I am sorry, recently.

[Darth TyrannusParticipant 349]

Keymaster wrote:

I was out of sorts myself when a mentor (the dad I never had) died a few years ago. I had a great Dad… but he was like another one.

Lots of people from across the world actually flew to pay homage to him and celebrate his life…. but what’s amazing is that they didn’t throw this UNBELIEVABLE bash for him when he was alive. If he could only have seen it.

Same with Prince this week. I heard cars driving by with Purple Rain playing. And homages all over social media, but nobody gives a thought to throw a party for these people until they are dead. Then everyone pretends like they care.

When I flew to celebrate the life of the mentor I am speaking about, his wife said he knew what he meant to me because I showed him, expressed it often, and even celebrated their last Christmas with him and his son. Nearly everyone else flew there just to “be seen” gushing.

I hate that.

Thank you gentlemen. This talk helped.

No need to be sorry @jan when you lose it a little or when vulnerability takes over. Atlas Shrugged, and we definitely all will at times. It’s a sure thing.

I know that feeling and it disgusts me all the way to my core. My great grandpa was the same as your mentor meant a great deal to my father, siblings, and me. Everyone else took advantage of his kindness during his life and they only came to his funeral just to get free s~~~. My father mentioned how our great grandfather said he was the only one to actually pay him back after helping him unlike everyone else. He taught me that it’s not worth being the good guy because you just get stepped on with very few to actually appreciate that quality.

[Anonymous 5]

Hey Jan,

That’s awful take it from me I have seen close friends really go into some “deep pits”. People do matter. Your right about that. Take it easy and am looking forward to reading more advice you can share from this point on.

[OldBillParticipant]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

I was recently out of sorts.

There’s no need to apologize, Jan. We all have periods when we’re in a bad humor. It’s called being human.

Of course and to your credit, it takes a man to admit when they’ve been out of sorts and take responsibility.

People matter. People f~~~ing matter.

Yes, they do.

However, we also need to remember that some people do not want to matter.

All too often we can’t care enough to make others care for themselves.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[HitmanParticipant]

hey Jan. you know i think you are a good man and your heart is always in the right place.
we all live and learn.
no apology needed brother.
just keep on keeping on !
sincerly,
your friend,
hitman

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

My MGTOW (suck it feminists) is about saving one more man. One more man and it is all worth it.

I could not agree with you any more Jan, took the words right out of my mouth sir…Your posts and comments show your sentiment, and I have never read anything from you sir that would call for an apology, your true and genuine and all these replies should show you that you absolutely make an impact here!!

Keymaster wrote:

but nobody gives a thought to throw a party for these people until they are dead. Then everyone pretends like they care.

Isn’t it the truth!! I have thought the same thing time and time again, no one gives two s~~~s until they are dead, and then it is not even care, it is the pretend care bulls~~~ that makes me want to punch someone’s lights straight the f~~~ out…Like it is the hip thing to show everyone your feeling hurt at the loss of someone, what a bunch of posing pieces of s~~~…

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

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