Guys, a little advice please

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Lucan wrote:

So I’ve been having these skype chats

STOP. ELECTRONIC. COMMUNICATIONS. WITH. WOMEN. ONLINE.
Women are for f~~~ing and boob fondling – not Skype chatting.

Lucan wrote:

with a very beautiful ex girlfriend.

Exes are exes for a reason. Stop giving her free attention.

Lucan wrote:

Anyway, she agreed to meet me if I go there and go out with me if I get a job there.

Oh right, because there are not enough men interested in country she lives in? This is Men Going Their Own Way.

…. not “Men Skype chatting with ex girlfriends and moving to other countries for her” – dot com.

Lucan wrote:

I was crazy about her

Interesting word, that: “crazy”.

Lucan wrote:

whether to go see her or not,

Not.

I have been in exactly this situation and she wanted (expected!) me to drive 600 miles across Germany to visit her. I just asked her “WHY??”. She froze and couldn’t even give me a reason! And why? Because there is no goddam reason to drive 600 miles to visit a woman at your expense. Not even SHE can give you a good enough reason for that.

Lucan wrote:

she’s really beautiful

So what.

You suffer from the “center of the universe misconception”. About 600 years ago, everyone thought the Earth was the Center of the universe. But the Earth is NOT the center of the universe. It’s not even the center of the solar system!

Beautiful women are not the center of the Universe.
So stop acting like it.

XSDBS wrote:

No contact. Of any kind. Ever.

Bingo.

The first line the poor guy will here when he steps off the plane and says “IM HERE HONEY!!!” will be “omg I’m just taking the p~~~ out of you is it so hard to tell”?

@lucan, my friend, don’t even think about it. It would be a mistake of such gigantic proportions, it will ruin your life and make-wretched your destiny.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 1]

I always hated all that long distance bulls~~~, even in my blue pill days I never went for it.

Some guy in her city is f~~~ing that rotten.

You’re better than that.

[Anonymous 5]

Hey man respects for asking for the post (Happy you are telling it like it is) but:

You can do two things:

1. Go see her and have her f~~~ you over.

2. Stay and focus on you and become extremely successful.

Hey hope you feel the satire lol. I feel you know what to do.

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Disclaimer: I in no way suggest that my experiences are the norm. That being said:

I visited an ex last summer in another country and I had a wonderful time. Best vacation of my life.

If you’re intent on visiting her, there’s nothing any of us can say that can stop you. Though I will provide some advice:

Don’t go if you don’t speak the language of that country but she does. I made that mistake. Your general welfare is completely in her hands. My girl would have mood swings and then refuse to translate for me. Also Make sure you have shelter even if you two have a fight (which will almost certainly happen).

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[Eric LauderParticipant 12053]

Lucan wrote:

So I’ve been having these skype chats with a very beautiful ex girlfriend. She’s in another country, where I originally met her at the moment. Anyway, she teases me a lot and at one point she said “omg I’m just taking the p~~~ out of you is it so hard to tell”. She smiles so sweetly though and she says I’m handsome (that is something other people say, I look handsome, but I’m rather depressed and insecure). I don’t really have the ability to develop any kind of a rappor with her because of the cultural difference and my own awkwardness. Anyway, she agreed to meet me if I go there and go out with me if I get a job there. Anyway, I don’t know what to make of it all. I’m really crazy about her, I have been for a long time, she’s my fantasy girl tbh, I was crazy about her when were together, it just didn’t work because I was really depressed at the time, it was like it wasn’t real, I couldn’t believe it.

Anyway, I don’t know what to do, whether to go see her or not, I don’t want to get hurt, but I’ve been thinking about her a lot for a long time, she’s really beautiful. I don’t trust her in a way though, I don’t always understand her, because of the cultural difference and because I’m socially akward.

so yeah. Any advice?

I think you should try with her.
You have to defeat you depression.
Meeting her and going out with her can be VERY VERY dangerous.
But that’s your dream, and no one should give up to his dreams.
You should also report all the progress here, so we’ll advice you if she’s going to become dangerous.
Women can be managed…errr…sometimes at least…
BUT
AND THIS IS MY ADVICE:
ASK HER TO MOVE IN YOUR COUNTRY FOR A VACATION, FIRST.
IF SHE REFUSE, DUMP HER.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

@lucan

My advice would be to stay clear from this woman she is just trying to use you and in the long run you will hurt both emotionally and financially. What is this woman offering you that you can’t get closer to home? She knows you are far away and just wants the attention without having to use her only asset that she brings to the table; doesn’t matter if she is a 5 or a 10 in looks that is how all women operate.

Remember there are billions of fish in the sea and thousands close to your home you will find the same thing closer to home without having to spend a ton of money, and when you are done just leave don’t look back. Never bring any woman home or allow her to nest there pump and dump once she wants a relationship. As others have already said no need to go to another city or country to get the same thing at home. Good luck with whatever you decide.

[KillmandrillParticipant 497]

As a lot of posters here have advised you before, cut the contact to her, now!

Here´s why, a woman would do anything to break or bend your will without you even recognizing it. She´d say everything that you want to hear and that sounds pleasing to you to achieve what she wants, that is you complying to her will. Women are pretty skilled with this and they do it in a highly refined manner so you would hardly recognize that you are being manipulated. And once she got what she wanted, and that is only and solely breaking/bending your will, you become replaceable. Women are like cats somehow, playing with mice and not even eating them, killing just for fun or to train their skills.
This is not about you as a person it is about her getting her will, don´t give in!

Resist and be stoic.

Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent. Friedrich Nietzsche

[Eric LauderParticipant 12053]

He can get the best by asking her to move in his country for a brief holiday, three or four weeks.
If she’ll refuse: dump her. No more contacts.
If she’ll accept: report here every progress, f~~~ her, and so on.
They like to play cat and mice, but we can do it, too, and even better.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

Some guy in her city is f~~~ing that rotten.

I could only ever HOPE to be that poetic one day.

(Sigh.) Very well said.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 1]

Keymaster wrote:

joller984 wrote:

Some guy in her city is f~~~ing that rotten.

I could only ever HOPE to be that poetic one day.

(Sigh.) Very well said.

Thank you.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7645]

You said you don’t trust her, and that you don’t understand her. Therefore, she is not relationship material even if she is camped out on your doorstep.

But just for the learning experience of it, tell her how much you are in love with her and how you fantasize about her and how she is your dream girl. Be 100% totally honest about all that.

Then, tell her to move to your city and find a job so that she will have something of equal value to bring to the equal and fair relationship you dream about having with her.

Her reaction will tell you all you need to know about wether she is actually the person you dream about in your head or not, and once you know that, you won’t need advice from anyone here about what to do next. 🙂

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Mr_OptionsParticipant 298]

As others have said, hell no. She is your ex for a reason. Let her be some other guys problem.

A man without a woman is like a fish without a hook.

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