Back here after a mistake and feeling stupid

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

DarkFiction wrote:

Here I am again. Feeling rather foolish for not listening to you all the first time around.

Dude, don’t worry!! We’re in same boat. I am back here too for second time. I didn’t take these guys advice and I paid price too, but important thing is we’re here NOW. You’re making the right call. Stay away from her!!!

[AutoliteParticipant]

Back here after a mistake and feeling stupid

I think you guys are going way too easy on DarkFiction!

This is a MGTOW forum. DarkFiction, you must open an MSWord document and type out “ALL Women Are Like That” two thousand times!

And be prepared to show it to us! Don’t come back here until it’s done… 😡

[DarkFictionParticipant 71]

Autolite wrote:

This is a MGTOW forum. DarkFiction, you must open an MSWord document and type out “ALL Women Are Like That” two thousand times!

And be prepared to show it to us! Don’t come back here until it’s done…

I can write a Visual Basic for Applications script that will write whatever sentence you wish as many times as you wish. If you feel that I should add in stylish flourishes then I can do that too. For example adding a new paragraph every 100 times the script runs the write command to make it easy to count.

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

joetech wrote:

Never develop feelings for a woman. AWALT. They’re not worth the trouble.

Quoted for truth. Not worth the trouble. Not worth the pain. Because feelings for a woman lead to pain, and not much else.

[Anonymous 6]

Hey man you’ve got to lean the truth. It hurts sometimes. But that’s were we come in here at the MGTOW forum.

[WanderingMGTOWParticipant 288]

Darkfiction,

Just wanted to voice some support. There are a lot of similarities between what you describe and my last relationship.

Don’t feel stupid. Just learn from it and move on.

[DarkFictionParticipant 71]

WanderingMGTOW wrote:

Just wanted to voice some support. There are a lot of similarities between what you describe and my last relationship.

Don’t feel stupid. Just learn from it and move on.

I’m all about the learning. No pain, no gain – that’s pretty much how life seems to go. This time around I got blind-sided by a bunch of things that I did not expect. Next time I’ll know better, because I won’t even start playing the game.

As uncomfortable as this experience was it thought me a valuable lesson. There is no reason to expect anything from women, because I am never going to be accepted or appreciated for who I am. I feel angry and frustrated that I experience the same kind of rejection time after time. First I am bombarded with attention and affection, but soon enough that stops and the demands start. This time around I was quite honestly shocked at how quickly the tables turned. It was literally a 180° switch overnight. On Sunday evening everything was fine and then on Monday morning I get a long message explaining what a monster I am and how she wants nothing to do with me.

All day yesterday I was thinking two things. 1) Am I going crazy? 2) What the hell just happened?

I am not one of those people who believes something just because you say it. I’m pigheaded like that. I have to learn some things by making the mistakes. Not everything, but enough that I drive some people to frustration over it. I’m starting to get the message. Playing around with women requires that I either abandon my core beliefs or else I am punished for being who I am – most often through passive-aggressive attacks on my character.

I am sick and tired of being attacked simply because I refuse to submit and conform. I refuse to become anyone’s slave just because they don’t like me the way I am. What angers me to no end is that once again I was lead to believe that it’s okay to be masculine. That was a lie. She just wanted an obedient dog that would bark on command. When, how and at who? Those were the things that she wanted to decide. She wanted to train me into a happy little pooch that she could neuter and train to do anything and everything she wanted.

And that makes me mad as hell.

The logical conclusion is MGTOW.

[WanderingMGTOWParticipant 288]

It was literally a 180° switch overnight. On Sunday evening everything was fine and then on Monday morning I get a long message …

That is EXACTLY what happened to me. https://goo.gl/l535LV

Did she tell you she wants to be more vulnerable too? Some great watching on that one here: https://goo.gl/vv9cKj

Its amazing how fast they can turn on you. It IS ok to be masculine. Don’t give up on that, ever. The alternative is worse.

The logical conclusion is MGTOW.

Totally agree. I can’t say I won’t ever chase women (I will) but I’m done with changing anything about myself to please them.

[Anonymous 14]

DarkFiction wrote:

What I ended up with was accusations and false assumptions thrown in my face. Followed up by passive-aggressive demands that I change, because I am not what she wants me to be. The whole thing blew up with a long message where she explained how I am masculine, egoistic, controlling and aggressive.

It seems obvious now. I am supposedly to be cuddly, soft and safe, except when I am not supposed to be. Then I’m supposed to be “bad”, but only when she wants me to be. Hey, this is starting to sound familiar. As I recall this is called reflecting feelings. It almost sounds like she wants to control me. She wants me to be something that I am not.

I am not an order-following, self-loathing, willing slave. I don’t believe in blind belief.

Ha, no worries, Snake used to say that he thought we were all just a blowjob away from getting back on the reservation. And then he disappeared and I think it may have been because he himself had met a woman! KEK!

Also, take note how they want you to be a slave and behave like a robot under their control and yet these very same women for the most part oppose Sex Robots for men… Wait a second…?

Another thing to note in regards to erratic female behavior is that if she is even remotely attractive or better she literally has dick and money in her face offered to her at all times in this modern internet age. It is no wonder they bounce often leaving men to wonder wtf just happened.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

DarkFiction wrote:

Yeah, I did those things. She also said that she wants nothing to do with me, which helped a lot.

Just you wait. She’ll try to get back in touch with you in a few years, once she’s gone head first into The Wall. Remember her words now when she does.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Welcome back, brother. I hope you’ll stay away from (relations~~~s with) women from now on!

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Great post! No one here should be ashamed to admit their f~~~-ups. In fact, this is the best place to do it, because the men here will support you, while I guarantee the rest of the world won’t give a f~~~.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

All Women Are Bat S~~~ Crazy
Some can HIDE it Better for longer then Others, But ALL Eventually Show THEIR Insanity Eventually !!

Very true and family members are not excluded. I had the sweetest Christian sister any brother could have for 50 years. Now, she’s so bats~~~ crazy that she draws a government check for it. I have plenty of bumps and bruises myself but I kept my sanity and work for a living. I am still an FNG as I joined in early February but I feel at home with MGTOW and not going anywhere. The forums and video’s remind that I respect myself too much to get caught up in another relationship.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

Joe Bauers “Also, take note how they want you to be a slave and behave like a robot under their control and yet these very same women for the most part oppose Sex Robots for men… Wait a second…?”

Pardon the pun but “BINGO!” But women don’t want the competition and it makes feminists lose their s~~~ when they realize their gravy train is jumping the tracks. I have mentioned Sex Dolls on this forum three times and I bought one (I couldn’t afford a mechanical bitch and not sure I would want a woman that talked even if I were a billionaire). When one thinks of the costs of getting back into the game, I think I actually saved a bundle in the long run. She was cheap and needs some work but at least she can be fixed, try fixing a REAL bitch! Anyone that can needs could sell the instructions to men and become a billionaire himself.

[OldBillParticipant]

DarkFiction wrote:

Here I am again. Feeling rather foolish for not listening to you all the first time around.

Mistakes are how we learn. Embrace them, own them, learn from them. They’ll make you a better man.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Great stuff thanks for posting this more men need to read this and learn from the mistakes you made.

I am not one of those people who believes something just because you say it. I’m pigheaded like that. I have to learn some things by making the mistakes. Not everything, but enough that I drive some people to frustration over it. I’m starting to get the message. Playing around with women requires that I either abandon my core beliefs or else I am punished for being who I am – most often through passive-aggressive attacks on my character.

I like that you wrote that part and it is so true for most men as well. The good thing is you are able to see this and acknowledge it. Most blue pill men will never be able to understand that they had to voluntarily abandon their core beliefs to become slaves for their female partner. Deep down they know something is wrong and it shouldn’t be that way but will refuse to admit to their mistakes and instead keep digging a deeper hole for themselves until it is too late to get out without having to spend years to dig themselves out of the hole in child support or alimony.

The great thing is you are not in the most blue pill men category and you finally saw the light before the hole got to deep for. Keep taking those red pills you will do fine brother.

[DarkFictionParticipant 71]

Astro wrote:

I have mentioned Sex Dolls on this forum three times and I bought one (I couldn’t afford a mechanical bitch and not sure I would want a woman that talked even if I were a billionaire). When one thinks of the costs of getting back into the game, I think I actually saved a bundle in the long run. She was cheap and needs some work but at least she can be fixed, try fixing a REAL bitch! Anyone that can needs could sell the instructions to men and become a billionaire himself.

At the moment I’m not particularly interested in this option, but I have thought about paying for sex. Straight up transaction with clear rules and no attachments. From where I’m sitting Amsterdam is only a short flight away. From there it’s an easy trip to the world famous red light district where prostitution is not only legal, but also a lot safer than any other alternative I can think of. You make a deal with the prostitutes themselves and you don’t have to deal with any slimy pimps in-between. I looked at the prices and they were very reasonable. Not to mention that there’s plenty more to see in the city, so I’m seriously thinking about giving that a try.

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