Curiosity

[BrokeCollegeStudentParticipant 73]

I’ve found a women who hates feminism and supports MGTOW. Should I be worried to start a relationship or be happy since she supports us? She believes just like me that feminism is basically equal rights + special rights.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

I’d tread carefully.  I admit that I’ve found the same kind of woman, but I’m very, VERY leery about it.  She criticizes women quite frequently, but I do know that critique of other women is what women love to do in general.  We just have to be careful that these women are not “chameleons.”  Some argue that ALL women that appear to hate feminism and who support MGTOW are chameleons, and I’m open to that idea as well.  It’s hard to say if it’s just my emotional side feeling “a breath of fresh air” when I hear a woman attack feminism and support MGTOW in a GirlWritesWhat/Feminism LOL-esque manner, but then I start to question it with my logical side.  Just be VERY careful, and of course, don’t marry ’em if it ever got to that point.  Haha

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

If you ask all of the men here, women are not to be trusted.

You can give a woman a lie detector test now and she just may pass it.

But let her baby rabies kick in………..well, then you just better become a mindless drone.

Are her parents still married?  If so how do they interact?

My ex wife’s parents never divorced.  The former mother in law was a relentless nag.

I remember, many moons ago, my then father-in-law’s, brother-in-law had been arrested for theft.  His sister had contacted him about bail money.  My in laws had built a nice nest egg.  I sat in the living room as I watched my then father in law sit at the dining table and his wife literally stood over him, and then relentlessly went on and on about how they should not loan his sister any money for bail, and put what they had worked for in jeopardy.  I don’t think that he had any intention of loaning her the money at all, but it looked as though his wife wanted to be sure he understood by relentlessly saying the same thing over, and over, and over, and over, and over again.

Women learn how to interact in a marriage by direct lesson and/or through observation of their mothers.

What example has her mother set for your prospective mate?

Does she support MGTOW for real?  Or is she someone looking for a traditional conservative (tradcon) relationship so she can stay home and complain about how hard her day has been.  In turn, you get to become the guy that sacrifices all of his hopes and aspirations to fulfill her social worth of procreation?

I would strongly recommend that you do more studying within the archives.

Start with

Spetsnatz – the disposable male

Barbarossa – flawed male desire leads to traditional parasitism

Then do more research.

In support of what Megachris% has to say, watch this video.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[EekParticipant 1162]

Like the previous responses indicated, but I will again emphasize, don’t trust her. Women learn early how to pick up information, assimilate that information, and then present the face they think you want to see.

She could be the most hardcore militant 3rd wave feminist on the planet, but if she has decided to set her sights on you she will swear all day long on everything she holds dear that she supports MGTOW/MRA/Scientology or whatever it takes to set up her mining operation on your resources.

[BrokeCollegeStudentParticipant 73]

We both have very distinct plans for our lives… I plan to major in Aerospace Engineering while she plans to go to Med school.  I appreciate your advice because I don’t want to start a relationship to fulfill her social worth of procreation..  Her mother seems a very nice lady but I don’t really know her  family on a personal level besides her brother.

[BrokeCollegeStudentParticipant 73]

Thanks guys for the advice since I’m new to MGTOW.

[Anonymous 1]

My advice would be on the same line it was already mentioned: tread carefully.

Not going to say to drop her, I mean, if you enjoy her company I don’t think you should deprive yourself from such pleasures. But keep in mind that in social interactions, you have a disadvantage. Women are very good in manipulating, and don’t fool yourself into thinking you can outsmart them on that regard.

If anything, I would say, enjoy what you have with her while it lasts, and bail at the first sign of trouble. You are responsible for you life as she is for hers.

And watch the video above.

Take care man.

Cheers.

 

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Equal rights is a myth! Even between men there are no real equal rights. I bet you she won’t last 8 weeks with her. She hates feminism? First wave, 2nd wave , 3rd wave or all waves of feminism?
Is she ok that you do not want any children or not wanting to live with her? She is ok paying her own bills when going out. There is a say action speak louder than words my friend. I don’t know her age but her biological clock is ticking and eventually she will want to have children and get married.

I don’t know how old you guys are, who knows if she’ll make it being a doctor. Some women will just quit if it’s a easier life. Have you two started university yet?

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[BrokeCollegeStudentParticipant 73]

I’ll just tread carefully…  We haven’t even been on a date yet so we haven’t even talked about marriage or children. We’re both pretty young and I feel like she’s the only girl I can have a smart conversation with who doesn’t belittle me or straight out refuses my standpoints. She told me that she thinks it’s unfair that if you earn a lot of your wealth before marriage that you have to give it up or pay alimony, and she also said it’s sad that women always get the child over the men even though they’re incompetent/

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

I don’t know what I could add to this conversation, besides what’s already been stated. Just tread lightly, and read up on here for some signs that she may be showing her true colors. If I would have had this site earlier in my relationship, I’d probably be setting on my boat on the lake in KY sipping on some cold beer, and not here in NYC. I had a great job, and family and friends that loved me there. She played up the whole NAWALT and I believed her. So my advice is to keep your distance, there’s nothing wrong with having fun with a girl, but don’t fall for her. Because once you do, “checkmate” she wins and she want put you out of your misery until she’s good and ready.

[Math RoninParticipant 86]

Get to know her if you’re that compatible, but (like many have already suggested to you) just don’t have any expectations that she is “the one”.

Honestly, I don’t think women even know what they want. I think the can say something and truly believe it and then at some point in the future do a complete 360. I’ve seen this happen over and over again (why do you think they say “it’s a women’s prerogative to change her mind?” It’s like it is almost expected that they will do so). You have to remember, women are not as focused, disciplined, or goal oriented as men are, so they don’t have the resolve or foresight we have. I know that’s not logical, but we’re talking women here, not rocket science…LOL.

Good luck 🙂

[Cap285Participant 6007]

NAWALT does not exist.

Women are chameleons.

Fuck this planet.

[BrokeCollegeStudentParticipant 73]

I appreciate all your advice.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Anonymous wrote:

My advice would be on the same line it was already mentioned: tread carefully. Not going to say to drop her, I mean, if you enjoy her company I don’t think you should deprive yourself from such pleasures. But keep in mind that in social interactions, you have a disadvantage. Women are very good in manipulating, and don’t fool yourself into thinking you can outsmart them on that regard. If anything, I would say, enjoy what you have with her while it lasts, and bail at the first sign of trouble. You are responsible for you life as she is for hers.

This is very true as well.  In my case, she agrees that men are screwed over in every aspect.  It’s even funny, because she talks about how “if we got married she would never expect anything from me if we ended up splitting.”  1) Part of me doesn’t believe that for a second and 2) it’s not like I’d have a choice either way.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

like a russian saying says – everything is doable if you do it very carefully.

She might be a real deal or a masterful chameleon.
Any most masterful chameleon shows true colors – give it time, stay alert, keep testing her. Don’t do anything hasty or stupid. DON’T IGNORE THE RED FLAGS like I did. Just don’t!

true nature always shines through. but you must know a lot about what red flags to look for. Because if you don’t – you’ll figure it out later what they were after the fact, and will have to learn from your own mistakes.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[BrokeCollegeStudentParticipant 73]

I’m looking for the red flags before we even start something

[Math RoninParticipant 86]

What’s the old French saying?

“To be forewarned is to be forearmed”

🙂

[Anonymous 42]

BrokeCollegeStudent wrote:

feminism is basically equal rights + special rights.

You forgot “special privileges” and “unaccountable” for “ALL” her actions!

Women that accept MGTOW philosophy are full of s~~~! A womb-TOW is looking for you to place “trust” in her corner (it starts with a morsel or smidgen of trust).

The gynocentric laws of female advantage make all women chameleons awaiting another background color change, their experts at the art of deception and subterfuge.

If I lived in the desert I’d practice shooting lizards and snakes…

[BrokeCollegeStudentParticipant 73]

That’s kinda true..

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Math Ronin wrote:

What’s the old French saying? “To be forewarned is to be forearmed”

…Or is it “four-armed?”

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