Crazy ex returns!

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

Silence has a dignity all of its own.

[Anonymous 18]

Sparticus66 wrote:

Silence has a dignity all of its own.

Wise words brother.

OP do not reply.

Whatever she is looking for (and who knows what crazy wants or thinks) she won’t get it if you never reply.

Block another email.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

She doesn’t exist anymore…her name was…what? Can’t even remember

Bingo. Ghost that s~~~.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hawke wrote:

What do you gentleman think? What would you do?

ENJOY it. As a silent & distant spectator only.
It’s fun to be a man who’s pursued.

Hawke wrote:

I always just laughed it off and clicked the erase button….. but seriously I´m starting to get a tired of this s~~~.

OK, so it’s not fun or funny anymore. You could tease her and “accidentally” respond by calling her by another girl’s name.

Or “Hey Rachel my/your place 11PM?”.

…. or dont’ mention a name, and when she replies “sorry wrong number”.

Then nothing ever again. No matter what.

Hawke wrote:

unload all the ordnance I have so she leaves me alone?

You didn’t indicate if she ever cheated on you(?), so that would factor into my decision – but if you’re not sure, always err on the side of radio silence. It’s all an attempt to get to dance around in your head.

If you weren’t her priority (then), then you’re only an option (now).

There’s one thing that drives every woman crazy, even the most cold-hearted whore, and that’s the thought that her target is having a dalliance with another woman. At the most, let her think you’re with someone else.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Hawke—love your avatar but which version of the p-38 is it?

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

IRuleMe wrote:

File a restraining order. Keep every e-mail, phone contact, every record you can, and submit it when you file. Keep copies for yourself, and give another set to your lawyers.

^this.

You don’t know where her crazy is going to lead her next. Establish a legal precedence before it does.

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

As almost everyone here has already said, the best and safest response is no response at all. Ignore. Another point to ponder is whether she is communicating with your sister or just FB stalking you through her FB posts.

[HawkeParticipant 197]

Keymaster wrote:

You didn’t indicate if she ever cheated on you(?),

I don´t think she did but I´m pretty sure she would soon if I haven´t dumped her.

bstoff wrote:

Another point to ponder is whether she is communicating with your sister or just FB stalking you through her FB posts.

Luckily my sister never friended her on FB so I bet she just tries to stalk some information about me from the profile pictures or public posts. Won´t work though because there is no such information.

Qui audet adipiscitur - Who dares, wins

[HawkeParticipant 197]

PistolPete wrote:

Hawke—love your avatar but which version of the p-38 is it?

I believe it´s P-38J version. The painting is from France 1944 when the late models were used.

Qui audet adipiscitur - Who dares, wins

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

There is nothing and I mean nothing you can say that will trump the wall of silence. She wants you to engage, even if it is with a verbal email yelling or screaming a woman can careless. What she is looking for is your participation and your attention. The wall of silence effectively takes that away and the more you do not pay attention to her the more it’s going to drive her insane.

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

Maintain radio silence. Block.

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

Hawke wrote:

What do you gentleman think? What would you do?

I will tell you what I did…

I blocked her, along with an auto-reply, for whenever she tries to call/txt…

‘Your message did not reach it’s intended recipient. You have been blocked. Kindly f*ck off, and have a lovely day now.’

Btw your story has a couple similar things to mine. My brother is about to have a kid, and I was getting similar texts before I blocked.

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