Do You Think I'm Pretty?

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Keymaster wrote:

Excellent. And when women fish for compliments – NEVER give her one.

Or at least…. give her a backhanded compliment.
It SOUNDS like a compliment, but really, it’s a dig.

You want to erode whatever self esteem she has left – not prop the bitch up.

You can always tell them the straight up honest truth.

“Do you think I’m pretty?”

“Of course you’re pretty. Why else would anyone put up with you?”

[flightspaceSpectator 207]

at this point i just tell women they’re ugly to stir s~~~ up

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

flightspace wrote:

at this point i just tell women they’re ugly to stir s~~~ up

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[experiencedParticipant]

Do You Think I’m Pretty?                 “I’m so miserable since you left it’s almost like you’re still here.”             The unknown comic.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Assuming I had a canned response ready for this, I would end up doing the relationship analysis approach:

I would say that I am not her boyfriend and my thought on whether or not she is pretty doesn’t matter.  I would also say that I take that question as one to make him jealous and to manipulate him into give you responses you wanted.  I would say I have no room in my life for such manipulation.  And, if I was looking for a girlfriend, I wouldn’t want one to do that to me (indicating that I am out of bounds for her, if she remotely even thought that).   I would then also say that she needs to stop trying to get validation out of a relationship for her own personal worth, and if she feels a need that she doesn’t hear it enough, she really should work on herself, and stop basing her worth on her looks and a relationship needs more than just looks to be sustained.  I would tell her she is more likely to find peace doing that. I should also comment I should charge her $200 for that therapy session, because that is what it was worth for her, and would be quite a bargain.  Heck, I come to think of it now, I might even be able to turn this moment into a way to make some money..

I am likely to get an “Ewww, he is no fun” response and never be invited back, which is perfectly fine with me.  There is liberation telling someone the truth, that if they listen would benefit them, and not caring what they do as a response.  No matter the outcome, I win doing this.  If it goes nasty, I at least get a story out of it i can use.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

aeragoan wrote:

Destroy her delusion about her beauty like this.. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=gnTXLUvyToE

That is a great way to end up making money off her.  If you do plastic surgery, you could get a woman to pay you for it.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

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