cares less about you than you think…

… and I dont mean just in YOUR case… I say that because it is IMPOSSIBLE to care less about a woman than they already care about you.

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[Anonymous 42]

I don’t like hurting them, and damned if you help them! I’m going with KeyMaster’s “their like parking meters and trashcans”, nothing more, nothing less…

[OldBillParticipant]

BlackPill wrote:

Ever since going MGTOW, i’ve been emotionally disconnected from women to a point.

That’s a good thing. It’s one of the benefits.

Just recently I told a girl the deal about not getting into a relationship with her and all I’m in for it is the companionship and physical intimacy.

That’s good too. You’re being honest with yourself and her. I routinely tell the women I choose to get involved with the same thing. They are told from the start that I am interested in nothing but physical intimacy and occasional companionship. They’ll be nothing but a sexual partner and occasional dinner/theatre/outdoor activity companion. I want nothing more and they can never be anything more. Honesty prevents trouble in the future.

But now, it feels good to be emotionally distant yet physical.

Now that is a little troubling. Are you emotionally distant because you’re a MGHOW and it’s the right thing for you to do? Or are you emotional distant because hurting women’s feelings now gives you pleasure? Enjoying their hurt means you still care just as hating means you still care. As a MGHOW you should no longer care. You should no longer manipulate their emotional state for you own reasons.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

She simply went through the check list of manipulation tools, the fact you thought she was sad, and not angered or annoyed and simply playing her emotional manipulation cards, is something to consider for future reference.

Women will always be emotionally better manipulators, the second you realize this, the earlier you will catch on to each play, she may be playing fast new ones, but at least you will know it’s all part of a grand manipulation wheel.

While she’s playing sad with you, she’s probably already fishing 2 other men into her web.

[UntamedParticipant]

They all do/say the same s~~~ to trap you back into the plantation. As soon as they give you pussy they expect marriage, the ring, the kids, the divorce, the alimony and Child Support. That’s the usual logical unfolding of a typical relations~~~ that lasts more than a year nowadays. I don’t get any pleasure in hurting their feeeeelings yet I do realize that more than 95% of the time they’re neither genuinely ‘in love’ nor do they care about you as a person. If you ever can see through the eyes of a woman you’ll see a bunch of wallets and meal tickets walking around instead of flesh and blood Men. Weemin are so manipulative that they themselves get confused between their true and false considerations. I can’t bring myself to believe even a word that comes out of a weemin. The one I been seeing for months is holding to our bargain, so far. I think she knows damn well not to even utter the words ‘relationship’ or ‘marriage’ around me, she knows I’ll disappear as soon as she mention any of that Plantation lingo.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

XSDBS wrote:

BlackPill wrote:

Like she ALREADY fell in f~~~in love with me within a matter of days and she got so emotional already.

Yep, she told the last guy that, she told you that, and she’ll tell the next guy that.Same thing with marriage. She’ll want to marry you and spend the rest of her life with you because she loves you so much.After it’s over, she’ll go and marry the very next guy.As long as she’s f~~~ing you, keep her around.The second she stops, cut her loose.

of course. The only reason I have her around is to f~~~.

Burgundy wrote:

She simply went through the check list of manipulation tools, the fact you thought she was sad, and not angered or annoyed and simply playing her emotional manipulation cards, is something to consider for future reference.
Women will always be emotionally better manipulators, the second you realize this, the earlier you will catch on to each play, she may be playing fast new ones, but at least you will know it’s all part of a grand manipulation wheel.
While she’s playing sad with you, she’s probably already fishing 2 other men into her web.

that’s fine, she can go through as many of her tools as she wants…..it was ineffective.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

BTW, I don’t get off on the fact that i’m hurting women, I get off on the fact that I’m not on THAT side anymore. I used to be hurt by women and not get any pussy from them, but now i’m so self-actualized and confident that It’s the other way around. I am far past red pill rage and am not doing this stricly to hurt women. It also feels good because I see so many chumps around me than would be the guy crying and being manipulated and have his nuts stomped on, but I am not there anymore. It is like watching your progress and then looking back at how far you’ve come.

I am MGTOW because I have goals in life that I need to achieve before I die and don’t need to be slowed down.

[OldBillParticipant]

BlackPill wrote:

BTW, I don’t get off on the fact that i’m hurting women…

Yet you began a thread titled it feels good breaking girls (sic) heart?.

… I get off on the fact that I’m not on THAT side anymore.

It’s good to acknowledge your accomplishments.

… now i’m so self-actualized…

Self-actualized? Really? That’s definitely not what you claim later.

It also feels good because I see so many chumps around me than would be the guy crying and being manipulated and have his nuts stomped on…

You not self-actualized because you still compare yourself to other men. If you’re truly self-actualized, if you’re truly a MGHOW, you no longer compare yourself to others. At it’s core, MGTOW is a form of Stoicism. Sadly, given the s~~~ tier education system these days, it’s no wonder why many young men have never heard of it.

It is like watching your progress and then looking back at how far you’ve come.

That is what you should feel good about. That is the only thing you should feel good about. You only should compare yourself to your earlier self. Comparing yourself to other men is a trap. If the comparison is favorable to you, you’re a budding egotist. If the comparison is unfavorable to you, you’re on your way to despondency.

As a MGHOW, you should be your own yardstick.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[megatoad69Participant 449]

This is good stuff!
Doing the whole relationship thing sounds like a job (yes job, one pours a lot of time and mental resources into getting women, I look back in the past thinking, MAN! The things I could have gotten done!) I no longer want to take on and chances are she has larvae to raise which adds a whole new level of caution BS.
And hearing stories of being sued for child support for some other douchebags kids, why would I even want to risk that?.

BlackPill is simply stating that he wants the pussy, but he refuses to let it control him, sure it may make a woman sad, but you know what, women in my past sure had no trouble dispensing sadness to me!

Female double standard, they cry because they can’t believe, are in a state of disbelief that the power of pussy failed them, and now they have to try harder! They want YOU to be the one who tries, and fails, gives them pride, gives them hope in being efficient resource suckers, wether it be your money, muscle labour, or time.

Personally, I made a vow to never live under the same roof with a woman, been there already, and fighting being controlled is not my idea of happiness as a man.

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

OldBill wrote:

BlackPill wrote:

BTW, I don’t get off on the fact that i’m hurting women…

Yet you began a thread titled it feels good breaking girls (sic) heart?.

… I get off on the fact that I’m not on THAT side anymore.

It’s good to acknowledge your accomplishments.

… now i’m so self-actualized…

Self-actualized? Really? That’s definitely not what you claim later.

It also feels good because I see so many chumps around me than would be the guy crying and being manipulated and have his nuts stomped on…

You not self-actualized because you still compare yourself to other men. If you’re truly self-actualized, if you’re truly a MGHOW, you no longer compare yourself to others. At it’s core, MGTOW is a form of Stoicism. Sadly, given the s~~~ tier education system these days, it’s no wonder why many young men have never heard of it.

It is like watching your progress and then looking back at how far you’ve come.

That is what you should feel good about. That is the only thing you should feel good about. You only should compare yourself to your earlier self. Comparing yourself to other men is a trap. If the comparison is favorable to you, you’re a budding egotist. If the comparison is unfavorable to you, you’re on your way to despondency.
As a MGHOW, you should be your own yardstick.

yes, there are a lot of truth to your points and I may have worded my topic wrong or it took a little uncovering to find out why I was actually happy in that situation, but ultimately i feel like I’ve made progress because I’m not that emotional chump anymore ready to worship the pussy on a whim and do anything for it, but instead, i get it on MY terms now. Seeing someone else put the pussy on the pedestal and perpetually and consciously suffering just confirms my stance and makes me happier that I’ve chose this route.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

megatoad69 wrote:

This is good stuff!Doing the whole relationship thing sounds like a job (yes job, one pours a lot of time and mental resources into getting women, I look back in the past thinking, MAN! The things I could have gotten done!) I no longer want to take on and chances are she has larvae to raise which adds a whole new level of caution BS.And hearing stories of being sued for child support for some other douchebags kids, why would I even want to risk that?.
BlackPill is simply stating that he wants the pussy, but he refuses to let it control him, sure it may make a woman sad, but you know what, women in my past sure had no trouble dispensing sadness to me!
Female double standard, they cry because they can’t believe, are in a state of disbelief that the power of pussy failed them, and now they have to try harder! They want YOU to be the one who tries, and fails, gives them pride, gives them hope in being efficient resource suckers, wether it be your money, muscle labour, or time.
Personally, I made a vow to never live under the same roof with a woman, been there already, and fighting being controlled is not my idea of happiness as a man.

That’s exactly my stance. I am not on the same page as the people who say that they feel bad when they “hurt” women (even though i still told them to deal from the get-go). They had no problem doing it to me in the past, and the girls I f~~~ with now had no problem doing it to their previous partners. Call me a cold, calculated, callous, c~~~. I’m still happy to be the one doing the perceived damage than being damaged.

[OldBillParticipant]

BlackPill wrote:

… just confirms my stance and makes me happier that I’ve chose this route.

Ahhh… understood. You’re happy with your accomplishments. That’s great to hear.

You’re doing fine. Keep striving and keep moving forward. You’re a fine example to us all.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

By way of ignoring them – YES. Most definitely. because ignoring her is not the same as treating her badly. She will torture herself and that’s not your problem.

But setting out to break a heart (and being wreckless with it) doesn’t make me feel good. I did that once. I didn’t even do it intentionally or with any real malice. Being reckless with other hearts, I’m just not built that way……. and when I found out that she was crushed by it, I felt bad. When women do this to men, they WILL get their payback. Nature already takes care of this for us.

But merely turning off the tap to the constant flow of attention she needs…. is so immensely satisfying, I can’t even express it with words.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[The Long WalkParticipant 1282]

@blackpill

You may as well be playing with a bag full of rattlesnakes. Women are vengeful, we all know this, it’s well documented, and currently they wield all the power they need to ruin your life and have you locked up for potentially a very long time. As entertaining as it might be to toy with them, It’s not wise or ethical by any standard.

[QcummerParticipant 652]

damn this is a great thread

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