How to Win a Man's Heart: Advice for Women

[Gravel PitParticipant]

To the Lady Lurkers pondering the Male Heart. Heed this caution. It may not apply to “every” man but it will certainly apply to the men you prize the most.

When he is a boy, his heart is easily accessible… as simple as unfolding origami.

When he is an adolescent, his affections are still simple to obtain; like opening a shoe box.

When I was in my late teens, you had many chances at stealing my heart, barely secured inside a wood crate.

In my early twenties, after a few heart lacerations, I put a cheap lock on my heart. All the same, you could have gotten in.

In my late twenties, following years of rejection and loneliness. The heart of this romantic had not given up. I was still leaving the door wide open for you!

I discovered MGTOW in 2013. I was 27. My heart’s security got a much needed upgrade.

Ladies! You had all this time. There are no excuses. You rode the carousel, sliding old men’s PUA c~~~s into your gashes, ruining yourselves! You treated your body like an Amusement Park ride, cheap cotton candy and carny booths.

And while you were racking up numbers of sexual partners into the several dozens; your male peers were left sexless and alone, left to bide our time and learn to cope without female validation. We have barely had any affection or sexual intercourse, we’re the untapped resource, twice betrayed and twice shy. We’re the diamond in the rough, we’re now the prize. A prize you will never obtain.

And you expect us to settle for your beat up, flapped out gash? You think a woman who has slept with 60 men can be the mother of my child?! A scarlet letter now suddenly deserves a husband and loving peer at age 33? I am to be the father of your bastard child?! WRONG!

My HEART is on Military LOCK DOWN! You can never get it. It’s hidden and guarded. It has decoys and ghosts. It will ghost YOU. You can’t win now. You let MEN learn to live without the only thing you had to offer. Now we aren’t tempted at all by it, especially after you let it go to hell. Nasty Slit!

I will be 33 in March. You can never have this heart of mine! My income and my body, you will NEVER have access! NEVER!!!!!!!! And the women today, they have no idea about the ship that sailed without them. GOODBYE SLUTS! Bon voyage! A whole generation of men who do not need your company at all. LOL

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

Hows that for “Merry Christmas”! 🙂

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 38]

Gravel Pit wrote:

I will be 33 in March. You can never have this heart of mine! My income and my body, you will NEVER have access! NEVER!!!!!!!! And the women today, they have no idea about the ship that sailed without them. GOODBYE SLUTS! Bon voyage! A whole generation of men who do not need your company at all. LOL

Have you ever considered it takes longer than 33 years to become a man of real worth?

[Branched offParticipant 10933]

I think my heart can still be moved by women. I am perhaps too vulnerable. Food, sex with an attractive woman of child bearing years and a helpmate seem to do the trick with me.

However… my mind that is another thing. My mind has red lines these days. My mind is king now I am older. My mind doesn’t care if I fall for a woman. It remains sovereign. It does not beg before the golden vagina. it does not pour out all its goods at her feet. it does not submit to the marriage yoke, to cukoldry or otherwise submit to the gender that was made to be submissive.

I can’t be had. Tempted yes, moved yes, maybe even drawn in a little but owned. No.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[Colin Combover in a ComaParticipant 5068]

I couldn’t bear the thought of human physical contact. Haven’t spoke to any specimen today. Hopefully the morrow will yield the same.
Love is for the young and naïve.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Taoist, We’re worth more with age. Men, aging like wine, women aging like milk.

I was average and broke at 21 years old. A poor boy but still a worthwhile investment, women rarely ever are smart enough to get the boy early and stay loyal to him… (old point here we all know).

I’m still average at 33. Average income, not lucrative but adequate. But, I own my own condo, nearly paid for. Quite an advantage and bragging right there. Many people my age lease an apartment and although they make more than 32K a year, they are swimming in student loan debt. Im ahead of them now but they may catch up and tie me because they earn more (but not when cupcake takes them for all theyre worth. lol)

And in 30 years, if I stay the MGTOW course. There is no way I wont end up having everything I ever wanted. I seek to be like Brain Pilot, not his profession and earning potential (that would be nice but Im too different a person), but the fact that he has a big empty house all to himself. LOL I love that.

We’ll see where my earning potential goes. I can tell you now, I have loads of disposable income because I never take on payment commitments. The ONLY thing I pay is property tax lol. I do not have gym memberships or small bills. Its all paid for by my business…

Anyway. The key to wealth (even for a blue collar guy like me, like Vention MGTOW too if you’ve ever heard of him) is to stay single, dont get married, dont date… nothing. MONK. Ghost the c~~~s out of your life totally. I learned to live without them now. The weak moments are getting fewer and farther between. Soon I will impenetrable.

[Colin Combover in a ComaParticipant 5068]

Gravel Pit wrote:

Taoist, We’re worth more with age. Men, aging like wine, women aging like milk.
I was average and broke at 21 years old. A poor boy but still a worthwhile investment, women rarely ever are smart enough to get the boy early and stay loyal to him… (old point here we all know).
I’m still average at 33. Average income, not lucrative but adequate. But, I own my own condo, nearly paid for. Quite an advantage and bragging right there. Many people my age lease an apartment and although they make more than 32K a year, they are swimming in student loan debt. Im ahead of them now but they may catch up and tie me because they earn more (but not when cupcake takes them for all theyre worth. lol)
And in 30 years, if I stay the MGTOW course. There is no way I wont end up having everything I ever wanted. I seek to be like Brain Pilot, not his profession and earning potential (that would be nice but Im too different a person), but the fact that he has a big empty house all to himself. LOL I love that.
We’ll see where my earning potential goes. I can tell you now, I have loads of disposable income because I never take on payment commitments. The ONLY thing I pay is property tax lol. I do not have gym memberships or small bills. Its all paid for by my business…
Anyway. The key to wealth (even for a blue collar guy like me, like Vention MGTOW too if you’ve ever heard of him) is to stay single, dont get married, dont date… nothing. MONK. Ghost the c~~~s out of your life totally. I learned to live without them now. The weak moments are getting fewer and farther between. Soon I will impenetrable.

I salute you for having your own place. I wish I had kept my head down when I was your age bracket.
Must be serene after a long working class day down with the misfits, to shut the door on humanity. A man’s home is his castle and all that…..

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I love Vention Mgtow. He has been called the Grandfather of MGTOW lol. The dude has been Going Your Own Way on youtube since Barbar and Stardusk were creating the first mgtow content 6 years ago. He is Old SKool. lol

(not saying MGTOW isnt older than 2012…thats just when it went viral sort of)

[Anonymous 38]

Gravel Pit wrote:

And in 30 years, if I stay the MGTOW course. There is no way I wont end up having everything I ever wanted. I seek to be like Brain Pilot, not his profession and earning potential (that would be nice but Im too different a person), but the fact that he has a big empty house all to himself. LOL I love that.

Always be MGTOW, whatever you do. But closing your heart forever, is a cold life indeed. There is a way to love from a distance, loving without the risks. It takes a while to get there.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

“Have you ever considered it takes longer than 33 years to become a man of real worth?”

While you’re right that he hasn’t reached max inertia yet, the denial of future access is still powerful. Today it’s his domicile. In future years it’s all of the future income from rental properties and his work income.

It doesn’t matter if a man shuts women out when he’s unwanted and broke. What makes him a man of value is that he doesn’t wear a home for a woman. His value in dollars and the real world is what he has for himself. Travel Pit has won by making the decision, even if the bank account takes a while to reflect on the bottom line.

He’s definitely doing better than a guy that just got the one phone call after he thought he was a good husband for ten years from college graduation until the divorce she’s been waiting on until the ten year anniversary.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9550]

I’m a man and my heart is not winnable. Women lost it a long time ago. I’m single and I love it. You want to win my heart, you need to fulfill all my desires.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

Well I’m not 33 anymore so I have the slightly biased view of hindsight.
I think Testosterone and “Love” (Marital Love) have an inverse relationship.

I don’t know why, but just watching the interaction at times between my Ex and our kid made me soooo horny! It had nothing to do with how “hot” she looked or what she was wearing.(Heck;one time she was in sweats.) I blame it on the “T”.

Concerning the thread topic:
I am trying to say that “bond” of love was not purely physical attraction. There was an Intellectual aspect and a physiological one a well. Women tend to overvalue the physical attraction in the beginning.

Back to MEN;and that “Inverse” relationship…
Sometimes music tells us a little more about life.
Here is one of my favorites concerning “Love” :
https://www.lyricsfreak.com/d/dire+straits/love+over+gold_20040671.html

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

My heart cannot be won by any woman; I have no heart anymore. That’s how I was able to have 2 gf’s in 2017 without any emotional issues.

I wasn’t born one but I’ve become a cold-blooded MF’er.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Ranger One wrote:

I wasn’t born one but I’ve become a cold-blooded MF’er.

Yup. What Ranger said.

You can measure and observe the different men on this site. There’s a scale. It’s why I say that MGTOW is sort of like a philosophical journey. Because we’re all different ages at different points on the scale.

Some are young and naive, still on the fence, watching that Unicorn run the prairie, she’s beckoning them! LOL They think she can be caught and domesticated. These men think they can even steal a ride and escape uninjured. PUAs, MRAs and Romantics often have rose-colored goggles on.

Some are mid-age here like me, who’ve been bruised and bucked just enough, seeing stars; we found the red pill accidentally and like a pitcher of red Koolaid, we slammed that red-drink down. Women’s charade has been revealed. Only a few of us in our 30’s have kids, I dodged that bullet by pure luck, seen a few abortions and miscarriages but I mostly left the battlefield intact.

And finally, the older guys here, 40 and up! Post divorce or still married. The Fathers here! The guy’s who know it all because they lived it! The divorce, the child custody battle, the false domestic violence phone call, the ruthless agony and unconscionable depths of female malice… they’ve been through it firsthand. These are also the guy’s who know women so well, it amazes us younger guys because we really haven’t been married to one long term like that.

As a younger guy, I’ve never lived with a woman past a few months. I have no idea what being married to one is like. I have no children. I don’t know what it’s like. I also don’t know what its like to be a 45 year old male and being chased by these harpies and dealing with that threat up close and personal, knowing full well that one false step could be fatal.

But I can read. And not only have I learned a ton about women in the last 5 years. But I learned a lot about MEN. I grew up a little and was mentored in a way by the older guys here. Just reading what they say has revealed much to me. To them, I say thank you!

[dawson1Participant 138]

I wasn’t born one but I’ve become a cold-blooded MF’er.
Lol…..I couldn’t have said it better myself!
All the women in my life including my mother have made me what I am today…….one cold hearted bastard! F~~~em all!

[hmskl’dParticipant 6408]

My heart is cold. It’s not a hating heart because hating would rob me of the limited energy I have. But it is a cold heart where relationships are concerned.

I will stop and help someone along the highway, I will help an injured animal .. I will help my good neighbor at almost any cost
… but I will not even entertain the thought of a relationship heart.

I don’t know how long I have left on this planet, this Earth .. this life is fleeting. Cherish each and every day, every precious second ..
.. and try to practice this in my own life.

… whether I have one year, or seven years left .. longer, I don;t know .. doubt it .. not one second will be wasted on that non existent entity called romance or relationship ..

My heart is cold. I am not a cold person, but my heart in that one area of life is very cold. Frozen.
Have a great day .. be kind to the neighbor .. stay safe, be well.

[Anonymous 38]

Gravel Pit wrote:

Ranger One wrote:

I wasn’t born one but I’ve become a cold-blooded MF’er.

Yup. What Ranger said.
You can measure and observe the different men on this site. There’s a scale. It’s why I say that MGTOW is sort of like a philosophical journey. Because we’re all different ages at different points on the scale.
Some are young and naive, still on the fence, watching that Unicorn run the prairie, she’s beckoning them! LOL They think she can be caught and domesticated. These men think they can even steal a ride and escape uninjured. PUAs, MRAs and Romantics often have rose-colored goggles on.
Some are mid-age here like me, who’ve been bruised and bucked just enough, seeing stars; we found the red pill accidentally and like a pitcher of red Koolaid, we slammed that red-drink down. Women’s charade has been revealed. Only a few of us in our 30’s have kids, I dodged that bullet by pure luck, seen a few abortions and miscarriages but I mostly left the battlefield intact.
And finally, the older guys here, 40 and up! Post divorce or still married. The Fathers here! The guy’s who know it all because they lived it! The divorce, the child custody battle, the false domestic violence phone call, the ruthless agony and unconscionable depths of female malice… they’ve been through it firsthand. These are also the guy’s who know women so well, it amazes us younger guys because we really haven’t been married to one long term like that.
As a younger guy, I’ve never lived with a woman past a few months. I have no idea what being married to one is like. I have no children. I don’t know what it’s like. I also don’t know what its like to be a 45 year old male and being chased by these harpies and dealing with that threat up close and personal, knowing full well that one false step could be fatal.
But I can read. And not only have I learned a ton about women in the last 5 years. But I learned a lot about MEN. I grew up a little and was mentored in a way by the older guys here. Just reading what they say has revealed much to me. To them, I say thank you!

It changes as you age. As you become more at peace in the world, more confident, competent, and thus more powerful, you start attracting better women.

Suddenly you are appreciated instead of ignored. Yes, they are still women and you can’t fall back into a blue pilled mindset.

If you can keep a hold of your emotions like Ranger One can, you might find room for ‘love’.

I think half the problem is the image of love we’ve all been sold from birth. Loving in a Buddhist sense, for example, is very mature, respectful, and honest. And this is possible to do with some women, you just need to quickly ghost any which show a single bad sign. Quality control, no more ‘making it work’ and ‘putting up with her s~~~’ from day one.

[BritGHOWParticipant 2566]

Comes back to the old logic, the longer a man is left free the more he gets to experience and enjoy said freedom and observe in his fellows the consequences of giving up that freedom for “love” therefore the harder it will be for any woman to tempt him into giving up that freedom.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Put simply: act like a caring, loving human, stay fit physically and mentally and give him his freedom to exist. Denounce feminism. Be a true partner. Give him sex on demand and stay truthful to him. But all that is impossible, especially in this day and age. They just dont exist.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Until they find a way to give back 30 years of my life, they won’t be getting anything from me.

Each day I go anywhere, men are Miserable. There is not one guy I ran into this holiday season that was HAPPY being there with his wife, or long term girlfriend.

I do see the people just hitting it off doing okay, but holy s~~~, the second the dude walks away from the table, BAMN goes her phone.

That the other thing I noticed so much today. I might be the only person who does not walk around with his phone in his face or while eating. I don’t really get it. They are not watching videos, but hooked up to the Hive Mind. Both men and women.

While everyone else Ghosts, I don’t bother. When women come to shake my hand, I just tell them politely, “Oh I can’t, I want to be a judge one day, and I can’t afford another false rape allegation” .

Does it stop women from interacting with me? Hell no. Stores, shops wherever I go, I make it clear I’m not on the menu. I’m not going to be your toy.

I still don’t know what I am doing for New Years, but I have to admit, I don’t really care. This was the first year I did not bother with holiday festivities or anything even resembling any of that s~~~.

Its after christmas, so f~~~ it I got presents to buy at 75% off, and that’s how I am doing it from now on. Why the hell should I do what everyone else is doing, when I can do cheaper and better a day later. And the best part is? The Holidays are so without meaning now, it doesn’t really matter to me anymore. And the kids don’t seem to care either. Hell, they see it as WOW MORE PRESENTS!

You know what the best part of this holiday is now? Knowing that I am putting just as much effort as they are, and they are Confused why I don’t “care” anymore about anything they want me to clebreate. S~~~ women have like almost a day and a Holiday every other day. So what’s so special about this one when you are happy to beat the drum that anything SOLEY for men is okay to denigrate, and even go as far as saying that it should be banned? You know what I say when a woman asks anything from me? Or needs help? “Hashtag METOO, FEMINISM WILL HELP YOU! “

If women want your heart, it’s only so they can sell it by the pound.

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