Even female friendship is deceiving!

[SMADParticipant 651]

Evening all,

So I would like to share with everyone a recent story about how even a friendship with a woman can be disappointing and deceiving. In some parts there will be vague as I don’t want to give away identities etc.

Earlier this year, a female friend of mine was having some difficulty emotionally because a long distance relationship was turning nasty (emotional abuse, etc). Long distance between entirely different continents. So, to help her out, I loaned her some money to pay for the flight so that she could face her partner and resolve things face to face.

After a rocky start (from her arrival) they patch things up which is cool – I am happy for her. I feel glad I was able to help someone out. But, here’s the thing. On Facebook, it would seem that for some time now, some friends and myself have been partially “blocked” – in that we haven’t been unfriended but posts aren’t visible to us. My friends involved knew about the situation, etc and they were told by their friends / partners that new things were appearing on this womans profile.

So, after lending her money for a flight (yes I have proof, screenshots of facebook conversation AND of the bank transfer with account numbers / names / time and date stamp) it would seem I (and my friends who knew the situation) have been semi blocked.

So yes, trying to help out a friend who, for the first half of her trip over was having a tough time resolving things, etc, barely replies for the last half and now this. Thank you very much.

Even HELPING a supposed FRIEND is now quite s~~~ – played the victim and I wanted to help as I thought there was genuine friendship.

Oh well, hopefully this lesson will resonate with some members here next time they think about helping out.

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

How much did this little lesson cost you? Now you brought up the point that she is a friend, imagine how much it would cost you if it was a hooker or worse… your legal liability.

Most men would just say I can’t afford you and, if she’s not a hooker you really can’t afford her.

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Anonymous 13]

No good deed goes unpunished.

You are a utility, even in friend mode.

Don’t give or lend women money, ever!

Cut this toxic person out your life forever.

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

Get your money back and forget her.

And never lend money to a chick again.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[SMADParticipant 651]

TattooDave wrote:

How much did this little lesson cost you?

Not a vast amount, a few hundred pounds but, right now its more the principle of it!

Anonymous wrote:

No good deed goes unpunished.

You are a utility, even in friend mode.

Don’t give or lend women money, ever!

Absolutely. If this was a date or whatever, there wouldn’t have been a loan. I thought a friendship would have been different. How I was wrong.

MOWsince95 wrote:

Get your money back and forget her.

And never lend money to a chick again.

I am hoping to get money back – she lives with her parents so if it really comes to it, I will just ask them to repay me. Not going to be horrible about it – it’s just a loan after all. When she goes back to the other side of the pond (for good / marriage etc) then it’s done anyway so.

I would like to think there is some good come from it: I helped a fellow human being out and I have learned a valuable lesson from this. It could have been worse – could have been a relationship and cost thousands… Have to be grateful for the small things!

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[Anonymous 11]

I have a nephew who once gave a woman money for “college tuition”. He learned more from that one experience than he learned at that school.

SMAD wrote:

I thought a friendship would have been different. How I was wrong.

They’re not capable of being friends as we are. It’s just the way they’re wired. We have to accept it. That’s not to say you can’t enjoy her company on occasion just have zero expectations. One Chad will make you a distant memory for her in a literal heartbeat.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

Anonymous wrote:

I have a nephew who once gave a woman money for “college tuition”. He learned more from that one experience than he learned at that school.

SMAD wrote:

I thought a friendship would have been different. How I was wrong.

They’re not capable of being friends as we are. It’s just the way they’re wired. We have to accept it. That’s not to say you can’t enjoy her company on occasion just have zero expectations. One Chad will make you a distant memory for her in a literal heartbeat.

I think you might be right and it seems as though that’s already happened

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Anonymous 43]

lol you think you can be friends with a woman?

[SMADParticipant 651]

Anonymous wrote:

I have a nephew who once gave a woman money for “college tuition”. He learned more from that one experience than he learned at that school.

Ouch! That’s quite a bit I imagine. Hopefully he didn’t get too much in debt for that lesson!

Anonymous wrote:

They’re not capable of being friends as we are. It’s just the way they’re wired. We have to accept it. That’s not to say you can’t enjoy her company on occasion just have zero expectations. One Chad will make you a distant memory for her in a literal heartbeat.

A nugget of truth there C-Pig. A shame really as in some ways, a LITTLE BIT of female energy in life isn’t too terrible, at least ideally. But I know what my mind is like and the sad thing is, now when even a male friend will ask for money, this experience will come to the fore front and result in me being very wary / saying no.

Oh well, when things inevitably go crap again (as it seems to be a cycle with her and her relationship with this guy as I recently found out) there won’t be any second loan. Not a fan of friends just disappearing because they have a partner. Very, very unhealthy.

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

@smad, you joined 2 years ago, and your profile says MGTOW for 10. Everybody makes mistakes and you obviously had the capability, but think seriously for a second. Would you have financed a trip for a male buddy to patch things with a c~~~ in another country?

Write the money off, stay “friends* with her if you really want, but it sounds like you got played.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Anonymous 3]

You helped her, and she does this! No respect, no thank you, no nothing. Disgusting, also for a c~~~. Unfriend her in real life, stop your losses! Kiss goodbye for the money and time you spent with her. (if you cannot get it back money easy) and move on. This is one thing, what was told me about investing: Always decide, how much you are risking to lose, and quit if it reaches that point. (It did not help much for me on stock market to get rich,- that time everything went down and I should just have been sitting on all the stock and not looking the prices- , but that stop-loss philosophy helped me a lot more in topics of real life.

[SMADParticipant 651]

Ogre wrote:

@smad, you joined 2 years ago, and your profile says MGTOW for 10.

Yup. What can I say, sometimes a moment of weakness strikes or a small bit of faith creeps up where you think “actually, maybe there is an exception.” Sometimes a “gentle” reminder is required. I am grateful it’s only a relatively small sum and not a house / children or whatever at stake (not trying to trivialise other peoples situations and experiences at all with that comment!)

Quite frankly, if this is what has happened, then I am writing the friendship off, don’t you worry. I will cackle to myself when it all implodes as me and everyone else expects it to. Chicks love bad boys and she is convinced she has changed this guy, who is physically and emotionally abusive apparently. But then maybe shes just mega sensitive and hes a no nonsense kinda guy. Oh well – better him than me!

Ogre wrote:

Write the money off, stay “friends* with her if you really want, but it sounds like you got played.

Chances are, yes, played good and proper. Hopefully this story will be a lesson to other members here – have a sanity check before you do something like this! Learn from mine (and others) mistakes 🙂

Anonymous wrote:

Always decide, how much you are risking to lose, and quit if it reaches that point.

I dabbled in the FXCM world too a while ago. But yes, I thought there was a cool friendship tbh, lots in common actually and all that. Not too worried about the time lost – I still got on with things and lived my life.

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Never could have seen that coming!!!!

/sarcasm

[Anonymous 42]

Even female friendship is deceiving!

SMAD wrote:

SMAD

Really? WTF! Female friendship is backwards at best and lethal at worst!

1. I hereby charge you Mr. SMAD, with the act of knowingly and willingly White Knighting.

2. Aiding and abetting in the transportation of a women to her desired destination.

3. Taking part in the lude licentious act emotional tampon.

4. Orbiting a woman for the sole purpose of assistance without sexual gratification.

It is the decision of this court that you Mr. SMAD be remanded to the MGTOW psychoanalysis ward for observations to determine if the mental disease called Mumford’s syndrome has or hasn’t infected your brain.

[SMADParticipant 651]

Anonymous wrote:

1. I hereby charge you Mr. SMAD, with the act of knowingly and willingly White Knighting.

2. Aiding and abetting in the transportation of a women to her desired destination.

3. Taking part in the lude licentious act emotional tampon.

4. Orbiting a woman for the sole purpose of assistance without sexual gratification.

It is the decision of this court that you Mr. SMAD be remanded to the MGTOW psychoanalysis ward for observations to determine if the mental disease called Mumford’s syndrome has or hasn’t infected your brain.

I plead guilty, your honour. Please be gentle with my sentence… 🙂

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

LOL MGTOWER!

This is like one of those letters to Hustler: (or for you youngens /r/cuckstories)

We thought it would be fun to have my wife f~~~ 12 well hung black dudes while I sat in the corner and watched like the ineffectual cuck that I am.
Everything went great, and we were both super turned on by the experience. I thought a spark had been ignited in our sex life again!
But now my wife does not even feel my small penis inside of her cavernous snatch, and craves huge c~~~. She also has lost all respect for me, somehow. I keep finding her in bed with various black men when I get home from work.
Hopefully other men can learn from my folly.

I am kidding OP. It is a good lesson for those stupid enough to think they can lend money or financially help women and not get f~~~ed over for doing it. You did right to share it. Bless your little heart. 🙂

[SMADParticipant 651]

Pedal, run, row wrote:

It is a good lesson for those stupid enough to think they can lend money or financially help women and not get f~~~ed over for doing it. You did right to share it. Bless your little heart.

Honestly it’s cool – I will take any and all banter as a result of this. As long as somebody reads this and thinks “F~~~ – I am in this situation right now…REVERSE REVERSE!!!”

TBH I wouldn’t want to even go out with her / stick my dick in crazy.

This special ward that Dr Tower put me in has lots of funny colours and a nice, bouncy padded room. The food is a bit crap though…tastes like foam!

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[Anonymous 42]

Mumford’s syndrome is a SERIOUS ILLNESS!

If left unchecked it could have a man feeding and clothing 5 kids to which none are his genetic composition, AND THAT’S AFTER THE DIVORCE!

[OgreParticipant 5863]

You are a good sport @smad, thank you for posting your slightly embarrassing anecdote.

You know what you did wrong, and you shared to save other men.

Women who are failures try to write articles for other women. At least you can admit your mistake and move on.

Your response to Tower actually made me laugh. No pussy pass. Just throw yourself on the mercy of the court.

Don’t ever finance a dumbasses booty call again! Don’t feed bitches or Chads, they are inappreciative assholes.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Anonymous 11]

SMAD, my policy is max $50 US dollars for lending. Pay it back, and he is eligible for another $50 max.

My nephew got rinsed for $2000 and used a credit card. He got to think about it for several years.

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