Define 'Chad' in Your Mind

[bladeParticipant]

Ancient wisdom ya cool bro . Good thread

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Red KnightParticipant 720]

In my opinion, Chad’s usually a good looking, athletic guy. He is highly self confident, but has no regard for anyone else but himself.

This is the most important part – he shamelessly uses women, takes what he wants from them, with no regard for them, their thoughts, or anyone else’s. Will f~~~ your wife, your girlfriend, your sister, or your daughter with no remorse or second thought.

As far as introversion/extroversion goes, I don’t think it matters too much. Chads are usually physically attractive, so it’s pretty easy for them to grab the attention of women just by being in the same room or near them. All a Chad would have to do is make his presence known and he will have their attention.

As far as resources go, again, I don’t think it matters. But a man who attempts to use his money to attract a woman is NOT a chad. Women are not attracted to a man’s money, they only like to exploit men with money. However, a Chad with money will be even more dangerous than a Chad without money for obvious reasons.

I think not all guys who are attractive to women are Chads. Good looks and self-confidence (both needed, can’t have one or the other) are what attract women. But if he is respectful of others, he certainly can’t be a Chad.

I think the bottom line is that Chad is both attractive to women AND initiates casual sex at any whim regardless of who they are or what damage it might cause to her or others. He’s the guy who tends to ruin relationships.

Formerly MoneyOverBitches

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

blade wrote:

Ancient wisdom ya cool bro . Good thread

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I love reading your posts man – I always do it in the Pikey voice from Snatch =D

Great tune in the vid above.

Resident cynic.

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

Anonymous wrote:

Some one to take your envy out on

This is a good point and if I’m honest with myself, would have to agree.

“Any guy that’s getting laid right now (who isn’t me) is a Chad.”
It does tend to pop up here now and again.

Personally, ‘Chad’ is not an athlete superstar, a pretty boy metrosexual, or bad-ass dude who can hold his own.
No.
Chad is not someone who is (understandably) desired by women I.e Rich, educated, healthy, funny, exciting, dangerous etc. etc.

Chad is the guy generally seen as ‘low quality’ yet girls drop their panties for.
It’s an act of reverse hypergamy – A dichotomy to send their hamster wheel spinning in reverse, which is good maintenance I suppose.

Instead of going after the top 20% of men, it’s reverse hypergamy, into the bottom 20% of men (by societal standards).

This allows the woman to play mommy and be in control.
Her vagina leads his life because Chad can’t walk away, as he has no other skills or lot in life except being a Chad.

Many men here are in disbelief how women can reverse hypergamy, but they do.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[Anonymous 54]

Luckely for me I am a lone wolf by nature.

Hahha.

This s~~~ blows my mind.

You all think any guy thats good looking and in shape is a dumbass low life,thats gonna f~~~ your old lady.

I guess this is a site for insecure beta weiners whot cant get layed.

Mabey I just dont belong.

Mabey I take my turtles and go home.

Hahhaha

[bladeParticipant]

CHADAPHOBIA . Ones fear of chad f~~~ing there wife .

I am monk and happy . I dont even get a hard on when i do bother to have a wank .

F~~~ just be yourselves and look at woman as if they are a dude .

See old blokes do all that image bulls~~~ when woman are around and f~~~ it makes me sick .

Be yourselves and give no f~~~s what people think . Change for n9 one

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 54]

A couple of my Brothers.
Their 1st wives made up some s~~~ that I supposedly did with them.
And the idiots beleived them.
They actually think I f~~~ed their wives.

All my life, the Bosses wife has come on to me.
To make him jealous.
With my f~~~ing job on the line.
Happems with a guy I work with right now.

Then I get on here and read this s~~~ almost every day.

F~~~ all of you.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

blade wrote:

CHADAPHOBIA . Ones fear of chad f~~~ing there wife .

There’s been a couple guys who said negative things about a ‘Chad’ but I don’t think that’s the consensus.

I never said that. I just wanted to know what others thought of/who they were referring to when they use the term.

blade wrote:

F~~~ just be yourselves and look at woman as if they are a dude .

This thread isn’t asking “HOW TO BECOME A CHAD”

No – It IS ASKING –

What is your definition of a Chad.

Big, big difference.

I’m not sure why Old Heyoko can’t see that or why there’s any confusion w/that.

Resident cynic.

[bladeParticipant]

I BLADE AM GUILTY OF BEEN A MOTHERF~~~ER .

I BLADE AM NOT GUILTY NOR RESPONSIBLE FOR ANYONES WIVES BEEN F~~~ED .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Anonymous wrote:

Then I get on here and read this s~~~ almost every day.

F~~~ all of you.

LOL so this is what it boils down to. You’re the one coming to this thread w/preconceived notions and an agenda.

I never bashed a chad or even the image of a chad, only asked what people thought of when they use the term.

But, you don’t even read what I myself wrote. You wasted three pages on this thread w/your own preconceived notions and f~~~ing ramblings.

Other posters wrote negative connotations; if you don’t like that, that’s fine but QUOTE THEM…THEY’RE THE ONE’S WRITING IT, NOT ME.

Resident cynic.

[bladeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

F~~~ all of you.

Bro dont pussy out on me now . There will probably be a few interlects comming our way p~~~ed some arsehole chad banged there wives .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[bladeParticipant]

Red Knight wrote:

This is the most important part – he shamelessly uses women,

Get f~~~ed .

In a school full to the brim of single mothers they wanted dick . Like am i responsible for that . F~~~ed 3 in one day .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Red KnightParticipant 720]

blade wrote:

Red Knight wrote:

This is the most important part – he shamelessly uses women,

Get f~~~ed .

In a school full to the brim of single mothers they wanted dick . Like am i responsible for that . F~~~ed 3 in one day .

I’m confused man. You say you’re monk and you’re proud, yet you brag about this?

What I had originally meant was that he doesn’t give a damn about them. The same way that women don’t give a damn about guys. He will manipulate them or connive them into f~~~ing him without any remorse.

I’m also a bit lazy with my words because I’ve been drinking a bit, so apologies if I am less than articulate.

Formerly MoneyOverBitches

[bladeParticipant]

Red Knight wrote:

blade wrote:

Red Knight wrote:

This is the most important part – he shamelessly uses women,

Get f~~~ed .

In a school full to the brim of single mothers they wanted dick . Like am i responsible for that . F~~~ed 3 in one day .

I’m confused man. You say you’re monk and you’re proud, yet you brag about this?

What I had originally meant was that he doesn’t give a damn about them. The same way that women don’t give a damn about guys. He will manipulate them or connive them into f~~~ing him without any remorse.

I’m also a bit lazy with my words because I’ve been drinking a bit, so apologies if I am less than articulate.

Happy drinking .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Branched offParticipant 10921]

“What I had originally meant was that he doesn’t give a damn about them. The same way that women don’t give a damn about guys. He will manipulate them or connive them into f~~~ing him without any remorse.”

I think this is a good addition to the debate from Red Knight and I think it gets to the heart of why Chads are often hated by lower status men or men less successful with women.

Let me at this stage say that I am not and have never been a chad. I have never lost a woman to one either so I can talk fairly dispassionately on the subject.

I would propose that being successful at getting women is important to guys we would call Chads, more important to them than many other things like a conventional sense of honourable behaviour between men for example.

There are handsome guys who never lack a girl for long and who are often targeted by girls who are far from Chads. There are handsome guys who are Chads. There are also less handsome guys who work out loads, buy the best clothes and practise all the PUAs lines who just make it into the chad category with a lot of work.

I think that the power to get into women’s knickers is very important to a Chad’s self image. I think it is a defining characteristic. This is why I say they are really Blue pill at heart. The power to gain relatively frequent access to new pussy defines their own self respect. For this reason they will seduce their business partner’s wife or brother’s wife if they like -not for a love affair because they fall for her (that might be easier to forgive)- but for a simple thrill, to prove they can. This is my experience talking to Chads I have known. I recall a couple boasting to me that they had seduced friends’ wives just because the friend was foolish enough to say “NAWALT, my wife wouldn’t sleep with you”.

One experience that opened my eyes to this character weakness in Chads was having a love affair with a woman whom I later came to find out was the mistress of a very old Chad. She was 32, he was 70 something but still very handsome and energetic. She was truly beautiful but his powers had waned. He had seduced countesses, and Hollywood film stars’ wives in his youth and been a little notorious in famous circles for it but he had become a beta cuck to this beautiful but low status girl. His ability to have her was what really mattered to him and because of it she played him like a violin. He had high status old women who still spent on him like a gigolo and he had other low status younger women but he spent out on them lavishly. In the end his own step daughter told me he had no money to his name and I don’t think he had really achieved anything in his life except personal satisfaction at the cost of many men’s marriages. I saw that he was in fact the victim of his desire to self affirm due to his ability to access women.

Understandably these guys attract a lot of hate from men who have less options when it comes to accessing women and also from men who see their lives ruined and ask “For what?” So that he could shag my wife a couple of times and they both could feel good about it? It makes no sense to a normal guy but to a chad it does. A woman is a challenge to a chad. Crack the code to her knickers and he has won. This matters more to him than who she is and how she or anyone else around her feels about it.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

This entire thread was absolutely derailed.

The question was simple –

“What is a ‘Chad’ in your mind”.

One member

Geriatric Haiku

Starts hurling strange, demented accusations which have absolutely nothing to do w/the thread itself. As though everyone is JEALOUS of the proverbial ‘chad’ or putting down a ‘chad’.

Insanity.

The reading comprehension is so low it’s impossible to even communicate with; also notwithstanding the ridiculous machismo attitude, again from The Old Rusty Poem:

“I’m a CHAD!

I am!

You’re JEALOUS!

I F~~~ WHO I WANT! GET WHO I WANT!”

Ok, man.

Calm down. Need a pat on the head for recognition?

F~~~ing guy is 60 years old and he’s waltzing into a thread which is simply asking for a basic definition of a term, by bragging that he’s a big swinging dick. To a group of MGTOW men, nonetheless.

That’s seriously pathetic.

Resident cynic.

[Anonymous 11]

Chad’s life is not a bowl of cherries.

Sure he gets fresh t~~~ flinging itself at him everywhere he goes. It’s quite the ego boost whenever women spar with either other to ride his old denim dolphin too. Chad leads a charmed life that the majority of men will never experience. There is another side to this phenomena, a very dark side.

First, unless a Chad goes red pill, he tends to be a complete slave to his urges. As was mentioned prior, Chad wastes extraordinary amounts of time catering to his obsession. Then, there are the problems associated with clouds of women jockeying for his attention. Chad knows a lot about arranging for an auto body shop to repair paint damage. Chad has seen many a window pane in his domicile be busted out upon his arrival. Chad lives in constant fear of having one of his whores going off the deep end. Chad has to weave a web of lies to keep his harem under control and account for every one of them as he spins even more lies. Chad cannot go anywhere without worrying about some spurned hole stalking him. Chad’s neighbors quickly tire of his never ending dramas played out on his doorway for all to see.

Chad is a prisoner of his own device. Chad’s life is one of chaos so endless streams of pussy are his way to cope with it.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

C-Pig,

Interesting analysis. Always love hearing your stories.

Thanks for being able to have direct and transparent communication.

The question is relative and subjective to each individual asking it. Hence – “What is a Chad in Your Mind”.

Simple question should = a simple answer.

Thanks man.

Resident cynic.

[Anonymous 2]

A Chad is basically a blue pill cuck that believes that his manhood is validated female approval. Chads can come in all forms, whether they be the loser “bad boy” Chad that women love, or the regular simp who thinks wining and dining a woman to get into her pants is the way to go, they all have one thing in common: They all believe that their manhood is validated by their ability to get a woman in the sack.

[Anonymous 12]

I think of two types of “Chad”

1/ The good looking meat head, just wants to f~~~. Will do anything to f~~~, and is always happy to leave. A lot of women like that part. It’s an ego f~~~ for them and nice and simple.

2/ The irresponsible type of Chad. I am big on metal and hard rock. I have read a number of autobiographies by these guys and women fall over themselves to f~~~ them. Not just f~~~ them but to help them as well. I think these guys appeal to women because they share the same level of irresponsibility as women do. They provide excitement and are like fixer uppers something else which women love to think they can do – change men for the better.

In either case the Chad uses women and women, I have finally allowed myself to believe – love to be used.

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