Have you done online dating and concluded that it is a waste of time?

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

I tried online ‘dating’ for 3 years.

The only things I got out of it…

* Bunch of one night stand’s
* A STD that took a heavy dose of antibiotics to clear up
* Financial drain
* 1 relationchit that lasted one year and found out she was
a hooker
* Constant mindfuks before/during/after ‘dates’

If I could trade it all for 3 years of the life I live now, I would.

Best recommendation I can give you Maverick, delete that stuff. Not next week, NOW. It is a road to ruin, trust me.

If you can learn to be happy on your own, and not give 2 fks about women, you will look back on all that mess and laugh. I know I do…

F~~~ man, sorry to hear. However this is an EXCELLENT experience to tell every future red pillar WHY they should avoid online dating like the plague and WHY it’s a f~~~ing SCAM.

[MaverickParticipant 811]

Beer wrote:

Total waste of time. Even if you really, really want someone to date, anything decent looking on there that doesn’t scream TRAIN WRECK instantly in her profile is getting dozens of messages from thirsty guys. The thing is…like we’ve all realized, women on there lie to make themselves seem better than they are…and blue pills guys are doing the same.

That is true. You can exchange messages with her for hours, think you’re developing some sort of rapport, and then it’s all forgotten the next day. She’ll sit on the site at work (instead of you know, working) and chat up different dudes that you almost need to be unemployed to keep up with her. How do I know? I’ve had days off during the week and have noticed that. They require so much time sending messages back and forth and texting just to keep their attention.

And then there are the “curvy” ones who get attached right away and want to exchange numbers and get clingy as if you’re already in a relationship. They’ll send messages before you even get a chance to respond.
Or you meet and she weighs 30 pounds more and looks 5 years older than she did in her pics. The last couple of women I met were in that category.

[MaverickParticipant 811]

ghost wrote:

sidecar wrote:

dumpster diving for women.

That’s a nice way to describe online dating.

Yep. I was thinking “scraping the bottom of the barrel”.

[MaverickParticipant 811]

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

I tried online ‘dating’ for 3 years.

The only things I got out of it…

* Bunch of one night stand’s
* A STD that took a heavy dose of antibiotics to clear up
* Financial drain
* 1 relationchit that lasted one year and found out she was
a hooker
* Constant mindfuks before/during/after ‘dates’

If I could trade it all for 3 years of the life I live now, I would.

Best recommendation I can give you Maverick, delete that stuff. Not next week, NOW. It is a road to ruin, trust me.

Damn…too bad you had to go through all that. Here I was thinking that I was missing out. I haven’t deleted my profiles but that will be the next step. The last two messages I got were from single mothers (one wanted to exchange #’s). I didn’t bother to respond.

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

If you can learn to be happy on your own, and not give 2 fks about women, you will look back on all that mess and laugh. I know I do…

I was there at one time. What happened? Not quite sure. Just thought I was missing out on something I guess.

[JVBParticipant]

Was on tinder once talking to this bitch for a few days. All going well until I asked her what she does for a living. She “unmatched “ me immediately. I’m only now getting over it boys.

Peace is > piece.

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

JVB wrote:

Was on tinder once talking to this bitch for a few days. All going well until I asked her what she does for a living. She “unmatched “ me immediately. I’m only now getting over it boys.

Men waste SO MUCH time on online “emailing” (as KeyMaster would put it, it’s definitely not online dating, since you’re NOT dating anything; – you’re just feeding the c~~~’s ego and giving her attention via text until she’s getting bored of you) – it’s incredible!

I hear some men’s excuses:
“oh, well it’s not I like I put any effort into it. Might as well hit up some bitches while I take a dump or whatever”.
Oh, you WILL waste time and energy, and some (most?) men even PAY for this insanity (paid subscriptions on match and paid subscriptions or whatever it’s called on Tinder, plus their “boost” s~~~ which also costs money, etc.).

F~~~ing incredible how men STILL waste their money on these SCAM sites, and women pay ZERO – while getting a dopamine high too from being so wanted all the time.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Maverick wrote:

Yep. I was thinking “scraping the bottom of the barrel”.

Have you seen some of the online “dating” links posted here for our edification and amusement?

I don’t think that barrel has a bottom.

[Anonymous 11]

I reckon that women online fall into three categories:

1) Those rejected by the men in their physical meat space for some reason.
2) Those who are seeking to line up a discreet fling with new random c~~~ while keeping her beta wallet.
3) Those who are seeking validation.

To those of you wondering why your little online cupcake suddenly disappears, you simply were bumped off the screen by the hordes of simps and the occasional Chad that message her. Women are simply overwhelmed by the amount of messages they receive. I can assure you 95% of them are from nauseating pussy beggars.

I understand that many women are using Facebook to line up the c~~~ too. It’s a good way for them to reconnect with Chads formerly lost by the passage of time. I recently had a woman describe to me how a Facebook simp showed up at her workplace with a gift for her. She told me she was not attracted to him. She prefers men who cheat and beat.

[Anonymous 42]

Have you done online dating and concluded that it is a waste of time?

No I haven’t ever done an internet date or communicate with cyberc~~~s in any way shape or form. Not on Face F~~~ either.

But waste my time? YES I HAVE! ALL THESE DESPERATE DATING SITES SOMEHOW GOT MY F~~~ING EMAIL ADDRESS AND I’M SICK OF CLICKING DELETE ALL THESE DESPERATE F~~~ING C~~~S!

THEY’RE SO DESPERATE FOR MEN TO SIGN UP THE PUSSY MUST BE 10 TO 1!

Buckle up gentlemen, There’s no airport or runway, we’re going in hard!

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

Anonymous wrote:

I recently had a woman describe to me how a Facebook simp showed up at her workplace with a gift for her. She told me she was not attracted to him.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Online dating is such a cesspool now than it used to be… You have basically several s~~~y choices of women:
1. The chick that has 30 selfies and duck face pictures with no profile writeup = attention seeking t~~~ that you should not waste your time with
2. The single mother = Nuff said
3. The fatty = Nuff said
4. The airhead girl that can not string 2 sentences together correctly = Pump and dump
5. The girl that says “I like movies and traveling” and any other random thing that pretty much everyone else likes to do = Does not have a brain to come up with something original to say and you should not waste your time with

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

bagsofsand wrote:

F~~~ man, sorry to hear. However this is an EXCELLENT experience to tell every future red pillar WHY they should avoid online dating like the plague and WHY it’s a f~~~ing SCAM.

If it can save others here, I am all for it.

With each of these experiences, I saved detailed accounts of what took place, in the form of pics etc.

With the STD incident…

I was sitting on my patio watching this lunatic dancing around naked, demanding I pour more water in the spa, to ‘make it a priority’. Took a pic of that, she is dancing at the patio table, t~~~ hanging out. Just filth looking back on it.

I was sooo blue-pilled then, knew as soon as I started fking her, I would prob end up with something. She called me ‘Nick’ during, that wasn’t my name… and a HUGE red flag. Contracted chlamydia within a couple days after, couldn’t go to work it was that bad.

Might try and post some of my experiences in the ‘dating’ thread. Kept trying/maintaning ‘Chad’ level aesthetics just to keep getting laid, was a miserable existence.

Maverick wrote:

Damn…too bad you had to go through all that. Here I was thinking that I was missing out. I haven’t deleted my profiles but that will be the next step. The last two messages I got were from single mothers (one wanted to exchange #’s). I didn’t bother to respond.

I was there at one time. What happened? Not quite sure. Just thought I was missing out on something I guess.

Maverick…

The only thing you are missing out on is a massive time/energy suck, resenting missing your own down-time, financial cost with all the dates, constant worry over pregnancy and std’s, risk of false accusations, bipolar cuunts who hide it very well, and it bascially affecting every level of your life.

I did a couple of 9’s and 8’s, and whilst at times the sex was great, it was nothing compared to the ‘cost’ of all that. You are better off fapping to p0rn, seriously. Lot of these girls aren’t as ‘clean’ as a 6 or a 7 either. They don’t have to be, because they expect men not to care. I did however.

The worst case of this… a 9 leaving a turd unflushed in the toilet on her way out, because she was talking on her phone during. Others include yeast infections, orange fake tans, and tasting previous gents leftovers from the guy they smashed on the way to your place.

When I look at women now, you could not pay me to F them. Spend 5 mins fap in shower, it beats whatever they have to offer… trust me.

Will post more of this in dating thread anyways.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

I used to. Got nothing to be honest. And I have to pay to upgrade? No thanks. Yes it is a waste of time. And MONEY! Quit looking and find yourself a hobby.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[MaverickParticipant 811]

I am happy to post that both accounts have been deleted!

Thought I’d give it one last ditch effort just for the hell of it. I sent a message to this one woman on OKC who didn’t even say she had kids on her profile. When I asked, she said that she has two “at home”. I asked if her kids were all from the same father (as well as another unrelated question). She answered the unrelated question but avoided that one. At that point, I was done.

You guys should have seen the pic of the beast that showed up when I went to cancel POF and they ask “are you sure you want to leave?” I couldn’t click the delete button fast enough.

[MaverickParticipant 811]

Anonymous wrote:

To those of you wondering why your little online cupcake suddenly disappears, you simply were bumped off the screen by the hordes of simps and the occasional Chad that message her. Women are simply overwhelmed by the amount of messages they receive. I can assure you 95% of them are from nauseating pussy beggars.

You almost have to be unemployed just to keep up with them. So many of these women are on these sites during business hours. Wonder if their bosses know?

[MaverickParticipant 811]

OneLaneOnlyPls wrote:

The only thing you are missing out on is a massive time/energy suck, resenting missing your own down-time

I am finding that I have more free time for sure, didn’t realize just how much time I was wasting on these sites. I was logging in on and off so it did not seem like I was spending as much time on it as I was. I’ll need to find more constructive ways on spending that time.

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