Is it wise to visit MGTOW.com daily?

[JohnParticipant 114]

Dear all,

i love this awesome place Keymaster and crew have created. It is unique and it’s wisdom literally saved me. Thank you!

Today i finally did what i long had in mind and gave meditation a try. The great thing about this is i actually feel relaxed and got new energy. So i am wondering if it might be better to unplug from time to time. Just to gain perspective and return with new input to contribute to this forum.

As long as i spend so much time to ponder about women i feel they have still power over me.

The best to you,
John

[experiencedParticipant]

Another question.
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You’ll notice by reading this site, over time, that some guys take breaks every now and then, and some guys take shorter / longer breaks at different intervals.
Probably reading intros of guys that have gotten destroyed two or three or more times by women, and knowing that these are some pretty sharp guys, has done more to keep me refreshing my studies here.
It’s all fun and games, definitely to be taken lightly, until you or another guy does himself in. There was a poster here a while back who had the stat on men killing themselves every nine minutes in Australia after having their families / relationships with their kids / futures / destroyed by free thinking women. Free spirited women who value their marriage vows like toilet paper depending upon current time frame etc.

Tuna.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 0]

John wrote:

Today i finally did what i long had in mind and gave meditation a try. The great thing about this is i actually feel relaxed and got new energy. So i am wondering if it might be better to unplug from time to time. Just to gain perspective and return with new input to contribute to this forum.

Meditation isn’t a substitute for MGTOW. You can do both. Or neither. Or one or the other.

In other words, I don’t get the connection.

I used to meditate for years. It was a good stress management tool. That is, it was good for helping me de-stress and get to sleep at night.

But man does not live by meditation alone. One still needs MGTOW to help figure out work-arounds for dealing with women. Women are sources of stress, which also makes MGTOW a good de-stresser.

[Anonymous 42]

Well said experienced!

We know more about the law and how it’s legislated to ruin men! We know more about the current onslaught of misandrious laws and legislation than any woman ALIVE! Including the LAWYERS at Southern Law that would have the audacity to call us a hate group when there’s so many men we’ve alerted to these dangerous and deadly conditions!

MEN SAVING MEN FROM GYNOCENTRISM AND THE SLAUGHTER OF MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE RAPE? And a million other f~~~overs?

If that’s “HATRED” (in their high-speed hamster-wheel heads) then all I have to say to Southern Law is big fat strong independent F~~~ YOU!

[Buller100Participant 2189]

I think logging in every day is a good idea, its very hard to unlearn what you have learnt.

We were brought up in the “Women first men are nothing but slaves soviet” we were programmed to put them first I find logging in most days gives me guidance and reading the experiences guys have had which compare with mine are of value , food for thought.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

I log in daily. I don’t do the same thing every time I’m here. I put the audio casts on while I cook. Watch a video the next day. Follow a link someone shared. I like my daily MGTOW affirmations, so long as they are the positive or educational ones. Some post are misogyny. I understand redpill rage and sympathize. However, I don’t ingest those because part of my journey is to move away from anger.
Daily positive MGTOW is a uplift for me just like daily meditation.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

John wrote:

As long as i spend so much time to ponder about women i feel they have still power over me.

You FEEL?

That’s easily cured. The power you “feel” they have over you is only fabricated in your head. Like anything. The only “power” women have over you is what you give them. Give them nothing and the problem is solved.

John wrote:

So I am wondering if it might be better to unplug from time to time

???

The act of visiting IS — >> “unplugging”.

Is it wise to visit MGTOW.com daily

Who can say, but recently mgtow.com was recommended by a clinical psychologist to a patient to improve his state of mind, mental health and well being.

So “wise” isn’t really the question.
Someone thinks it’s a necessity.

But perhaps you should tell yourself “visiting mgtow.com daily is certain to yield long-term negative outcomes”. This way, whenever you visit, you will know it’s because you really need to.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[narwhalParticipant]

Reminds me of my days when I was a much more devote Christian. The common message was that it was good to read your bible everyday. I see a lot of similarities here.

Is it wise? For most yes, but if you spend your time here to the point where you aren’t living your life, then it’s bad. If you read so much here that you’re incapable of challenging what you see here against what you see in your daily life, then it’s too much.

At the same time, there isn’t a lesson that doesn’t need to be relearned from time to time. There is temptation out there that is constantly asking you to rethink your current way of looking at the world.

A better question may be, is it wise for a wife to repeat her vows daily?

Ok. Then do it.

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

MGTOW is an antidote to our gynocentric society to be taken when needed. I find my daily dose useful. I find the ability to share my feelings of outrage with my brothers helpful after seeing men degraded on TV and movies. Especially when fashion and sports clothes portray men’s bodies as ugly and slutty female bodies as superior to men’s.
I also need an antidote to the portrayal of female infidelity as “empowerment”

[Anonymous 18]

John wrote:

So i am wondering if it might be better to unplug from time to time.

Certainly.

As much power there is in mgtow, it is also VERY comforting to be with men that think alike and see things from the same lens. Based on evidence and facts, so it is far removed from an ‘echo chamber’ as a member ‘Snake’ accused of it.

Having said that, I personally, do like to step back and turn my mind completely off from the stink men are conditioned to live in. I took some 4-5 months off posting/reading any mgtow related stuff.

The way I utilize mgtow resources is in dosages and when I feel I am getting pre-occupied with the unfairness of women and their advantages I unplug. And focus on other things.

I like it in spurts. To each their own.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

You bet it is. It is one of the only non “safe spaces” there is. Speak your mind elsewhere and watch feminists scurrying to gag you, and thanks to places like this, they are now done.

http://www.therebel.media/university_of_chicago_says_no_to_trigger_warnings_and_safe_spaces_in_epic_must_read_letter

[joetechParticipant]

I’m new and I visit daily. This helps me to unload all the s~~~ and get my spirit cleaned out. I’m going to wax philosophical here, so bear with me. I’m in a relationship right now. My 2nd wife once told me, “When you live with someone you adapt to them.” 2nd wife was a good one. 1st one…some other time. I’ve noticed all my life the double standards we all see in society. Am I in a trap? Yep! Did I walk right into it? Yep? See, my problem is that I’ve never given the type of woman we all hate the time of day. As a result the women I break up with say ‘adios’ and we go our separate ways. You guys would probably call me a mangina if you saw my living situation, but a lot of people my age have had their children move in with them with the economy being so ‘great’. We have a 21st century family here. Is it hard putting up with my GF and her attitude. It was, until she started to change her perspective. She needs me, and she’s finally realizing that she can’t do it all herself. She loves me…more than any other woman ever has. Would I leave if I could? No. There’s a two year old boy here that I don’t want to leave alone here with GF and her daughter. HE needs me…and he needs all of you, too. And I was wondering what I was going to do when I retire. Yeah, I visit daily. After a while I suppose I’ll visit less frequently. Thank you all for your support.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[HitmanParticipant]

It makes you wiser..
Take the red pills as needed.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Have you seen the crazy insane chicks out there?

MGTOW is humorous. I always get a few laughs visiting.

We have some very sharp guys here as well and I always learn something.

Visit daily? Hell, I visit twice daily.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

I’ve come here daily since discovering MGTOW.com back in December, 2015. And like some others, I also skip all the posts that rage against feminism and women in general, but I devour the personal war stories and life beyond red pill rage posts.

We all have a lifetime of unlearning to do here, so if you feel safe enough to take long breaks, then go for it. But man, if you start getting the feelz for some special cupcake trying to worm her way into your life, then you’d better get back here fast.

Good luck out there.

[JohnParticipant 114]

experienced wrote:

Another question.
It’s all fun and games, definitely to be taken lightly, until you or another guy does himself in. There was a poster here a while back who had the stat on men killing themselves every nine minutes in Australia after having their families / relationships with their kids / futures / destroyed by free thinking women. Free spirited women who value their marriage vows like toilet paper depending upon current time frame etc.

I see. Probably there is many ways to look at this site. Let me just pick two of them, one is its function as FAQ and warning to men, the other is how you use for it your personal needs.

I know what it’s like, i paid dearly and lost so much. It relaxes me to tune out women and to unplug from topics which contain them. Never did it for years and for me as strange as it sounds is a new experience and it is a peaceful one.

Keymaster wrote:

John wrote:

As long as i spend so much time to ponder about women i feel they have still power over me.

You FEEL?

That’s easily cured. The power you “feel” they have over you is only fabricated in your head. Like anything. The only “power” women have over you is what you give them. Give them nothing and the problem is solved.

By re-reading i saw that my words were not properly chosen. I meant that the topic “women” takes so much time in my daily life. It feels good to take a break and not to think about it. Running on this 24/7 effects my social behaviour too after a good dose of red pills. By reflecting myself i observed that is better for me not to read hot topics before i have to deal with women.

With “they have power over me” i meant not women in general but that they as a topic haunt me. To be free and not pondering about this many hours a day i need to find a way to unplug. Or in other words to find my healthy doses.

Keymaster wrote:

John wrote:

So I am wondering if it might be better to unplug from time to time

???

The act of visiting IS — >> “unplugging”.

Yes and no. Yes because it is escaping the Matrix. But even if you unplug by visiting the topic “women” and what comes with it is still present. After pondering about this for so many years i have a hard time to shut it down. What helps is to get sucked into another activity (no pun intended).

Keymaster wrote:

Is it wise to visit MGTOW.com daily

Who can say, but recently mgtow.com was recommended by a clinical psychologist to a patient to improve his state of mind, mental health and well being.

So “wise” isn’t really the question.
Someone thinks it’s a necessity.

But perhaps you should tell yourself “visiting mgtow.com daily is certain to yield long-term negative outcomes”. This way, whenever you visit, you will know it’s because you really need to.

My main post lacks a few things. Visiting this site definitely effects my behaviour to women in daily life and not always for the better. After soaking up so much knowledge i can clearly see pattern of manipulation from women on a daily base. I have a hard time maintaining my pokerface.

As important as it is to watch the threats but i don’t want to make it the center of my life. I want to live again and after taking the red pill there is no going back. Guess i just stopped to live a life in the real world at some point and instead lived a life in online research and pondering about women.

MGTOW is the cure no doubt about that. What also helps is to fill my life with something good and get positive effects from that, for instance playing an instrument.

narwhal wrote:

Is it wise? For most yes, but if you spend your time here to the point where you aren’t living your life, then it’s bad. If you read so much here that you’re incapable of challenging what you see here against what you see in your daily life, then it’s too much.

Yep, this is a pretty good summary about my situation. Thanks for pointing this out, wasn’t aware of it. Hate to admit it but besides this there is not much left. Need to find a way to recover and be at peace.

[JohnParticipant 114]

Anonymous wrote:

Meditation isn’t a substitute for MGTOW. You can do both. Or neither. Or one or the other.

In other words, I don’t get the connection.

Should have pointed this out more clearer. “My great revelation” was that i unplugged and was at peace for a few moments. Meditation was a new tool for me to do that. Sounds ridiculous i know but it was the first time in years to shut this down. It takes way too much room for me and eats me up. I am in recovery and try to build a new life.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

John wrote:

I meant that the topic “women” takes so much time in my daily life

Just don’t let then live in your head rent-free.

For example…. I don’t ever have to deal with “feminists” directly in real life. Only once did I encounter one who started on about “equality and women’s rights” in a totally inappropriate setting and I will not be suckered into HER debate/frame. So I just “lol I don’t speak to feminists” and walked away.

Solved.

I could have said “Why do you feminists only ever sing about women’s RIGHTS while failing to mention women’s RESPONSIBILITIES?”……. but she doesn’t even deserve the time of day.

She will never get one second of airtime, attention or consideration as long as you’re wearing the MGHOW bullet-proof vest. She has no “power” to even bend a conversation in her direction. And if you’re not properly prepared, you may just be suckered into some bulls~~~ debate about “rape” when you’re just out trying to live your life and have a good time.

MEETING A FEMINIST AT 5AM
/video/meeting-a-feminist-at-5am/

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 0]

John wrote:

Should have pointed this out more clearer. “My great revelation” was that i unplugged and was at peace for a few moments. Meditation was a new tool for me to do that. Sounds ridiculous i know but it was the first time in years to shut this down. It takes way too much room for me and eats me up. I am in recovery and try to build a new life.

Okay, fine. If you have trouble unplugging, then yes, it’s good to work on your “unplugging skills.”

A side note:

Researchers have discovered that men tend to stress out more than women when under pressure. Men are geared toward getting stressed by conflict or worries, and we’ll often brood and try to anticipate all kinds of problems, that is, take a pessimistic approach and anticipate the worst-case scenario. To deal with this, men need to work on managing anger and stress. If you want to read in more detail about this, I did a post about it here: /forums/topic/let-it-go/#post-280930

So yeah, it’s important for all men to get a handle on that. If it means taking breaks from the cynicism and trash talk that sometimes occurs here, then fine.

But that’s kind of YOUR thing. It’s something YOU need to work on individually. Others here have a higher tolerance for that kind of thing, or just flat out need this kind of discussion so that they can get a handle on these issues. So the message board can’t adjust to your individual need to unplug; it’s for you to work out how much you can handle for yourself.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

John wrote:

By re-reading I saw that my words were not properly chosen

Was going to add It’s not important that you choose “the right words”. Out there, you often have to be careful, but not here – because there is no consequence. It wasn’t even the “wrong” word.

The word “feel” just jumps out of ANY sentence at me as very different to the word “think”. So does the word “seems”.

• “It seems to me….”
• “It feels like….”
• “I feel …..” ( instead of I think )
• “You seem….” (instead of asking the question)

That’s the only reason I responded to it separately.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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