Indian parents pressuring me to marry, need advice…

[OdinParticipant 524]

Yo guys, Odin here. Recently my parents have been pestering me about marriage and how they’ve “found” a girl for me to marry. I don’t even know the girl, I have not yet even seen her face; but she’s seen mine. My mother sat down in my room whilst I was browsing on the computer and kept telling me that it’s time to marry; that my grandparents are getting old and want to see me married; that my sister wants a sister-in-law, and how my parents want grand-kids. I’m sorry but, who gives a f~~~ about all them? This is my life. Not theirs.

What should I do? I’m still 23, I don’t want to marry young. Any advice I tried to get off Reddit was just telling me to man up. I earn £1000-1500 per freelance project I do for animation. Is it time to run away? :/

[Anonymous 1]

F~~~ them, f~~~ all of them, what about WHAT YOU WANT??

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Point out how the law will screw you over?

You stated you have a sister. If she is an adult, has she been married and divorced? If so, did she screw over the ex-husband in court? If so, point out that ex-husband as an example of your future if you get married or father children.

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

If you are not dependent on them financially, I say it’s time to leave the nest and if necessary, break off contact with them altogether.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[Anonymous 0]

The whole marriage system is broken now. It’s been broken since at least the 60’s. Tell them that too.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

It’s time to tell them to bugger off.

I have been reading about divorce in India and it is all bad.

All the 496 crap, dowry abuse charges mean your whole family goes to jail.

they want you to marry so you’re sister gets a playmate. F~~~ that.

IF YOU DON’T WANT TO GET MARRIED DON’T DO IT.

Be strong, be your own man.

Do what YOU want.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 0]

I know it’s supposed to be rare for Indians to divorce but I know a couple that is. So that’s 33% of the Indians I know are divorced.

[Anonymous 43]

grandparents getting old is no reason for you to get married to someone you have never seen before in your whole life.

[Anonymous 0]

Use the business risk benefit analysis. All risk and no benefit.

[OdinParticipant 524]

Faust For Science wrote:

Point out how the law will screw you over?

You stated you have a sister. If she is an adult, has she been married and divorced? If so, did she screw over the ex-husband in court? If so, point out that ex-husband as an example of your future if you get married or father children.

She’s married right now and quite frankly makes her husband her slave.

Cataphract wrote:

If you are not dependent on them financially, I say it’s time to leave the nest and if necessary, break off contact with them altogether.

I’m currently dependent on them as I live with them, I should be able to afford my own place by now. It’s the breaking off the entire family part that seems hard to do.

You can’t talk about MGTOW to any of these people, it really is like talking to a brick wall.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

If you can’t afford to go on your own how can you afford a wife?

Will they cast you out if you don’t marry? If not f~~~ them.

I saw that in india, if you promise to marry, have sex, and then break off the engagement, you can be charged with rape. Is that true?

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 3]

Demand a 16 year old virgin and a massive dowry/house.

Force them to put their own skin in the game. It’s easy for people to tell others to do something, but people tend to be far less interested when they have to invest and put themselves at risk.

If they want you married, then they better give you title to the house. A man needs property before he can be married after all.

[OdinParticipant 524]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

If you can’t afford to go on your own how can you afford a wife?

Will they cast you out if you don’t marry? If not f~~~ them.

I saw that in india, if you promise to marry, have sex, and then break off the engagement, you can be charged with rape. Is that true?

No idea, but that sounds scary as f~~~.

[Anonymous 0]

Another option is pretend to go along with them but stall long enough to get sorted to leave on your own.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Odin wrote:

She’s married right now and quite frankly makes her husband her slave.

Point that out to your parents. If they still want you to get married then it is time for you to cut ties and run.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

I saw that in india, if you promise to marry, have sex, and then break off the engagement, you can be charged with rape. Is that true?

There have been stories posted here of Indian men who just break up with a woman, and have acid thrown in their face by her or her family/friends.

[OdinParticipant 524]

I’ve seen enough stories on here, and had personal experiences with women to know that marriage is s~~~. Guess I’ll give my parents a stern talking to, no doubt they’ll pull out the gay card or something.

[Anonymous 3]

Pedal, run, row wrote:

Jan Sobieski wrote:

I saw that in india, if you promise to marry, have sex, and then break off the engagement, you can be charged with rape. Is that true?

There have been stories posted here of Indian men who just break up with a woman, and have acid thrown in their face by her or her family/friends.

India takes blue pill to a whole new level. They’re also broke as dirt out there, and they reproduce and live like insects. It’s crazy. What they need to do is reduce their population, badly, and increase their standard of living. They just won’t do it.

It’s strange to see the power of feminism along with poverty. I had been certain feminism was only possible with affluence and large government. India has a large, corrupt government, but is very poor, and they still have feminism, so I guess there is just no stopping feminism no matter what.

[OdinParticipant 524]

Just to clear up, I don’t live in India, I was born in the UK. Sorry, I should of mentioned that earlier. But I’m still ethnically Indian (grandparents are from there), family is incredibly blue pill, and Indian chicks were never attractive to me in the the first place.

[StormtrooperParticipant 1080]

Odin wrote:

I’ve seen enough stories on here, and had personal experiences with women to know that marriage is s~~~. Guess I’ll give my parents a stern talking to, no doubt they’ll pull out the gay card or something.

People accuse me of being gay as a way to provoke me, I just look at them say “yes I’m gay, I’m a very cheery person.”

(1940s use of the word gay=happy)

Having a girlfriend is like owning a gun, the longer your around it, the more you want to shoot it.

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