I am sorry, recently.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I was recently out of sorts. If you recall, a coworker/ friend killed himself with an overdose of drugs. God Damn the pusher man. So I was drinking more….

My biggest complaint, is nothing was said at work. It was like nothing happened. Just another day. The company bills itself as the big family but when something happens, don’t say anything.

The only thing that happened is a number of pamphlets for the employee assistance program showed up on the break room table. Really.

So if something happens to me, the company won’t give a s~~~ either. I don’t f~~~ing matter.

God Damn It. People matter. People f~~~ing matter.

Anyhow, if I offended anyone. I am sorry. I am better now. Thanks for your support.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 42]

Hey Jan, that’s just reality slapping you in the face, no need to apologize to a bunch of men that have hamburger for cheeks…

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2726]

When I joined MGTOW, MG-Tower was the first one to welcome me [ ^^^ shout out to this faithful brother].

What he told me, I now repeat to you: “Your honesty is all that can be expected, apologies here are rarely accepted.”

Sorry to hear about your friend and no worries, brother.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[The Long WalkParticipant 1282]

I don’t agree with blaming the drug dealer for a fatality unless it was actually caused by them cutting the drug with some nasty s~~~. It’s like blaming a car manufacturer when someone crashes their car at 100mph and dies. People make their own choices in life, choose to do drugs.. or don’t. Live fast, die young. That responsibility lies with the individual, the pusher is just fulfilling a demand that exists, and if not for them there’d be someone even more unscrupulous.

[Anonymous 42]

CPT Obvious wrote:

When I joined MGTOW, MG-Tower was the first one to welcome me [ ^^^ shout out to this faithful brother].

What he told me, I now repeat to you: “Your honesty is all that can be expected, apologies here are rarely accepted.”

Sorry to hear about your friend and no worries, brother.

Thanks CPT-O, I appreciate that! It’s like seeing your pay-it-forward pan out to real time gold!
It’s like we sit here and pull mind splinters out, reducing the psychological discomfort and pain.
I would do it for anyone, including women, but they’re where all the splinters came from in the first place.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

Don’t even worry about it Jan. You should NEVER have to worry about offending anyone. F~~~ people who get offended. Offense is always taken, never given.

I also hate large companies for that exact same reason though. They only think of employees as numbers. They never think of them as individuals. Which is why I’m always looking for the next big thing. And which is why no one should ever be loyal to a company.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[Anonymous 1]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Anyhow, if I offended anyone. I am sorry. I am better now. Thanks for your support

You’re dry humour is hilarious. You’re overthinking this.

I’m not one to comment on this.

I have no right to call you my friend, but hell I’m gonna do it anyway.

I took an overdose once, but there’s plenty of men to die, I wont jump my turn.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Joller984,

Rights have nothing to do with it. Any man that is willing to say he is my friend, is my friend.

I apologize because that is what honorable men do. Every man here had to click a box saying they are an honorable man. I am working on it.

Some say it is not needed. Sometimes my posts are raw. Maybe this is for me. Maybe this is for that one man out there reading these posts and is looking for guidance. Maybe there is an Aspie that thinking a bullet in the head is the best thing and he sees that he isn’t alone. Maybe, one of my posts will help someone.

My MGTOW (suck it feminists) is about saving one more man. One more man and it is all worth it.

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Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[WallyParticipant]

I always appreciate what you have to say and you are correct, people matter.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 1]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Rights have nothing to do with it. Any man that is willing to say he is my friend, is my friend[/

To call you a friend is a privilege.

[FuckMeSpectator 215]

Jan you my friend are always an inspiration…no one here has ever offended me, ever. I have been upset at one or two people but s~~~, it’s gone in a couple hours and forgotten the same day, I can’t even tell you their handles. Yes people do matter, and you matter to me and to us, never forget it man. You, Tower, Key, Old Bill, and a BUNCH of others are responsible for helping to keep me safe, single, and sane and I am forever grateful. God bless you and keep up the good work…Bubba Zanetti and The Toe Cutter 🙂

You think Chernobyl was bad? Wait until the ink drys on that marriage contract you just signed...we know, you just wanted sex and fun...you could have gotten that for $100.00 a couple times a month instead of DESTROYING your life!!!

[AttonParticipant]

Anyhow, if I offended anyone. I am sorry. I am better now. Thanks for your support.

I don’t think anyone can really take offense considering the circumstances.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

We all make mistakes. I know I sure have posted things I regret posting. All we can do is improve and not make the same mistakes again.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

To call you a friend is a privilege.

You honor me, Sir. I question if I am worthy, but I try.

Jan you my friend are always an inspiration

Others have said that as well. Thank you. Not for my personal glory or little +1’s. Don’t care. I’m an autistic kid from small town USA. I never though that anyone would think anything I have to say was worth anything.

People matter. No one gives a s~~~ about anyone else anymore. If you see someone, ask, say something. That Man sitting next to you might be in terrible pain.

Sometimes it is not how you die, but how you live. Live boldly, make a difference in your own way.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Jan-

You are right- people do matter.
You have a big heart and always make an effort to reach out to people.
I’m sorry your friend/coworker died. Hopefully he is in a better place having more fun we are.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I was out of sorts myself when a mentor (the dad I never had) died a few years ago. I had a great Dad… but he was like another one.

Lots of people from across the world actually flew to pay homage to him and celebrate his life…. but what’s amazing is that they didn’t throw this UNBELIEVABLE bash for him when he was alive. If he could only have seen it.

Same with Prince this week. I heard cars driving by with Purple Rain playing. And homages all over social media, but nobody gives a thought to throw a party for these people until they are dead. Then everyone pretends like they care.

When I flew to celebrate the life of the mentor I am speaking about, his wife said he knew what he meant to me because I showed him, expressed it often, and even celebrated their last Christmas with him and his son. Nearly everyone else flew there just to “be seen” gushing.

I hate that.

Thank you gentlemen. This talk helped.

No need to be sorry @jan when you lose it a little or when vulnerability takes over. Atlas Shrugged, and we definitely all will at times. It’s a sure thing.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 54]

Jan, i am sorry for the loss of your friend. I have lost way to many. A day doesnt go by that i dont feel there spirits around me. All that matters is that we understand your pain.

[Anonymous 42]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

I never though that anyone would think anything I have to say was worth anything.

Jan, that’s societies sick conditioning kicking in, those are trains of thought that must be derailed for good.

Something any one of us says here may have a lasting ripple effect for possibly generations to come. We have to pan allot of gravel and sand before the pure gold shows up, never the less we keep panning. I found pure nuggets of gold from the smallest of pans.
In my lifetime one thing I’ve learned for sure, men are a rainbow of personality and told they’re only one dull spectrum by society at large. Modern women on the other hand seem to emit the same unified wavelength of dull and dingy narcissistic light.

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

Jan.Sobieski wrote:

I never though that anyone would think anything I have to say was worth anything.

Jan, that’s societies sick conditioning kicking in, those are trains of thought that must be derailed for good.

Something any one of us says here may have a lasting ripple effect for possibly generations to come. We have to pan allot of gravel and sand before the pure gold shows up, never the less we keep panning. I found pure nuggets of gold from the smallest of pans.
In my lifetime one thing I’ve learned for sure, men are a rainbow of personality and told they’re only one dull spectrum by society at large. Modern women on the other hand seem to emit the same unified wavelength of dull and dingy narcissistic light.

Nicely done.We are forced to dress identical.Some times its easy to forget we are all differnt in our own way. Every Man contributes in his own.way.

[SlingshotParticipant 171]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

My biggest complaint, is nothing was said at work. It was like nothing happened. Just another day.

Work is a bunch of processes designed to generate/hold wealth, no morning functionality built in.

Jan you care about the fellows around you, which is why I like to read your posts. I’d rather hear it raw than processed!

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