I'm in a fix

[HermitParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

Divorced Waitress in her late 40’s met an older widower that has a “BIG House” in Ohio and enough resources to spend months in Florida, and she’s READY TO MOVE IN to the “BIG House”…….Yeah, SHE’s IN LOVE…..LOL LOL LOL LOL

That’s the main problem I see in this situation. He divulged way too much about himself. If ya’ wanna’ have fun with a gal without it getting too messy, you don’t have a big house in Ohio. You’ve lost everything except that camper that you have to live in and you’re almost broke. You can’t stay in Florida too long because you have to travel many states away looking for work……….and then ask her if you can borrow some gas money.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Anonymous wrote:

“Sorry, you are only good for bed and small talk, but you dont qualify to live with me.”

“Sorry, that you are taking this personal, but I just have NO DESIRE for a SERIOUS/Cohabitation/Marital relationship with ANY woman.”

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Hermit wrote:

That’s the main problem I see in this situation. He divulged way too much about himself. If ya’ wanna’ have fun with a gal without it getting too messy, you don’t have a big house in Ohio. You’ve lost everything except that camper that you have to live in and you’re almost broke. You can’t stay in Florida too long because you have to travel many states away looking for work……….and then ask her if you can borrow some gas money.

Personally, It would just be too much like work for me to have to go to those extremes, but that being said, I would have just “down played” my assets. Yes, I have a small lil house in Ohio. If she was “pushy” about it then I would throw in things like the 3 mortgages, and loans on my truck/camper. Of course, my retirement income is small and barely enough for me to get by on etc. etc. etc.

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[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

Sounds like the plot to bad romcom. LoL

XD

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[HermitParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

Hermit wrote:

That’s the main problem I see in this situation. He divulged way too much about himself. If ya’ wanna’ have fun with a gal without it getting too messy, you don’t have a big house in Ohio. You’ve lost everything except that camper that you have to live in and you’re almost broke. You can’t stay in Florida too long because you have to travel many states away looking for work……….and then ask her if you can borrow some gas money.

Personally, It would just be too much like work for me to have to go to those extremes, but that being said, I would have just “down played” my assets. Yes, I have a small lil house in Ohio. If she was “pushy” about it then I would throw in things like the 3 mortgages, and loans on my truck/camper. Of course, my retirement income is small and barely enough for me to get by on etc. etc. etc.

Ok, an easier way to go about it when she asked to move in with him would be, “Sorry, but my wife would not like that.” LOL

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[hdvrodParticipant 1109]

Or, you could say “I can rent a room out to you for $1000/mo”
*Crickets*

Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relationshit with a woman. MGTaoist

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Hermit wrote:

“Sorry, but my wife would not like that.”

Oh, I’m sure that lil cupcakes ears perked up months ago when she found out he was a widower….LOL

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[Gravel PitParticipant]

I will have to re-read this whole thread. I read the OP and was quite amused by that! LOL You ol’ philandering vagabond! You got her pussy all wet then you leave town. lol, PS dont ever go back you idiot. (meant in brotherly jest)

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Stealth wrote:

…once that boundary were to break, she’d just have her eye on the next boundary.

Yup

Bub wrote:

“One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. No exceptions.” -KM.

Preach it!

Swimcat wrote:

I’m at a rest area in Tennessee.

Thank God! Visit Florida all you want, but I would never visit that section of it again. You p~~~ed her off and she is ready for RETALIATION. Your sixth sense to hook up your trailer and bail was divine intervention. Put that c~~~ in your Rear view mirror sir

Awakened wrote:

and everything is just “Fine” then the next thing ya know she asks if she can come up to “visit”.

oh yeah… just a “visit” and all the sudden she’s accepting mail at that address. God damn it

iMickey503 wrote:

“I’m Living in my trailer and just traveling on my SOcial security”……..you want to still f~~~? Fine. Don’t f~~~ing tell them s~~~.

Waitress are the most Diabolical women out there.

Everything Mickey said! LOL

On the all and all, well played, you got some nice pussy and bailed fast. Definitely a brazen PUA move but you werent burned this time dont push your luck Swimcat, you ol Vagina Tycoon! LOL

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22537]

Swimcat wrote:

I did run. After I posted last night I hooked up the camper to the truck and drove all night. I’m at a rest area in Tennessee. I ate some breakfast and now I’m going to bed. I’ll be home by this evening. It think will be all right. She left a message on my phone asking me to call her. It’s just a damn shame you just can’t go out and have fun without it turning into a damn mess.

Good you got out of there, if shes that nutty worse could have been coming.

I wouldnt call her anymore, and not ever see her again. She will just try to convince you by rationalizing away her reaction by saying that’s not really the real her.

Just do a clean break. Learn from this. AWALT.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3769]

Hermit wrote:

That’s the main problem I see in this situation. He divulged way too much about himself. If ya’ wanna’ have fun with a gal without it getting too messy, you don’t have a big house in Ohio. You’ve lost everything except that camper that you have to live in and you’re almost broke. You can’t stay in Florida too long because you have to travel many states away looking for work……….and then ask her if you can borrow some gas money.

Sounds good, but the problem is: Lying is what WOMEN do. Not us.

Men are honest (most). Lying does not come naturally. It’s a matter of having high standards of honor and such and expecting the same out of inferior beings and being disappointed every time.

[HermitParticipant]

SpiderHerder wrote:

Hermit wrote:

That’s the main problem I see in this situation. He divulged way too much about himself. If ya’ wanna’ have fun with a gal without it getting too messy, you don’t have a big house in Ohio. You’ve lost everything except that camper that you have to live in and you’re almost broke. You can’t stay in Florida too long because you have to travel many states away looking for work……….and then ask her if you can borrow some gas money.

Sounds good, but the problem is: Lying is what WOMEN do. Not us.
Men are honest (most). Lying does not come naturally. It’s a matter of having high standards of honor and such and expecting the same out of inferior beings and being disappointed every time.

I agree and since lying doesn’t really come natural to me, I always forget to lie when I’m in the moment. LOL I always think later, damn, why was I so honest. I shouldn’t have said s~~~.

Reckon instead of lying, you could just be the mysterious guy and just not talk a lot about yourself even if asked.

One problem is, you can’t even talk when women are around. I was out eating with a buddy at one of those Japanese steakhouses where you have to sit close to other people. My friend and I had gone to a bigger town to get some stuff we couldn’t get locally. At one point I told my friend, “Man, we spent a lot of money today.”, and a woman who hadn’t paid us any mind the whole time perked up and looked over at me. Just mention the word money and women immediately take notice.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[SwimcatParticipant 3593]

I’m back awake again. Getting ready to hit the road. I slept too long. I don’t think I’ll make it all the way. I know a motel in Kentucky where I can park the trailer. I’m not going to call her back. In fact I blocked the number. She showed her hand way too soon. She obviously wants to take advantage of me because I’m a widower.

I remember a movie back in 60’s. Guide for the married man. One of the lessons was “Never get involved with a women that can gain from a relationship with you and has less to lose than you do.” I violated that rule. Never again. I guess I was bored and miss women in my life. I like it there in Northern Florida but I’ll never go back.

[MonkParticipant 17004]

Swimcat wrote:

I met a waitress at the breakfast place I like to eat.[…] Late 40’s been divorced for years. Two kids two grandkids.

Red flags everywhere.

Crummy job, penniless post wall divorcee with children.

“You’re just going to dump me here living in this crummy apartment when you have a nice big house all to yourself in Ohio”.

See how quickly the mask comes off. Just listen to the hate.

No doubt she was hoping her children would also be able to cash in.

I’d planned to leave Saturday but now I’m leaving first thing in the morning. I don’t what the hell she’s libel to do.

Just hope that she moves on to the next prospect, if there ever is one.

This is what I get for being nice.

That’s what you get for thinking with the little head, rather than the big head.

[Branched offParticipant 10955]

What I love about this story is the “I was good enough to take to bed but not good enough to take home” bit. It came to me a couple of times today. She knew the answer herself and it made her cross. She knows inside herself she is not worth that any more but it upsets her entitlement.

Her answer -tell the truth in a man shaming angry way because it might just make him feel enough pity or guilt to take her in.

If in doubt they man shame -even with the truth! Man shaming and withdrawe of pussy are actually pretty much their only natural weapons. The law has given them unnatural weapons but these are the two a woman instinctively knows are hers and often work.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Swimcat wrote:

“Never get involved with a women that can gain from a relationship with you and has less to lose than you do.”

Well, that will keep ya from dating for awhile…LOL LOL LOL

Swimcat wrote:

I guess I was bored and miss women in my life.

We’re only human…If you’re LUCKY with time you will only be able to tolerate their company in 20 – 30 minute doses, pay them, and be GONE. LOL LOL

Swimcat wrote:

I like it there in Northern Florida but I’ll never go back.

Why not go back to just a different area in Northern Florida??

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[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Because Florida women…
https://mobile.twitter.com/_Flor1daWoman

Sovereignty above all else.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22537]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

Because Florida women…https://mobile.twitter.com/_Flor1daWoman

Jeebus, I bookmarked this page in case I ever need to lose an erection. FFS!

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Two Time WinnerParticipant 1090]

Do you guys really think he would have gotten any pussy if he told her that broke ass crap. She knew everything about him before she spread her legs. And she isn’t giving blow jobs to guys living in their camper on social security? Get real.

Everyone on here knows the true nature of women, and it ain’t f~~~ing men for fun. Unless she has a husbank and is f~~~ing Chad or Tyrone.

TTW

I ain't got a wife to spend my money, I have to do that all by myself.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Monk wrote:

Red flags everywhere.

Crummy job, penniless post wall divorcee with children.

Yeah lol. Its kinda funny…when I was teens and early 20s I didn’t give a s~~~ what a girl’s financial situation was. I guess just being ignorant at the time, it wasn’t a major deal during my college years. We know how that goes though…when the dudes with the good heads on their shoulders are willing to date them they’d rather be chasing Chad. When the dude with the with the good head on their shoulders becomes successful, those same carousel riders are now ready for him…only he doesn’t want her.

Post college I’ve had one girlfriend, who was 70k in the hole on student loans, plus who knows what other debt she had for her car and credit cards. I was making 40k a year at the time, which was more than she made. I just remember thinking “What the f~~~, I could 100% support her and after income taxes and interest on her student loans it would take her at least 3 years to pay off.”

I’m a lot less interested in dating in general now…but if I were to ever entertain the idea of anything beyond a platonic friendship with a female again, one of the requirements is she has her s~~~ together. Women will shamelessly look for a well off guy and its perfectly ok, but I’m 100% certain if I said to one of those broke women I’m only interested in women with their finances in order they’d be absolutely infuriated. Of course though, with that being said the safest route is obviously just to not get involved with any of them.

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