Are You Happy?

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8288]

Are you happy with the life you have?

Or do you want more out of life? (material wealth, great experiences, etc.)

Personally, I envy those who are retired and living off a pension. They get up every day and decide where they want to go and what they want to do…and the bills get paid! Since I live far from my family and friends, I would like to spend more time with them.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

No. But it is not because of females.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 42]

YES! Mostly when I torture feminists with truth and logic! I love the smell of burnt clams in the morning!

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Yes, I’m happy. But of course, I’m working towards more.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Anonymous 3]

I think part of being an adult, and this is a major indicator women never mature past the mind of a child, is understanding the fact that life isn’t a non-stop happy party. You are responsible for yourself, there are going to be ups, downs, hard times and easy times, and everything will just flow onwards.

I accept my life and am mostly content. Sometimes I’m happier than other times, sometimes I work towards things, other times I feel restless, or take things easy, etc. The key is I answer to no one, and am responsible for myself. I don’t demand someone else entertain me or expect them to make me happy. I understand that’s not even really possible.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5130]

Happy is relative. I am happy now. Been out of the house 3 weeks, and I am more at peace than I would have ever thought. And I swear that enrages the ex. A little while ago she was getting frustrated with my Mr Spock attitude, and said “well soon you’ll be able to live the life you imagined”. F~~~, she threw me out!!! All I am trying to do is survive.

So yes, at the moment, I am very happy to be free of her f~~~ed up logic. Don’t get me wrong, I miss my kids but they are all teenagers and are preoccupied half the time anyhow. And I can take them out any time I want, the MA court says at their age they can see parents as they please – the hole can’t even try to hold them from me. But yes, as I sit here in my tiny rented room, with a broken collarbone, no ISP or WiFi, just using my phone for everything, living off less than $800 of my $5k monthly salary, I am at peace more than I have been…since I can remember.

Sovereignty above all else.

[HitmanParticipant]

Most of the time.
Sometimes when you have to deal with the legal system, it’s a little more difficult to be happy. .

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Jackinov wrote:

Yes, I’m happy. But of course, I’m working towards more.

That is how I feel as well. I’m smart enough to look around and realize how good I have it. Some of it is just dumb luck…having made it 32 years so far with no serious health issues, being born in an affluent part of the world, and having parents that actually gave a s~~~ is like winning the lottery three times in a row. Some of it is due to hard work and good decision making throughout life…worked my way through college debt free and got a good job afterwards, worked a union labor job most of my friends wouldn’t even consider working during my college years so now I have a partial pension waiting for me when I’m older(if the fund doesn’t go belly up lol), bought a condo young so I have a cheap place to live with equity in it now, and most importantly haven’t set myself up to get f~~~ed by child support or divorce.

However I also have long term plans…I’d love to retire early, hopefully before 40. It kind of sucks now working all kinds of overtime just to throw it into my 401k and brokerage account when I think of how much fun I could be having with that money right now…but I want to be like…

FunInTheSun wrote:

get up every day and decide where they want to go and what they want to do…and the bills get paid!

I’m much happier and in a much better place today than I was 10 years ago, and I’m hoping if I continue working hard and saving hard that trend will continue on. I think one of the things that has definitely gave that trend some momentum is when your sacrifices early on pay dividends down the road…like when I was in college I hated working my s~~~ job all the time while all my friends lived on campus, went to all kinds of crazy parties, got all kinds of pussy, and had the “college experience.”

Fast forward a few years after graduation and quite a few of them are hating themselves for it now because they have a mountain of student debt hanging over there head, a lot of them added a car loan and some credit card debt to the mix, they’re stuck renting s~~~ty apartments and can’t save for a down payment to buy anything or probably even get a mortgage if they had down payment money because their credit and debt to income ratio are s~~~, and most limit their retirement savings to what their employer will match if they even bother setting that much aside. It definitely adds to your happiness when you hit that point where you get to see first hand how some of the fun stuff you passed up on ends up f~~~ing people over while your sacrifices are beginning to pay dividends.

[Anonymous 54]

Yes im pretty happy by nature. Im lucky that way.

[Anonymous 54]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

Happy is relative. I am happy now. Been out of the house 3 weeks, and I am more at peace than I would have ever thought. And I swear that enrages the ex. A little while ago she was getting frustrated with my Mr Spock attitude, and said “well soon you’ll be able to live the life you imagined”. F~~~, she threw me out!!! All I am trying to do is survive.

So yes, at the moment, I am very happy to be free of her f~~~ed up logic. Don’t get me wrong, I miss my kids but they are all teenagers and are preoccupied half the time anyhow. And I can take them out any time I want, the MA court says at their age they can see parents as they please – the hole can’t even try to hold them from me. But yes, as I sit here in my tiny rented room, with a broken collarbone, no ISP or WiFi, just using my phone for everything, living off less than $800 of my $5k monthly salary, I am at peace more than I have been…since I can remember.

A classic exzample of a divorced guy who knows that freedom is worth the price paid,who finds happiness inspite of the hardship.(my boat also.)

[Anonymous 54]

When I have projects I am happy.

But I have noticed since doing the testosterone diet I am in constant rage mode. Take no bulls~~~ and have to watch my mouth.

Time to taper off it a bit. Pouring a spiced rum tonight and might to play cards with my pal. Or more work on my book. Need a title. Far to go.

Waiting on a bus. deal for months, feels like life is stalled.

On the testosterone diet makes me feel like fighting in a war. Warrior mode.
Tearing into walls the other day was glorious, such destruction, carnage. Love that.

Powerful stuff we make when we live right. Testosterone.

I was at lunch and the gal at the counter language corrected me with the …could be a she. And I said..

“Yes, it could be a she with NICE BIG T~~~.”

I yelled it and made the boob jesture.

A table of bros laughed.

Made me think, what if men got in their faces…

But that is not me or the society I want to live in. So tapering off the diet a bit.

I am a big guy, I think I scared her. Made me feel bad after that as I am really a big gentle teddybear.

But strange, after that she starts hitting on me and wanted my number.

So then my alter ego kicks in and I f~~~ed with her…

I tell her I have herpes.

I know she is just wallet hunting.

Ha

She runs.

Too bad…she did have a nice rack.

Note, the corp ID badge is a hypergamy magnet for waitresses. They know you have a job.

Happy?

I would rather be busy, then no time to evaluate that s~~~.

I need to run full throttle then pass out.

Too much T has me wanting to f~~~. Where’s my fleshlight.

The T diet was just more eggs and ghee butter. My Indian bros told me of it.

Still slaying Disney c~~~ debt. Makes me mad. If she books another trip I walk out.

Mgtow has me disarming feminists left and right of their gynocentric bs.

I see my life as more of a schedule I keep.

Been thinking about waking out lately.

I think I have anger about the bait and switch that went down. TV is warmer than the stove. I do all the cooking.

I have noticed I get angry when women hit on me. My pal said it is…”wallet realization.” Hypergamy.

Scrape them off and expect gay shaming.

Bedtime.

Need to get back to zen.

Stealthy! I told you ,you got plenty of T already! hahah Dont get in any bar room brawls Man!

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

No, because I’m sitting at home all the time due to a chronic disease.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[TuneoutParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

YES! Mostly when I torture feminists with truth and logic! I love the smell of burnt clams in the morning!

One of my fav movies,no women allowed!

To answer the question,yes but it doesn’t take much
esp since I’m getting older.
My quiet place in the country,watching the sun rise,
working out or going fishing with friends,working
because I like to keep busy and not because I need
the money.
Life is good who needs a full time woman to be happy?

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3325]

When I was in my early 20s and single I didn’t appreciate at the time how little responsibility I had and how happy I actually was. Even though I had no desire to get married or have children I just assumed this is what you did as everybody else did it.

So eventually I met a girl, we moved in together, got married and had two children. I did not question any of this, I just went along with it as I just thought this is life and it is what you did.

Anyway, we separated 3 years ago and I now realise how truly unhappy I was being married and how freedom is the most important thing in life. Yes I ended up at the age of 40 effectively starting from scratch, but 3 years on I realise that the financial cost I had to pay (and continue to pay) was easily worth it.

Even though going through a divorce was the hardest thing I have ever had to endure, I would not want to go back to being married again. I would say I am the happiest I have been in the last 20 years or so.

I walked away from the marital home with two bin bags full of clothes and a laptop computer. I have to say, loosing all of my possessions was actually liberating and showed to me what was important in life and made me happy and it is certainly not owning a bunch of stuff.

The other eye opener for me was banging a whole bunch of women after my separation and discovering the red pill. The realisation that all women are the same and not worth the hassle or money was liberating and massively helped my self esteem and confidence.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Anonymous 54]

Nerevar wrote:

No, because I’m sitting at home all the time due to a chronic disease.

I’m sorry to hear this,Brother.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5130]

As WontGetFooled said, going minimalist after a divorce is actually a good excercise. Living like a pauper will make me appreciate the good things more, when the house evetually gets sold…and my half of the equity should make a nice fat downpayment on a small fixer upper house. I have already begun moving some stuff to other places, my buddy had a new nice plot of land so I put all my Archery targets in his yard…then I can go shoot there!

Sovereignty above all else.

[joetechParticipant]

I walked away from the marriage game after wife #1…over 40 years ago. We were only married three years. I have the best life possible. I’m happy at times and frustrated by my living arrangement with my current GF. The daughter moved in three years ago and had a baby two years ago. GF is as frustrated as I am, but we manage. It isn’t GF’s fault the daughter decided to become one of those unhappy exes. She’s been conditioned like the rest of them. She also isn’t raking anyone over the coals. According to her…she got f~~~ed(he had the better lawyer, and she’s an idiot). So, I satisfy myself with this little boy in this house(GF’s house, by the way) with these two women. He LOVES ‘Papa” and papa loves him. Daughter can’t do a thing about it, and GF and I think it’s funny as hell. So I have a good time. Life is either a challenging adventure, or it’s nothing at all. I giggle a lot.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3325]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

As WontGetFooled said, going minimalist after a divorce is actually a good excercise. Living like a pauper will make me appreciate the good things more, when the house evetually gets sold…and my half of the equity should make a nice fat downpayment on a small fixer upper house. I have already begun moving some stuff to other places, my buddy had a new nice plot of land so I put all my Archery targets in his yard…then I can go shoot there!

Absolutely, I live like a pauper now and I absolutely love it. When I was married my wife came up with more and more useless s~~~ to waste my money on month after month so I was effectively living paycheck to paycheck. Now I don’t have to spend all my money trying (and failing) to keep her happy it is amazing how little money you need each month to live, and how satisfying it is watching that bank balance grow month after month.

Now that I am free of her my next goal is to get financial freedom. I no longer see money as the ability to buy things but as security and the freedom to do whatever you want whenever you want.

My ex wife has a new wallet now and she was telling me the other day how her car is coming up to 3 years old now so she thinks she will just buy a new one. What she actually ment was, that her new wallet would buy her one in return for access to the meat hole once a month. that is what marriage is, handing over all your money to an unhappy bitch in return for boring reward sex once a month.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

So eventually I met a girl, we moved in together, got married and had two children. I did not question any of this, I just went along with it as I just thought this is life and it is what you did.

Anyway, we separated 3 years ago and I now realise how truly unhappy I was being married and how freedom is the most important thing in life.

i repeat
freedom is the most important thing in life.

marriage and kids is overrated
the marriage contract is a terrible deal
kids grow up to be teenagers

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

I am very very happy. I have kids who I raised and are there for me. I cycle between a few female f~~~ buddies who have no interest in owning me. My home is mine and I don’t share it. I sleep alone. It’s all good if I stay the course.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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