Being stood up

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

I saw someone mention flying to see a woman before and it made me think of times that I took hour long drives to meet a girl in person who I met online and being stood up. Sometimes I knew multiple women in that area so it worked out, but damn that s~~~ p~~~ed me off. Usually younger stupid girls who liked to play games. I should have known better. Has this ever happened to any of you? What are you some of your experiences? I’m sure it has happened to me more than once, but there is one in particular I remember. She told me when I got there that she had changed plans basically. At that point it is done of course.

Don't care

[Anonymous 42]

Led Zeppelin put it best in fool in the rain.

It’s 2017, rain doesn’t fall on a MGHOW!

[narwhalParticipant]

Yes, it has. In one case, I got some weird excuse about an emergency and not having my number…probably all a lie. Another told me she just forgot. What’s funny is they think they can just apologize and the slight just disappears. No, honey, you’d have to bend over backwards to convince me to see you again.

The solution is rather easy. Always, call or text an hour or so in advance. If there is no reply, you don’t go. Alternatively, don’t date at all.

Women are much less likely to do this if you have common acquaintances. They do know this poor behavior, and won’t do it if it’s going to give them a bad rep.

Ok. Then do it.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

Has this ever happened to any of you?

When I was dating I met a girl at a restaurant. This girl showed up to dinner with me and looked terrified. She refused to order anything to eat and finally after some light conversation I suggested she just leave if she was so uncomfortable. She bolted quickly and I left too. In hindsight I did the right thing. Then I thought she was just nervous. Now with the knowledge of this forum I realize it could have been many other things. She may have been cheating and then got cold feet. She may have been BSC and I avoided a false rape, stalking or abuse claim. Who knows. Listen to those vibes and follow your intuition. If you feel something is a red-flag, get out. Better to error on the side of your own safety.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[bagsofsandParticipant 1391]

They don’t get a chance to flake on me anymore.

If were to meet a NAWALT, I’ll still remember this sentence I read here:

One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. No exceptions.

Easy as that. If she wants you, she won’t flake on you.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Meh
I could never understand the ‘big deal” about being stood up or having plans cancelled by a woman.
All it has ever done is open up different choices for me. The last time a woman flaked on me, I just hopped on my motorcycle and rode 300+ KM for an ice cream in Calgary.
When I got there I had several texts from her suggesting “other” activities, and a myriad of emotional bulls~~~.
I texted back. I’m fine thanks, enjoyed my time, and haven’t talked to her since.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Anonymous 42]

On the other side of the coin I’ve had women cum out of nowhere without any plans at all!

What’s that called? It’s like, Oh, where did you cum from?

Chicks that lure and bate I always got the f~~~ away from, it’s not supposed to work, it’s supposed to be fun!

[StealthParticipant 5390]

Flaking out was my pet peeve when dating. I took it, and my time, very seriously. Once a girl did this, she was out. I got very annoyed at it but came to see it is commonplace. This realization was a factor in why I stopped dating.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Anonymous 2]

Yes I’ve had it happen to me. Bitches are arrogant enough to flake while they are there with you! One word answers, lack of interest, etc! I’ve ditched 2 hoes from this. One texted all through the dinner. Nice steak place, I ignored it due to maybe banging later. I got tired of it when the food arrived and she was rude to the waiter. I went to the john and gave the waiter the money for my food and tip, he just laughed and I went back behind our both and stood there. She was so absorbed by texting her other man that she didn’t notice I was there. I could read that she would bring him the leftovers. I left and got a text. “Did you fall in lol”? I said nope I’m at the light on my way home enjoy your night with your buddy! LOL! Man was she p~~~ed called me yelling that I had to pay she didn’t have any money in her purse. I said what about the 40 bucks in your purse I noticed when I stood by our both for about 2 min and you never noticed. More screaming and bitching and me laughing.

I went back in a few weeks later and the waiter spotted me and he said she did all that yelling and screaming in the restaurant. What a nutcase. The beauty of it is they did make her pay.

I don’t miss dating at all f~~~ that, women call those free dinner dates.

[Anonymous 11]

I had a five year run from my late teens to early twenties of being stood up repeatedly by different women. I had about 50% flake rate on dates during this period.

The worst excuse: “I’m coloring my hair and will call you back in 30 minutes.” I still waiting 30 years later, not.

It ended up being a hypergamy thing. A wealthier guy(All monies from his personal Daddy Warbucks)came along that fine Saturday evening back in the 1980s.

Anonymous wrote:

she was rude to the waiter

This is the equivalent of using a smartphone in your presence. Walk the f~~~ away.

[Anonymous 2]

I did C-pig, I wanted to bang but the phone and on top of that rude to another I ejected. That was years ago. I haven’t dated in over 2 yrs I’m not missing a thing. Peace, freedom and relaxation, mixed with some hard work. And most important uninterrupted time with my kid. I’ll gladly take that instead.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

Anonymous wrote:

Yes I’ve had it happen to me. Bitches are arrogant enough to flake while they are there with you! One word answers, lack of interest, etc! I’ve ditched 2 hoes from this. One texted all through the dinner. Nice steak place, I ignored it due to maybe banging later. I got tired of it when the food arrived and she was rude to the waiter. I went to the john and gave the waiter the money for my food and tip, he just laughed and I went back behind our both and stood there. She was so absorbed by texting her other man that she didn’t notice I was there. I could read that she would bring him the leftovers. I left and got a text. “Did you fall in lol”? I said nope I’m at the light on my way home enjoy your night with your buddy! LOL! Man was she p~~~ed called me yelling that I had to pay she didn’t have any money in her purse. I said what about the 40 bucks in your purse I noticed when I stood by our both for about 2 min and you never noticed. More screaming and bitching and me laughing.

I went back in a few weeks later and the waiter spotted me and he said she did all that yelling and screaming in the restaurant. What a nutcase. The beauty of it is they did make her pay.

I don’t miss dating at all f~~~ that, women call those free dinner dates.

That makes the topic worth it. Epic!

Don't care

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

A wealthier guy(All monies from his personal Daddy Warbucks)came along that fine Saturday evening back in the 1980s.

Bridges cafe, I-190 Connecticut, dress code, 1980’s, HYPERGAMY HEAVEN! Hotties looking to leap and jump on anyone with a sports car, a suite, and bulls~~~ a mile long! It’s where I got my first taste of hypergamy, they were called gold diggers and they followed the most $$$$, didn’t matter how a dude looked as long as he was loaded he would leave with one. I got sick of that place real fast and went to Shaker Park in Hazardville Connecticut and saw allot of New England bands before they became famous, I was never good at picking up women in bars, only sluts!

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

They flake and yet their the ones who want a serious relationship. Yeah right.

Women worried about their reputation, so i would spread the word about them. Because then they have hard time selling the victim or im innocent card.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Not to completely change the subject, but for me just as bad is being late. Not 5 minutes late, but like 30 minutes late. It’s pretty easy to send a text or something once you realize you aren’t going to be somewhere on time. If you are 30 minutes late and weren’t in an accident or something, then you knew about an hour or two earlier that you weren’t going to be able to pull it off.

So then what you are telling me is that my time doesn’t mean jack s~~~. I actually don’t have a problem with rescheduling a couple hours ahead of time when she realizes that she’s running behind. But to just let someone sit and wait……… If that happened to me today and it was more than about 15 minutes and I hadn’t heard from the person, I’d just leave and ghost. My tolerance for that was pretty low before, but it’s zero now.

Order the good wine

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

I went back behind our both and stood there. She was so absorbed by texting her other man that she didn’t notice I was there.

I could read stories like this all day. Anyone else got a good one?

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

She could have seen the other dude she was f~~~ing in the restaurant. Maybe he worked there.

All kinds of things she could have been doing. By thinking she was nervous I didn’t realize then I was giving her my bluepill pussy pass. By not thinking ‘what was she up to’ I was making her excuses for her in my head.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Do not tolerate flakes. Give them no quarter.

As Keymaster said: One chance. Per woman. Per lifetime.

Fuck this planet.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Nope never happens to me because I don’t waste my time with women at all.

[Anonymous 42]

Cap285 wrote:

As Keymaster said: One chance. Per woman. Per lifetime.

Hey Cap., I once heard MG-Tower say; ZERO TOLERANCE!

Roll once and they’ll play walk-the-dog like you’re a Yo-Yo!

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