Another bittersweet milestone

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Wow, haven’t posted in so long. Russky, yes indeed. You can tell who cares about you when you are going through these circumstances.

Cheers

J

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Russky wrote:

JeffersonianLiberal wrote:

And one thing is for sure… those who turned their back on you without asking for your side of the story don’t even deserve your friendship.

That is very true. This is the great way to weed out your circle of friends.
Infact, a lot of negative events in our lives – are actually blessings in disguise. Things like bankruptcy, divorce…
This realization helped me to deal with anger and sorrow, and raised my awareness to the next level.

If this makes you both feel any better in terms of getting answers, this is how I see it when they don’t even care about hearing your side of the story. They probably do not want to be with you in their life anyways since it is not convenient for them to have you in their life anymore for some selfish reason, so they try to have it where they would force you to think that it is YOUR fault that they left you. There could be many reasons why they do this also. Maybe, it is because they would not look as bad for cutting you off their life if they give a good excuse for it, even though it is not true. I even had a few experiences with this sort of stuff also when I looked really bad when I was in a downward spiral in life also. Just don’t take it personally, a lot of people just go into relationships out of convenience and if it is not convenient to have you around with them anymore, there is just a lot of screwed up ways that people try to get you off their lives that is even too screwed up for me to do. I hope this helps.

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