Does the pain from being cheated on ever end?

[BigDParticipant 3024]

Yes, it does. Once you realize the person wasn’t worth p~~~ing on if they were on fire from the get go, then you will realize most women aren’t worth p~~~ing on if they were on fire.

Years from now you will think back to the girl that cheated on you and just wonder why you put up with her in the first place.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[Anonymous 43]

Throw the device in the ocean, never do that s~~~ again.

[Silver FoxParticipant 2766]

Anonymous wrote:

Throw the device in the ocean, never do that s~~~ again.

EXCELLENT advice right there.

At the very least, erase the recordings. But I’d still consider getting rid of the thing so you won’t even be tempted to try recording anything else.

As for getting over the pain, yes–you will get over it. I found out that my ex-wife had f~~~ed a half dozen different guys while we were separated but still married. By the time I found out, I had already steeled myself to the reality of the situation and the discovery didn’t really hurt that bad at all. Just kind of, “Eh, not surprising at all.”

I’m focused on me and my kids now. (Thank God I have custody of them.) And I won’t ever get married again. I won’t even sleep around again. I’m a very creative guy and I know what my passions are. I’m looking forward to a lifetime of pursuing my dreams. It’s time for you also to tap into that part of your soul.

"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

[Anonymous 0]

Nope. I still have sleepless nights over it and that was 29 years ago. And I have big trust issues and have adopted the motto “if she’s cryin’ she’s lyin'”. MGTOW and reading the forum’s have helped a lot.

[Anonymous 42]

It goes away when the wisdom of how things really are finally sets in.

Whey else would women be saying “where are all the good men ?”

We’re right here before their eyes that do not see.

We’re right here before their ears that do not hear.

We’re right here before their noses that do not smell.

We’re here in the ghost that exists on a higher plane they will never see, hear, smell, taste, or touch, we dwell on the mesa of MASCULINITY. Cliff on all four sides. I’m never climbing back down again into the valley of female misery…

[bladeParticipant]

Dude from your last thread a couple of months ago you ignored all of our advice about this same woman you are now heart broken over . There is just to many inconsistencies not only what you have put in this thread .

In the beggining of this thread you mention it was ages ago last Christmas you were with this chick . Last thread two months ago you were asking us what we thought of you going out with this same chick .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

blade wrote:

Dude from your last thread a couple of months ago you ignored all of our advice about this same woman you are now heart broken over . There is just to many inconsistencies not only what you have put in this thread .

In the beggining of this thread you mention it was ages ago last Christmas you were with this chick . Last thread two months ago you were asking us what we thought of you going out with this same chick .

Yeah I was still reading mgtow forums daily and continued to ignore advice. Very stupid. I was thinking with my penis.

I think I made like 2 or 3 posts about it. It was so difficult to man up and let go. One of the hardest things I’ve done. Pussy is so powerful. I would go to the MGTOW forums, have my mind set, then relapse. She was so convincing. She was phenomenal at getting me to believe that I was paranoid and that she was right. I have a weak constitution.

Haven’t talked to her since that last thread where I said I friend zoned her.

Wasn’t with her last x-mas though. The commercials just remind me of my blue pill simping

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

Anonymous wrote:

Throw the device in the ocean, never do that s~~~ again.

It is somewhere in the landfill now.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Keymaster wrote:

007 wrote:

Does the pain from being cheated on ever end?

Of course.

It ends THE VERY MINUTE you stop expecting women to be faithful and understand they are more promiscuous and have more sexual partners than men.

It ends on the day you stop buying into any of that “how do I know I can trust you?” womanly crap s~~~-testing fraud pretense where they pretend “men have a problem with commitment” when everybody knows getting a woman to cheat is easier than getting her to go to the gym. All you gotta do is throw it in front of her face.

Women cheat their age, their looks, hair color, eye lashes, nails, height, weight, and lie about their motivations. One wonders where you ever got the idea that she would NOT cheat? She will even attempt to cheat you OUT of it! If you’re not aware of this, one day , you will come home and she toss you a baby and say “here, this is yours”… while expecting you to pay for her mistake and s~~~ty choices.

And PS. Christmas is coming. No matter how hard you work to put thought into a nice gift for her, you can be prepared that YOUR gift could be a fake positive pregnancy test which she bought from craigslist for $20 while she says “OOPS!” and expects you to stick around until Feb 15th, when she finally admits she was “just kidding – false alarm”.

Accept it. And congratulations. You’re cured.

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR.

See this video? Just because a woman throws a f~~~ing violent & destructive s~~~ fit and threatens to carve her name into your leather seats — or take a Louisville slugger to your headlights — doesn’t mean she’s not playing sperm vacuum with 10 other guys. You have been sold a mammoth LIE that women are faithful and trustworthy themselves.

They aren’t. Stop expecting women to be faithful.
Jerry Springer and Maury Povich made goddam TV careers out of exposing female infidelity.

Who the f~~~ would ever expect her to NOT cheat when all that’s required is the willingness to spread her legs – especially when she doesn’t even understand the consequences of her own actions. Not even guilt will stop women from cheating. That’s because women think that cheating requires some kind of expressed willingness or premeditation on their part to actually count. I s~~~ you not, that is exactly what they say. To a woman “cheating” requires a planning and malice on par with a bank robbery. Blowing some Guido in the nightclub toilet “didn’t count”.

Can you believe that? It means if a woman can somehow convince a co-worker to force himself on her, that “doesn’t count” as cheating. But stand back because it gets worse.

Women also don’t count miring themselves in twisted, Dynasty-styled emotional affairs as “cheating”. For instance, a woman may hang around with as many as five or six of her ex-boyfriends without batting an eye. She may accept niceties from male co-workers or university staff members without ever questioning the motive of a free backrub. That’s a perfectly reasonable thing to be handing out, isn’t it? A free backrub? They’re like porno pamphlets in Vegas.

Like any virus, women are not content with ruining their own lives. Ultimately, they seek out the lives of decent, honest men and tempt and corrupt them until they appear to be the cheaters – when nothing could be further from the truth. Cheating is 100% a woman’s fault and 100% avoidable by her, because sex never even happens unless SHE wants it to.

If you know a woman, you can bet she is cheating at this very moment — OR — she is attempting to get away with cheating her husband/boyfriend OUT of it.

“I have a headache”.

“No you don’t. Your dildo is still moist in the goody drawer. Did you mistake it for aspirin? “.

Learn it, and there will never be “pain” again.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Quiet DesperationParticipant 66]

It will fade and ease but will never go away, I can live with it now and in a way I’m glad she f~~~ed about and I found out when I did.

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

You will get pass this. Best thing to do is 86 her ass. If she’s screwing other dudes, you don’t need her. You especially do not need any diseases either.

It’s time for you to move forward and accomplish things that will bring you fulfillment. Pussy is not the end all be all. There is more to life.

[Y_Participant 4591]

Yo 007

This is not about the female. It’s about the feelings YOU have every f~~~ing time you think mushy thoughts. Until you train yourself to see the truth – Red Pill moment – you will not know real happiness or peace.

Yes the feelings do go away – for this one.
But you will fall into the same trap all over again!
How many times do you want to go through this? And for WHAT???
Wake up dude – you really need someone to kick you in the butt.

Get a grip – apply yourself as a MGHOW – or be prepared for continual s~~~ at the hands of females.

Remember- your life – your choice.

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

Y_ wrote:

Yo 007

This is not about the female. It’s about the feelings YOU have every f~~~ing time you think mushy thoughts. Until you train yourself to see the truth – Red Pill moment – you will not know real happiness or peace.

Yes the feelings do go away – for this one.
But you will fall into the same trap all over again!
How many times do you want to go through this? And for WHAT???
Wake up dude – you really need someone to kick you in the butt.

Get a grip – apply yourself as a MGHOW – or be prepared for continual s~~~ at the hands of females.

Remember- your life – your choice.

Woke up this morning in a really good mood and came to the realization that I’m lucky that I got out when I did.

What did I actually lose?

-A few hundred dollars in meals, entertainment, gas, and a $15 birthday gift.
-Lots of time I could have spent doing productive things
-My emotional investment
-Trust for any woman

That’s it.

At least I didn’t:

-Lose everything I own
-Get Married
-Cohabitate
-Have to pay alimony and child support
-Get and STD
-Charged with a false legal claim
-Get physically hurt
-Lose my Family and Friends
-Lose my Job
-And a million other things that happen to men in relations~~~s

It can only get better from here.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

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