How should I reverse this c*nt's shaming tactics?

[wolf94Participant 14]

I’d like to begin by saying that I’m new here and it’s my pleasure to be part of this forum.

Back a year ago, before I even discovered MGTOW, when I started college, I became quite close with this girl, classmate of mine. She was kinda controlling from the begining, but being the huge mangina I was, not only I came to convince myself that it didn’t bother me, but even made myself believe I liked that ‘trait’ about her. Not long after, I developed some warm feelings about her(I wouldn’t go to say love), which I partly(thank god) confessed to her in apreciacions.
That’s when she began to subtly undermine me, influencing our whole group of aquintances at the college. Then she jokingly(or so I have thought) told me that I will never f~~~ where, to which I laughed like a retard and through my blue pill euphoria I actually thought we were going towards a relationship, since we were seeing eachother very often, even inviting me often at her house to get high. By the way, she wasn’t using me in no way financially, but emotionally, and big time, complaining to me, insulting me and generally making fun of me. I also got very embarassed when the other guys brought her in discusion with me, giving me hints about how she’s using me, while making fun of me altogether.
Eventually, after accumulating big amounts of frustration and also discovering MGTOW, I finnaly decided to take the red pill and end my ridiculous infatuation with this horrible specimen. Now, after the summer vacation, I come to see her again trying to shame me at college in front of our aquintances for not being worthy enough to see her vagina, in some silly context. My reaction, at this point not being in any way attracted to her anymore, was highly different from my pervious ones, treating it with visible indifference, instead of embarassment and guilt. However, I don’t think it would be enought to put this bitch in her place, so I’m asking you for advice on how to handle this situation without coming of as unnecessarily aggresive and making a fool of myself. Thank you!

TL;DR : How should I stop this bitch from teasing me about her decision of not have letting me f~~~ her when I wanted to?

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

The next time she pulls that “you’ll never see/f~~~ my vagina” shaming bulls~~~, do this:

Sniff, then reply “I’d rather not, I can smell it from here.”

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Wrong website. This is MGTOW, not Men Getting Back At Women. F~~~ this bitch. Disassociate yourself from her, and any “friends” of yours that support this. If you sleep with dogs you get fleas. Surround yourself with quality people – or none at all.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Will it disrupt your social standing to ignore her for the balance of your school years? With friends like her, and friends who cater to her shaming tactics, you are better off ditching them all. Focus on people who actually support your well being.

Focus on your studies, since that is your real goal anyway.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

“A JEDI uses the force for knowledge and defense. Never for attack”
– YODA

That translates to MGTOW perfectly too.

Women LOVE to think they are “rejecting” you. Its’ how she heightens her own value in her mind. I know EXACTLY the type you’re speaking about. Talks about access to her vagina (or NO access to her vagina) — like it’s a Ming Dynasty vase. Never fall for it.

Her decision not to have sex with you is not a negative.
You will remind yourself that she’s not taking anything FROM you.
She just didn’t GIVE you something. BIG difference.

In her mind, she is taking vagina AWAY from you. But she can’t. So you have to laugh. Vagina is no “prize”. It’s a worthless commodity that grows on trees and can be had by any man for FAR less trouble, effort, money, investment and time than she would have you believe. You can say that last sentence straight to her face – and enjoy the f~~~ out of it. Especially in front of other people. It should make you SMILE.

Don’t initiate it. Wait until she gives you reason to. Then the gloves can come off and you can say WHATEVER YOU WANT. If she is going go there, make sure you go one better.

More importantly…. when a woman behaves as if no access to her vagina is the most devastating tragedy there is….. then she has just openly announced that vagina — or a F~~~ — is the BEST thing she has to offer. Remind her of that too. You’ll notice she didn’t withhold friendship. She didn’t withhold time. She didn’t withhold her company. She didn’t withhold conversation. She withheld SEX. And that’s like telling the world her vadge is the BEST thing she has.

You get to LOL when saying it too.

When delivered properly, she will be standing there crying in her own puddle of tears.
Because she just reduced herself down to no more than a F~~~.

She doesn’t consider time / company / conversation as valuable. She is only brainwashing herself into trying to get you to believe that no access to her vagina is some kind of tragic “loss” for you. It isn’t. Never let a woman get away with that.

Her decision not to f~~~ you only means she didn’t get your dick. Big f~~~ing deal. Men are not as arrogant as women that way. We don’t behave like not sharing our crotch is some big tragedy to others. Not giving women your time and attention…. now THAT p~~~es them off. Because you’re worth much more than just your crotch.

Female “rejection” is actually HILARIOUS.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[HitmanParticipant]

heed the keymaster’s words ..her vagina is nothing special..let her know that !

[OhnoParticipant 668]

wolf94 wrote:

Now, after the summer vacation, I come to see her again trying to shame me at college in front of our aquintances for not being worthy enough to see her vagina, in some silly context.

i can see why u want to get even.

Analyze her behavior in front of the group, because the truth is that she doesnt have much to bring to the table and so she lowers you only because she wants to get more chips. The times you have met, was only to estimate your reactions for this moment when u go infront of the group. Now…whether u walk away from the table, because she is more than 1 step ahead of you right now, or u get to work and solve it. up to u….im sure this bitch can be dealt with if you want to try.

[wolf94Participant 14]

Thank you all for your words of advice, which I have found highly insightful so far. I would like to clarify some things which were adressed earlier. The people I said that complied to her shaming tactics are not my friends, just people I hang out because my college is predominantly composed of females, so you’d guess I don’t get to choose from the best company. Also, I wouldn’t even blame them that much, considering how stupid I was. And lastly, I don’t want to get revenge on this girl, but I don’t want either to don’t have with whom to enjoy a cigarette and a talk during the recess because of some bitch,

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Imma share a story with you, it’s long as f~~~ and i won’t expect you to read it but if you do here goes:

A week ago i went to a bar with the bros.Everything is great beer’s great, comfiest ass bar in the whole f~~~ing world.
I went to get myself more beer and there was a fat girl blockade in front of the barman.(1 or 2 years ago almost no girls went to that bar and it’s like a tradition for us to go there, suddenly a t~~~ invasion commenced last year.)So i had to somehow squeeze trough the landwhales to get to my beer.And so i did, i reached the barman and suddenly one turned to me (mighty ugly that one):
“Don’t touch my ass you’re not getting any!”
“Bitch in what world is your ass attractive to anyone?”(is what i thought)
They constantly need to feel like they’re rejecting someone, it’s like air for them, otherwise they’ll probably die.
And the funny thing is at the same time on the other side some other girl was trying to hit on me, cause apparently, “the sign on my chest was impressive”(sometimes the s~~~ they come up with to be “impressed by” is f~~~ing retarded)

I said nothing to either of them, just took my beer and went back to the bros.Both of them probably got p~~~ed as f~~~ i don’t know, didn’t even turn to see their sorry faces.
T~~~s are funny.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

wolf94 wrote:

I don’t get to choose from the best company.

I beg to differ, you DO get to choose your company, even if it means not choosing any.
The people in your story aren’t worth your company, they’ve already proven that.

[Guts MGTOWParticipant 75]

Just ignore her.

[OhnoParticipant 668]

wolf94 wrote:

I don’t want to get revenge on this girl, but I don’t want either to don’t have with whom to enjoy a cigarette and a talk during the recess because of some bitch,

like i said already… i see why u want to get even…..not because to hurt her personally nononono …i mean all the other reasons that could be to make a stand and clarify whats up really. ( see my nickname? maybe you just want the truth to come out???) you could take it as a challenge and look good at the end while she looks like an idiot ( she is the idiot…but only you and mgtow know that right now ) …. In your situation i personally would accept the challenge and bring group on my side…. a matter of principle. Or give up and walk away. As long as you are not sad about this anymore and made a wise choice in your opinion its all that matters.

[HuevonParticipant 68]

About the situation in general: When women pull this s~~~ on you, this can have various reasons. Either she is just a bitch, or she got interested in you at a point, and started to s~~~ test you, if you were a viable candidate for reproduction. If this was the case, obviously you didn’t pass, because as you say: you can’t handle her. Actually I’m quite sure that girl you talk about would be a great f~~~, but I have to admit, I would never ever want to pay the price.

So now she is being disrespectful. You let her do it. The best thing you can do is letting her run against a wall, when she makes fun of you. She wants you to feel embarrassed? Make her feel embarrassed. Like in the example above. If you are not as skilled in this just think of what you could have answered afterwards. If you want to, post it here as well. We’ll have a blast posting possible replies. After a while you get a ready toungue.

That’s not the easiest way, but the best one. The easy way out would be to just stay away from her.

XSDBS wrote:

The next time she pulls that “you’ll never see/f~~~ my vagina” shaming bulls~~~, do this:
Sniff, then reply “I’d rather not, I can smell it from here.”

I had a similar thought on my mind.

wolf94 wrote:

how to handle this situation without coming of as unnecessarily aggresive and making a fool of myself.

That’s why my version would be to flirtingly but sarcasticly say “I already feel honored enough to smell it, honey!” She’ll still be really embarressed, but this way noone can blame you for being an asshole. You can say it like that, because on a personal level, you guys are close (which is one of the reasons why she can pull this s~~~ on you as well.) If she still won’t shut up and goes on “Well good for you, because that’s all you get”. You can then still reply “just the smell of fish quenches any hunger” and so on. At the end you will need to make your own version to let it be authentic.

Women generally like you, when you are keen witted. When I was at the barber shop today that lady asked me “I should cut the front too, because you want to see something, right?” I replied “depends on what there is to see”. She and even her colleague laughed. It was no dirty joke but just equivocally spoken. Women love this s~~~. When they are young, they play truth or dare for hours just to learn shaming, while we men learn how to do decent work in our games.

From an evolutionary psychology point of view, they must be like that. Just until maybe a hundred years ago, women had to have the skills to control men by their feelings to make men work for them and their offspring. So in general this is very natural to the female mind. But in an economical, political and legal system like ours, women just go berserk. As we can also see from your case.

[OhnoParticipant 668]

Franky wrote:

Imma share a story with you, it’s long as f~~~ and i won’t expect you to read it but if you do here goes

+1 at this point already ^^ ill read it.now

[OhnoParticipant 668]

Franky wrote:

Imma share a story with you, it’s long as f~~~ and i won’t expect you to read it but if you do here goes:
A week ago i went to a bar with the bros.Everything is great beer’s great, comfiest ass bar in the whole f~~~ing world.I went to get myself more beer and there was a fat girl blockade in front of the barman.(1 or 2 years ago almost no girls went to that bar and it’s like a tradition for us to go there, suddenly a t~~~ invasion commenced last year.)So i had to somehow squeeze trough the landwhales to get to my beer.And so i did, i reached the barman and suddenly one turned to me (mighty ugly that one):“Don’t touch my ass you’re not getting any!”“Bitch in what world is your ass attractive to anyone?”(is what i thought)They constantly need to feel like they’re rejecting someone, it’s like air for them, otherwise they’ll probably die.And the funny thing is at the same time on the other side some other girl was trying to hit on me, cause apparently, “the sign on my chest was impressive”(sometimes the s~~~ they come up with to be “impressed by” is f~~~ing retarded)
I said nothing to either of them, just took my beer and went back to the bros.Both of them probably got p~~~ed as f~~~ i don’t know, didn’t even turn to see their sorry faces.T~~~s are funny.

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

[HuevonParticipant 68]

Franky wrote:

“Don’t touch my ass you’re not getting any!”

You: good you mentioned that, I was just about to.
She: That’s what I figgured, dirtback!
You: Right. It is just too big to be missed.

[OhnoParticipant 668]

actually those 2 are better to be true

XSDBS wrote:

The next time she pulls that “you’ll never see/f~~~ my vagina” shaming bulls~~~, do this:
Sniff, then reply “I’d rather not, I can smell it from here.”

after u said exactly this…… answer short and walk away….i reviewed the threat and i think that one will work anyways.

Snake wrote:

Wrong website. This is MGTOW, not Men Getting Back At Women. F~~~ this bitch. Disassociate yourself from her, and any “friends” of yours that support this. If you sleep with dogs you get fleas. Surround yourself with quality people – or none at all.

yep

[Anonymous 42]

The short and sweet version: Stop calling her a c*nt, and start calling her what she really is; A “C~~~”. C.U.N.T. C~~~!

[OhnoParticipant 668]

Huevon wrote:

Franky wrote:

“Don’t touch my ass you’re not getting any!”

You: good you mentioned that, I was just about to.
She: That’s what I figgured, dirtback!
You: Right. It is just too big to be missed.

why Huevon? why did you do that? im very sceptic about you atm.

[OldBillParticipant]

Why are you giving this c~~~ free rent in your head? Why do you care that she’s trying to tease you? Friends or not, why do you “hang out” with people like those in your post? Why do you still care?

Go you own way. Approach life, deal with life, on your own terms.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

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