How should I reverse this c*nt's shaming tactics?

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

F~~~ her mom…she will gone mad…

[MemberParticipant 323]

It takes some guts and the ability to deliver an insult without flinching but here it goes.

The next time she says something about her not giving it up to you there are several options.

Calmly say something like ” That is really funny how you go on and on about the pussy that you “denied” me. However, I don’t recall ever trying to….or wanting to get in your pants. If I wanted it I would have had it like all the rest of campus. The truth is that I thought you might be cool at first and I liked talking to you…….now I just think you are a loudmouth that likes to make up attention needy stories about all the dick she turns down. What a joke you turned out to be.”

You must say this calmly and slowly with no look of embarrassment on your face……put out cigarette slowly and when you are done laugh softly and walk away. No matter what she says as you are leaving don’t look back. With any luck you wont have to deal with her after that one. If she makes another pass at you later to get even just keep your cool. She may be bold enough to come back with more insults at which point you will have to regroup…..if she has much sense she will probably decline to start any s~~~ with you again. You must be confident enough to deliver this line without any indication of nervousness. Practice it. Said right you will devastate her ego and shut her down. Being a dick is helpful sometimes in this world.

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

The best thing to do is just walk away from her. Write her off. She’s not worth your time.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

I can give no better advice than what has already been given here.

You have two functional hands, you don’t need her.

Not giving a f~~~ will set you free.

Fuck this planet.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

What KeyMaster said, plus the fact that you are in college, so be very careful because if this bitch gets p~~~ed, she might just throw some rape/harassment charges at you and f~~~ up your whole life.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[HuevonParticipant 68]

Ohno wrote:

Franky wrote:

“Don’t touch my ass you’re not getting any!”

You: good you mentioned that, I was just about to.
She: That’s what I figgured, dirtback!
You: Right. It is just too big to be missed.

why Huevon? why did you do that? im very sceptic about you atm.

The German word for this would be “Ironie” this cannot be translated to “ironic” because the meaning is different, In English it’s rather called sarcasm. (Just to get an idea how you communicate, do you get the conzept of “Ironie”? Some people do not have an understanding for it)
Let me explain the background: Basically she’s just a bitch, but you can have fun making her look like an ass, when she tries to do that with you.

Situation: He did not do anything, but she just assumes that he wants to touch her ass.
So when he tells her: “good you mention that, I was about to” he basically sais “that was in your head, not mine”.
A woman like that will usually just get unpollite (at least from the experiences I made)
Then it’s fun to insult her in a polite way. In this example pointing out that she is fat.
That more or less ruins her evening.

Actually now that I think about it, the whole conversation can be shortened to the answer: “If I had a fat ass like you I’d also be afraid people touch it. It’s just too big to not be in the way all the time.”

[I_Walk_AloneParticipant 580]

wolf94 wrote:

TL;DR : How should I stop this bitch from teasing me about her decision of not have letting me f~~~ her when I wanted to?

By removing her from your life and your mind. Just f~~~ her off, she has proved that she isn’t worthy of your time and is just using you as an ego boost.

Just get on with your life without her. Without even giving it any thought, this is a ‘rejection’ that will hurt her far more than she is by taunting you about ‘vagina denial.’ If there is ever an unavoidable situation where she begins with that crap, then just look her in the eye, slowly gaze down to her feet, back up to her eye with a look of disdain on your face, say “Pffffft!!” (proper dismissive sneer) and then walk away.

[OhnoParticipant 668]

Huevon wrote:

The German word for this would be “Ironie” this cannot be translated to “ironic” because the meaning is different, In English it’s rather called sarcasm. (Just to get an idea how you communicate, do you get the conzept of “Ironie”? Some people do not have an understanding for it)

i have the Asperger syndrome…i really do have problems of getting sarcastic jokes.

[wolf94Participant 14]

indeed this girl is obsessed with the feeling of rejecting guys and she is trying to shame me for not having been given her permission to f~~~ her, which she implies it is of such value… I will recognize these indicators next time and I will know better how to respond based on her intention and motives. and, after all, i think i’m actually better not hanging out anymore with that group. thank you!

[LowKeyParticipant 702]

You dont keep trash, you dispose of it.

edit: you seem like a promising guy, go find new friends to hang out with or just find a way to keep the good ones while cutting loose the others.

Don't let defeat, defeat you; Let defeat be your greatest teacher.

[Dr PhibesParticipant 155]

If there is ever an unavoidable situation where she begins with that crap, then just look her in the eye, slowly gaze down to her feet, back up to her eye with a look of disdain on your face, say “Pffffft!!” (proper dismissive sneer) and then walk away.

I agree with this approach. Look her in the eye, sneer, shake your head, walk away, and never acknowledge her again. Simple in its execution. Devastating in its effect.

"The wisest follow their own direction." -- Euripides

[DethklokParticipant 153]

Nothing new for me to add here.

I learned many life lessons from Seinfeld. Costanza realized having the upper hand was the greatest thing. Any feelings you have of depression will NEVER be fixed by chasing someone. If it does fix it, you are a loser.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Ignore the f~~~ outta her bro,

Pretend this bitch ain’t even alive. A female berates, or belittles you in front of class mates or “friends”, then I wouldn’t consider them as friends, because if they were, they’d stand up for you. This girl sounds like she’s still stuck in the high school era in which girls would often times belittle or try and degrade Men just to feel better about themselves.

She tries to sit next to you, (if you have the same class), pick up your s~~~, move to a different seat. Ignoring a Female is POWER!. More importantly it renders them POWERLESS, and makes You, POWERFUL. Don’t put up with that s~~~ of her degradation or shaming language, take it a step higher and don’t even acknowledge her childish ways.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[hdvrodParticipant 1109]

Next time she pulls that s~~~ on you.
Look her in the eye, make sure the other people are there, and simply say; “it’s OK sweetie, you couldn’t handle my c~~~ anyway” Then just wink at her, smile and nod to the others.
She will self com-bust in front of you and you can all roast some marshmallows on her embers.

Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relationshit with a woman. MGTaoist

[narwhalParticipant]

Personally, not a fan of giving a return insult. It opens you up for a counter-insult, and somewhat justifies her behavior, since you are now doing the same thing essentially. And as the saying goes, never argue with stupid people. They will bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.

Personally, I’d just stick with the truth. If she gets into it again, simply say something like “You’re right, it was stupid of me to put all that effort into trying to get into your pants. I see now that it was a tremendous waste of my time.” And end it right there. Do not offer or give any explanation beyond that.. You will better about the situation yourself since you’re open about your mistake. She won’t be able to figure out whether you grew some b~~~~ and she greatly misjudged you, or whether she should feel like crap for how she treated you. Either way, you’re done, and she has no reason to shame you because she’s not saying anything that you haven’t already admitted to.

Ok. Then do it.

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