Do You Think I'm Pretty?

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Went out for supper with a group of friends last night.

One of the guy’s girlfriend was “fishing” by making the comment “men don’t compliment women enough”.

Hoping to mess with her a little, I said “I’ve noticed that too.  I wonder why that is?”

She immediately says “<boyfriend> hasn’t told me how pretty I look tonight.  Don’t you think I look pretty?”

I responded with “Compared to who?”

She yells “You’re an ass!”

I reply “If I was an ass, I would have said NO!”

And the pouting ensued.

 

 

 

 

[Anonymous 12]

LOL a while ago I knew this woman who was a model, she was ok looking but in my opinion most “models” aren’t that great looking anyway. She asked, practically insisted that I rate her out of 10, I told her I would rate her as a 7, I wasn’t s~~~ stirring, I was being honest.

She went off her nut, carrying on that men have always rated her as 10 and only 1 rated her as a 9 because he doesn’t give 10’s. We were on the phone during this conversation and she ran outside to tell her neighbour that she had just been rated a 7, it was a serious trauma for her. I just laughed and I’ll admit if I thought she might f~~~ me I probably would have at that point given her a 10 rating but even back then (I was 22 at the time) I knew that she wasn’t going to “thank” me so it seemed pointless to lie.

[SMADParticipant 651]

XSDBS wrote:

She immediately says “ hasn’t told me how pretty I look tonight.  Don’t you think I look pretty?”

Oh my, sounds like this lady (woman / human female?) was feeling a little self concious.

XSDBS wrote:

I responded with “Compared to who?”

This is currently being stored in my “Future Response to use when interacting with ditch-pigs seeking attention.”

For potential escalation / nuclear escalation:

XSDBS wrote:

Don’t you think I look pretty?”

“Pretty what?  Huge?  Self centred? Needy?”

 

 

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[a bananaParticipant 288]

LOL well played mate

well f~~~ing played

[leobez84Participant 124]

ROFLMAO both stories are hilarious. I actually remember doing that myself in Korea. I’m the type of dude that has a problem being “considerate” as women say, so if you look busted I’m flat out calling it out. Thankfully I have a gf that understands that for what it is, but before her “You’re an ass” was mentioned and an argument ensued but it somehow worked out into getting laid anyway =).

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Women love to fish for compliments just to boost, validate their fragile egos.

I remember the ex asking does this make me look fat?, blue pill days, of course not you look great. Fast forward red pill days, does this make me look fat?, no, your fat ass makes you look fat. The end.

 

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

I would have responded. Yes I’m an asshole and proud of it, thanks for telling me what I already know.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

XSDBS wrote:

Don’t you think I look pretty?” I responded with “Compared to who?”

Yeah XSDBS, that’s a good one.

Now come to think of it: Last year I happened to attend a beauty pageant event as part of one of numerous camera crews (on a TV shooting job), who were filming that event for a TV show, which was basically a first casting for finding the new super model type of girl, so there were literally hundreds of good looking young women there.

So there I was with one camera crew, that was positioned right at the bottom of the stairs leading up to the catwalk, where they had to walk over to be then judged by the jury. It was just hilarious and equally revealing, since at the end of the final casting each and everyone of them models ultimately knew, that there was only gonna be one extremely “lucky” woman, who was going to be finally crowned as the new highly paid model and of course secretly each and every one of them women wanted to be that one “lucky woman”. Although at that point, when we was filming there and made a few interviews with some of them women from that looong cue at the bottom of the stairs ie. just prior to their walk on the catwalk every now and then, it became quite obvious that behind that facade of the women’s “sisterhood” group dynamics in the end they were all the fiercest opponents towards one another. Some of them were quite good at acting that fact away others weren’t. But ultimately I had lots of fun at times re-fueling their sense of hope and competitiveness by randomly picking some of them and wishing them all the best, kind of “cold flirting”with them a bit and/or dropping a quick encouraging line to one or the other of them like (with quite a generous smile on my face): “Ahhh, you’ll be alright, beauty girl” or giving out other similar complimenting encouragements to some of them, whilst in reality I could hardly care less about, who was gonna ultimately win that tough competition in the end, until the cameraman I was with finally said: “Come on, stop it dude! We are here to work not to chat…!” and I was like: “Yeah right, fair enough…” but I thought: “Poor women (as in all of them), soooo desperate and full of hope, but in all reality to them it’s just a real f~~~ing huge battle…”

Needles to say I albeit enjoyed the overall appealing site, though none of them would have interested me seriously relationship wise whatsoever, since the cliché saying goes: “Beauty as skin deep, but mostly no valuable character behind that facade…” which in part even there amongst all of this abundance of superficial shallow beauty every now and again rose to its surface…

Funny old world, like I said very revealing and hilarious. Report from an insider. ‘Nuff said there…

 

Ned T.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

LOL beat me to it. The girls I date know better than to ask me questions like that unless they want an absolutely honest answer.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Helen be DamnedParticipant 480]

I’m sorry, I don’t answer baited questions

"You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Well played sir, and a nice subtle burn at the same time.

Most women have a 24/7 need for validation of some sort, it is downright pathetic.  When I realized this several months back, it was the closest thing to a “clarity” moment – it was the final piece of the puzzle.  Everything they do is about validation, even having a child.

The “you don’t compliment me enough” tactic is one I loathe.  This guy just got a humiliation test by his woman, calling him out in public, they are experts at that; treat me like some f~~~ing child, trying to shape my behavior via public s~~~ test – that humiliation tactic is a trigger point for me.

Sovereignty above all else.

[experiencedParticipant]

“… guy’s girlfriend was “fishing” by making the comment “men don’t compliment women enough”.  Hoping to mess with her a little, I said “I’ve noticed that too.  I wonder why that is?”  She immediately says “<boyfriend> hasn’t told me how pretty I look tonight.  Don’t you think I look pretty?”  I responded with “Compared to who?”  She yells “You’re an ass!”  I reply “If I was an ass, I would have said NO!”  And the pouting ensued.

You are a mean man KTR, telling her what she deserves…How could you?                still laughing, thank you.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 13]

XSDBS wrote:

Went out for supper with a group of friends last night. One of the guy’s girlfriend was “fishing” by making the comment “men don’t compliment women enough”. Hoping to mess with her a little, I said “I’ve noticed that too. I wonder why that is?” She immediately says “ hasn’t told me how pretty I look tonight. Don’t you think I look pretty?” I responded with “Compared to who?” She yells “You’re an ass!” I reply “If I was an ass, I would have said NO!” And the pouting ensued.

 

Loved it!!

[RoyDalParticipant]

Honesty is the best policy. But it does p~~~ them off, doesn’t it?

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

Destroy her delusion about her beauty like this..

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=gnTXLUvyToE

[narwhalParticipant]

That is a great response.  Anytime you get a baiting question like that, responding with a question for clarification, is a great response.

Which part of you are we talking about here?  legs, body, face, whole package?  Do you mean right now, or in general?  What do you mean by ‘pretty’?  Why does it matter what I think?  Are you asking me out?

Even a simple “why?”  will do.

Not sure I’d do this, but a slight change of topic would be nice to.

I like your shoes.  You’d look like you’d be good at sports.  You’re fun to be around.  Who does your hair?  Your BF’s very lucky to have you.

 

My ex kinda ruined me when it comes to completes.  Early on, whenever I told her I liked what she was wearing, she’d respond with “you just like the way my boobs look in this”.  True, but so what? I like breasts, I’ve never denied that. That would always be the last time I’d see her in that particular outfit.  So why again should I compliment you on the way you look?

Ok. Then do it.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Excellent. And when women fish for compliments – NEVER give her one.

Or at least…. give her a backhanded compliment.
It SOUNDS like a compliment, but really, it’s a dig.

You want to erode whatever self esteem she has left – not prop the bitch up.

“Do you think I’m pretty?”

“Oh, I REALLY LIKE a girl with extra meat on her bones. Don’t listen to what ANYONE else says, I’m sure you have a good personality”.

“You’re an ass!”

“Thank you for noticing!”

You take her insult and turn it into a compliment for you.
See women actually place value on male compliments and think their insults are supposed to hurt you.

Devalue all of it right to her face.
And never forget: you know how she complains how her own boyfriend doesn’t compliment her enough?

THATS. WHY. SHE. IS. F~~~ING. HIM.

Take a cue from that.

This was a good call. Never be the guy who compliments her unless she’t f~~~ing you.
And if she is f~~~ing you, definitely don’t either.

“You’re an ass!”

“Honey, since you’re looking for compliments on how pretty you are…. why don’t you SWALLOW your makeup next time instead. Then you can be pretty on the INSIDE”.

Other Possible Responses:

“Do you think I’m pretty?”

“Well I’m sure you might even look beautiful!…. with my dick in your mouth”.

— or —

“Do you think I’m pretty?”

“Maybe you could be a 7…. if you really wanted to be”.

— or —

“Do you think I’m pretty?”

“Are you really asking me to treat you according to your looks? The only compliment you will ever get out of me is not for your looks. It’s for what you actually DO.”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[IAmTheVillainParticipant 6]

He didn’t say she’s pretty tonight? Tonight? I wonder how many times she’s told her boyfriend how amazing his dick is. Maybe never. Definitely not so much that it would be out of the ordinary for her to omit it one night. Girls want to her about how pretty they look? Well I want to her about how marvellous my dick is, how she wants to worship it, how she gets upset if I take it away. I want to hear that every day. If you do that, then you will inspire a little recipricocity.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

I personally think we need a dedicated blog under Relations~~~s Forum that deals specifically with women’s “S~~~ Testing”.  They all do it and they all do it automatically; to separate the Alpha and Beta males; and for constant validation.  It only takes just a couple of lessons to immediately identify a S~~~ Test when you hear it, and with a bit of practice learn how to turn them around with a reply question, appearing the dominant Alpha male.

A good example:  “I think you’re just a PU artist trying to score. Howmany women have you slept with?”

Reply:  “Do you mean today?”

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

I got so good at it that I actually kept a bunch of business cards in my pocket with the following written on the back “if you’re interested give me a call (my phone number).”  I’d hand it to the chicks after a simple non-threatening exchange (pub, bar, club).  You can’t believe how much that p~~~ed them off.  They would immediately start with the drama among their girl friends.  “O.M.G.  or wtf?  “Just look at what he handed me.  I can’t believe the nerve blah, blah, blah.  He’s a f~~~ing asshole”  But it always worked.  Every time.   I would be either approached the same night with a pretend angered and phony protest or I’d get a hostile phone call the next day.  I’d just keep on smiling.  But in either case it was always the ice-breaker, and she knew I was no Beta push over who would run around after her all night buying her drinks.

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