Female Family Members Relations~~~s

[KeymasterKeymaster]

sidecar wrote:

Then tell her that if she persists in those vile opinions, she doesn’t have any place in your life

Agreed. I believe there comes a time when a man has to say this out loud.

“There is nothing I need from anyone in my family except for love and respect for my decisions. If you can’t give me those basics, you have no place in my life”.

Dont hesitate.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ABParticipant 762]

Definitely food for thought.

No-one's yet explained to me exactly what's so great // About slaving fifty years away on something that you hate // About meekly shuffling down the path of mediocrity // Well if that's your road then take it, but it's not the road for me.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

AB wrote:

She is ultimately willing to pay for his “gentlemanly nature” with her vagina, so in summary, the whore part holds value.

A part time whore is still a whore.

And your sister’s relationship is doomed. Even if they stay together, it’s doomed. I guarantee it.

[ABParticipant 762]

sidecar wrote:

And your sister’s relationship is doomed.

I have no belief in it already; it’s one borne of desperation in my opinion. She just left a LTR and rebounded into this one. It is my belief from her ex that the end/start of this one and her last one are blurred.

No-one's yet explained to me exactly what's so great // About slaving fifty years away on something that you hate // About meekly shuffling down the path of mediocrity // Well if that's your road then take it, but it's not the road for me.

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

AWALT.

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[StormtrooperParticipant 1080]

Personally when my family asks me when I am going to find a girlfriend, I just look back and tell them

“When I want to set myself on fire, then I’ll find a box of matches.”

They don’t ask me about that stuff very much now.

Having a girlfriend is like owning a gun, the longer your around it, the more you want to shoot it.

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

AB,
Sounds like your mother is like all other women. She wants for you what is best for her.

If you fall for her bulls~~~, you would find a “nice girl” settle down and have kids. Your mother would get huge status for having grandchildren with her other female companions.

Please keep this in mind: your mother does not give a s~~~ about what is best for you; especially when she stands to gain by using you as a utility to gain status and privelege.

That is my experience.

BIB

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

Sometimes I have to get real firm with my mother. I keep it very brief and clear but she absolutely knows my boundaries. Not that she does not try to penetrate them from time to time. I have had to minimize my time with her when she continues her manipulations and machinations as it becomes toxic to be around no matter how strong and firm my boundaries are. If my mother where a man I would tell her to go f~~~ off. If I say that to my mother (the worst human being I have probably ever known) she would forever be the “poor victim” and I would be slandered endlessly for being “mean”.

I wish you luck.

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

AB,
remind you mother of this conversation when her daughter is getting a divorce from this “real man” whom she will call by another name during the divorce. It will happen. You could probably tell her about it now, but she will surely be offended.

[Gunstar1Participant 3]

The women in my family to include my mother were brought up to be narcissists. Liars, thieves and cheaters. After pursuing much self help and professional help, I, after 39 years finally learned the difference between what family members are, and what blood relatives are. Completely different people where one is nominated by choice and the other (in my case) unfortunately put there by default.
In this world, we cannot choose who are blood relatives are, but we certainly can choose who our family is and it is nowhere near what blood relatives are. This absolutely soured my perception of women from the start. Especially since I found out and studied that it wasn’t me being a bad person growing up, even though I was told by them that I was. It was how powerful the feminist/narcissistic mind is to manipulate, control, destroy and undermine the male identity.
Unfortunately for them and their short-sightedness, they were too stupid to figure out that I would inevitably learn the truth. The stronger the red pill I kept taking, the more I learned to hate them.
On the flip side, they’ve taught me so much in how to protect my beliefs, values, identity and feelings and most importantly navigate through life circumventing the needs of women in exchange for my own.
I see the same behavior in women everywhere and to answer your question about how I handle them: Like enemies of my safety and well-being. I don’t attack them with rude accusation or violence, but with calmness, carelessness and the progressive deconstruction of THEIR identities.

"To Be Yourself In A World Constantly Trying to Make You Something Different Shall Be Your Greatest Accomplishment"~Ralph Waldo Emerson

[BlakeGuyParticipant 287]

I would never talk about that sort of thing with any female in my family. As far as I am concerned no one in my family needs to know anything about any relations~~~ i do have or do not have. I doubt they would even bring up the topic of a relations~~~ with me. I do not see why you would talk to your mother about it.

Let the good times roll

[Anonymous 2]

AB wrote:

Alas, back to the topic at hand. Today she visited me and my daughter, and initiated a conversation about my older sisters latest romance. The gist of the conversation was: “He is a real man because when they go out, he refuses to let her pay for anything. He works a well paying job, yet he comes home and does most of the cleaning and cooking. He spoils her and treats her with lavish gifts. He says he’s going to get them a new home, and he’ll pay to decorate and furnish it all. He is how a real man should be, not like these wasters who don’t appreciate their woman. A true gentleman.”

Sorry to say it, but your daughter and mother are part of the problem when it comes to understanding what love has turned into. They are part of the socially norm, where men are the providers and give everything they work for to the woman. They believe that the man is supposed to bend over backwards for the family, while the woman sits back and relaxes. At any second, she can kick the slave (man) out of the house and take everything of his. A man to a woman is nothing more than an expensive tool that can be manipulated by looks. The idea of a ‘real man’ is what is turning a bunch of men to MGTOW. Hopefully you never stumble and make a mistake and get with a woman. Stay away, far away.

[ABParticipant 762]

Anonymous wrote:

Sorry to say it, but your daughter and mother are part of the problem when it comes to understanding what love has turned into.

My daughter not so much; she is only four years old. I’m hopeful I can still shield her from the toxicity of feminism and tradcon bulls~~~. I’m fighting an uphill battle, I know. Perhaps you meant my sister and mother? If so, I totally agree.

Anonymous wrote:

Hopefully you never stumble and make a mistake and get with a woman.

I am hopeful to go full monk; I’m eleven months celibate now (beside fap) – I had a scare almost a year ago whereby I had been f~~~ing a single mother with three kids and there was an acute chance I had got her pregnant with her fourth… I had been going strapped up but there’s always that chance… thankfully it transpired she had been riding the c~~~ carousel more than I realised, and it was some other poor guys bad news. Nevertheless, the thought alone put the fear of God into me, and I’ve steered clear of all pussy ever since.

No-one's yet explained to me exactly what's so great // About slaving fifty years away on something that you hate // About meekly shuffling down the path of mediocrity // Well if that's your road then take it, but it's not the road for me.

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