Am I in love with a stripper? *Warning: Graphic Descriptions and Language*

[CaliParticipant 753]

I’m glad you came here, dude. Thanks for reading my post, and although I know I’m in the minority here, I would personally leave the sex alone for now. I know that some people can control their sex drive by feeding it, but just remember: if you feed it too much, it will control you.

It’s your choice, man. Go Your Own Way, but remember that condoms have between 2% and 15% failure rate. If I gave you 100 grapes and said only two were poisoned, would you eat them? What if you were REALLY hungry?

The question you need to ask yourself is whether or not it’s worth the risk.

Peace, bro. May God give you wisdom and self-control to do what is right.

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[experiencedParticipant]

Finding a wholesome stripper is like finding nutritious meth.

Stripping is sex for money.
Sex for money is whore.
“There’s a saying, an old saying” “Blacker than a whore’s heart.”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

experienced wrote:

Finding a wholesome stripper is like finding nutritious meth.

Stripping is sex for money.
Sex for money is whore.
“There’s a saying, an old saying” “Blacker than a whore’s heart.”

I don’t know of any strippers who aren’t whores on the side.
these things go together
they start stripping, but then men start offering serious money to f~~~ them – and they go off the deep end.
the leap from being a stripper to being a pro is a very short one.
all of them are attention whores, sluts, and they love money, so stripping and whoring comes natural

my ex wife was(/is?) friends with several strippers/whores. one of them was married, she stripped at a club, and my ex told me she started sleeping with patrons as soon as they started offering thousands of dollars – she was bragging to her some patron paid her 3000 to sleep with her. naturally, she agreed

imagine spending 3 large on some russian pussy. could you handle it? f~~~ that s~~~, manginas are crazy

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[GrumpyParticipant]

Regardless if she is a pro, an amateur, a stripper, a hooker, or a wife. A man is always expected to pay to play, before and after.
Love is a phallacy ( spelling intentional).

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I have to give credit when the credit is due, though
No regular chick can dance like a stripper, so she provides you with a unique experience nobody else can provide. Thanks God for the strippers

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 11]

@007:

Color me impressed on writing that out. It was not intended as punishment but to reinforce that point inside your brain.

Going MGTOW is tough and full of challenges left and right. I’ve been on this road for a little over 4 years now. I have been a member of this site for just over a year. I have been and will continue to fight for my sovereignty, We all support each other.

Feel no shame ever. These hormones we have are incredibly powerful. Strippers are quite good at vacuuming money from us. Personally, I think smoking crack offers better value for your money.

Now, for a little story to make you feel better. 25 odd years ago I would occasionally visit strip clubs. The strippers really hated me as I would never spend more than $10. A stripper will treat you like a leper when she realizes she has no power over you.

There was this one trust fund baby who hung out there. He would drop $500 to $1000 a night. The strippers would swarm him like flies on s~~~. He never seemed to realize he was being played.

[Anonymous 42]

Russky wrote:

imagine spending 3 large on some russian pussy. could you handle it? f~~~ that s~~~, manginas are crazy

Good morning C-Pig, Russky, Blue-pb,,,
3 grand, that’s it? Then it’s all over? F~~~ yea, I’ll take the deal! Ask H.R.-Puff, he dropped 3 g’s times one hundred! $300,000 clams on a clam! Always remember, after you get laid, you get f~~~ed! N.G.L. (nature’s general laws) Chapter 2, section 3, a.: after you get laid, you get f~~~ed

[SpacemonkeyParticipant 1481]

Anonymous wrote:

3 grand, that’s it? Then it’s all over? F~~~ yea, I’ll take the deal!

You’d pay 3 large for a one time f~~~? No way is a pussy worth that much. You could fly somewhere exotic and f~~~ yourself stupid for a week and it would still not cost you that much. I could go to my local brothel and f~~~ every girl in the place twice over for that much, seriously, 3000 USD would by you 55 f~~~s here in Spain.

“Long is the way and hard, that out of Hell leads up to light.”

[narwhalParticipant]

MGTOW is about accept the reality of a situation, and then making the decision that works for you. If you’re fine with paying a stripper $250 per half hour to rub all over you and pretend she likes you, then that’s your call. Just don’t lie to yourself and think it’s anything other then that.

She may even being telling you the truth with what she said and actually like you, but she never said she was going to stop stripping for you, or that she doesn’t say the same to other guys she like dancing for (whether it be money or she get’s off on it). Maybe go there and just watch her work. See if she even remembers your name. Talk to her and don’t pay her, see how her behavior changes. Get a dance from a different girl, and see if it bothers her, or if this new girl gives you the same feelings.

I wouldn’t say you’re feelings are wrong, and that you shouldn’t enjoy the touch of a beautiful woman, just don’t pretend it’s something that it isn’t. Can you picture what she’s like outside of the club, when sex isn’t involved? Can you take her to visit mom and dad? Hang out with your friends?

I’ll go visit a strip club a few times a year. I go in with a dollar limit I’m willing to spend and don’t go over that. I will not take a lap dance with a woman who isn’t really turning me on. That means she has to have big t~~~ (few exceptions). I’ll watch her dance on stage first to see how she moves and if she’s willing to make a lot of body contact. I want to get the most for my money. A woman may sit down next to you without asking, talk to you a bit, then ask for a dance, so you’ll feel guilty for telling her no. Just tell her you aren’t interested the moment she sits down. There is one stripper who recognizes me every time and is pretty good with conversation. She tells me I smell good and I sexy and all that. Maybe she feels that way, maybe not. Doesn’t even matter. She’s not getting all my money, and she’s definitely going to work other customers. I’ll even suggest she leave when I know I don’t want a dance for awhile, or ask her which strippers are good. Heck, I don’t even know her name, doubt she knows mine.

And sure, it isn’t for everyone. Others would rather get an escort, just pick up women at bars, or do nothing with them whatsoever. I don’t feel comfortable with a prostitute, and I don’t want to put forth the effort to develop skills and such to meet women elsewhere. Find what you like and what you want to spend your money on, just don’t pretend you’re getting something that you’re not.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 1]

Sorry, couldn’t help it

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10907]

Brother, you aren’t the first person to get hustled and feel like this. You haven’t done anything wrong. Well, the $250 thing is debatable but it’s your money and your choice. She played you and I can’t post anything different than what has already been posted. At least you have this forum to help give you a better perspective. In my younger years I got played like this at a strip club. I thought I was going to be Captain-Save-A-Ho and show this woman what a good man can do for her. After a week and a half of going back every night I realized that I wasn’t going to f~~~ her, I wasn’t going to see her outside the club and I wasn’t going to get her number.
I learned an expensive lesson.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

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