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Hey guys,
Synopsis: I went to a strip club for the first time last weekend and it messed with my head. Now I feel empty, confused, and am considering regurgitating my red pill.
I’ve been mgtow for the past 6 months and was kicking ass up until last weekend.
My best friend and I went to a strip club last Saturday. He had gone to a risqué club in Amsterdam last summer and suggested that I attend a strip club in his city. I complied. We went to his shared, on-campus house and drank alcohol before going. I consumed way too much, to fast, but I’ll get to that later.
We took a bus at 1:00am to a strip club a few miles away. My jaw dropped when we walked in. There were half naked 9’s and 10’s all over the place and a brunette was openly exposing her bright pink, shaved vagina on stage. We sat down and ordered some drinks. The women there immediately threw themselves at us. I met a several gorgeous strippers, but I wont forget the last one. I went to the back room with a stunning 5”11 blond who had double d t~~~. She grinded all over me and let me touch her all over. She stroked my crotch through my pants and licked/bit my neck. This all lasted at least half an hour. I just couldn’t believe how awesome, unprofessional, and brutally honest she was. We also had surprisingly rich discussions during this encounter. I ended up dropping about $250 on this woman. She then told me she liked me, gave me her number and asked to hang out later. She then kissed me on the cheek. I figured that she wanted more of my money for additional dances or prostitution. It was tempting, but I felt awful from drinking to fast, my paper cash was drained, and I didn’t drive my car or have a convenient place close enough to crash. I said I’d come back next weekend and hugged her goodbye. My bro and I walked back to his house.
It is now Tuesday and I feel really confused and depressed about this ordeal. I dropped so much cash on this chick, but didn’t go all the way. It is not the money that is bothering me, it’s my blue b~~~~. It is f~~~ing with me because I’m a 22 year old virgin. I had a brief, awkward sexual encounter when I was 12, but I don’t even count that as lost virginity. I’ve had dozens of opportunities to have sex, and stupidly blew every single damn chance. I’ve never had a physical connection with a woman like this before. The session I had with her was so intimately emotional and new. I want more with her. This is the closest that I’ve ever gotten to sex and screwed up once again. It is one of the greatest disappointments so far in my life…but maybe blue b~~~~ naturally accompany the strip club scene.
Maybe a goal of strip clubs is to get you addicted to particular women so you’ll fork over your money every weekend. I think this is true because I want to go back and see that stripper even though she is likely just leading me on. It is stupid, I know.
One of the reasons I turned mgtow was because I was tired of chasing pussy. I wanted to just eliminate all sexuality in my life, and focus on my ambitions and financial success. I made this choice without knowing how great sex could potentially be.
On Sunday I pulled out my new years goal list for 2016. I have already accomplished every goal I set out: Fire a gun, buy a gun, become office manager at my company, and get my own apartment. I’m now considering adding “Lose virginity” or “finally get laid” to the mix, which would involve having to get emotionally close to a woman. That is a scary prospect, because I know how manipulative women are. Plus, I’ll likely end up spending lots of valuable time and money before I actually get lucky. Accomplishing goals aint easy.
I can’t even fully grasp or explain how discontent I am right now or what I’m experiencing exactly. I haven’t felt this bad in several years. This strip club experience is forcing me to self-reflect and I’m having a tough time with it. Am I in love with a stripper? What the hell is happening to me? I know I sound like a whiny little bitch right now, but can you guys please offer some insight and/or advice? I would greatly appreciate it. If you help me straighten this out, I’ll shut the hell up.
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Anonymous7Get the f~~~ out of there and never look back. What’s done is done. Shes a whore for f~~~s sake. STD’s, false rape, maternity fraud, STD’s, STD’s, child support.
Pussy is just pussy. They p~~~ blood from it once a month.
Stay away from that woman!
"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."
You aren’t in love with the stripper, or maybe you are. At this point in your experience any girl who makes your dick hard is going to provoke emotions.
If you want to cut through all the BS and you’re close to A-Dam stop messing with strippers and just go pay a ten to blow your load.
Understand that I’m not condemning you, but you don’t sound red pill at all. You sound like you WANT to be red pill because you’re aware of the damage to your life that a woman will likely do, but you can’t resist what your nature is telling you to do.
On the positive side, you know that the entire purpose of the club is to get your money liberated from your pocket… and you acknowledged that this particular girl was probably just using you for the cash flow.
She is your Kryptonite, and now that that part of you has awakened any girl may be. Do whatever you need to do to make sure that any encounter you have is under the control of your big head, and for the sake of all that is good in the World do not get anybody pregnant or make any commitments. Fap, reflect, challenge yourself again, and repeat. 250 dollars is chump change in the long run, but you definitely don’t want to become an ATM.
Everybody is a virgin precisely once. That status is insignificant in the scope of the 70-100 years you have here on the planet. Pay a pro (once) and that part of your life is over, with potentially the best and most accommodating woman you’ll ever have. All other just don’t acknowledge the nature of the exchange.
Your resolve, like a muscle in weight training, will either fail or get stronger.
You are at a juncture, it’s your call.
I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.
No, you are not in love. It is infatuation, nothing more, and it will wear off in a short time. It does sound like she was good at her job, but don’t think you are the only one she does the job for. To her, you are just another customer.
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lol hilarious!
Bro she loves your 250.00 and you’ve got to nut. If you dropped .25 cents on her and she was still that interested in you that’s a whole ‘nother matter. Bitch is going back home to her boyfriend to get her ass smacked and get his D after taking home your cash.
…are you for real Brother?…anything less than a Lady is a waste of time! Funny how men just fall for this type of s~~~…where is your integrity and dignity, if you have it that bad then get her making money for you and leave it at that…if not….forget the bitch!!!…GOT IT BROTHER?!
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I understand where you’re at my friend. There’s a really cool course/book out there about “stripper game” if your interested in picking them up.
The gist is to convince them that you’re not customer material, but have other possibilities. In this case you already blew it by giving her any money at all.
The one thing Ive found the strip club is good for, if it’s a clean one, is getting the scent of multiple women all over you. That’s one of the most powerful attractants to women – the scent of other women on a man.
A couple things to keep in mind: First, the girls aren’t paid by the club to be there. THEY PAY to be there. Typically it’s about $100 – $130 for the night, depending on what time they show up. The only cash they make is what they get from lap dances or the dollar bills they get on stage.
In many cases they can actually walk away with LESS money than they came in with for the night, so just keep that in mind.
Second, treat a whore like a lady and treat a lady like a whore. If you want to get laid that is.
That said, in your situation, no matter how you cut it it’s going to raise some pretty powerful emotional/sex feelings when that much high-end pussy is walking around right in front of you, making it available.
$250 is a lot to not get laid. I actually spend a fair amount of time in strip clubs and I rarely fail to get out the door without at least 2-3 phone numbers. It’s not hard if they smell money and you play it cool.
The thing to remember is that no matter how you slice it, they are whores. They wouldn’t be there tripping if there weren’t money involved. The thing is, some of them are women just trying to pay the rent while they go through school etc, and they really don’t want to think of themselves as whores. Play to that. That’s where the treat a “whore like a lady” thing comes in. Cater to their “professionalism” and you’re in like flynn.
The real question you have to ask yourself is, do you want your first time to be with a whore? I’m not judging, and wouldn’t find fault if you did want that, but it’s something you need to consider.
I’m kind of rambling so I’ll stop here. Let me know if I can answer any questions though – among my friends they call me “The Stripper Whisperer” so you know, whatever I can help with.
"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,
It’s cool to have feelings for her. Stirring up those feelings is her job and why a guy will pay her 250.00 for nothing but her time.
If she gave you her real number she may have been signaling that she would be open to working with you as an escort.
It may be better to do it with someone you know at least a little bit and you know you like them since it’s your first time.
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Dude. You’re in a rough spot.
Let me get this straight, though: You had pretty much successfully eliminated sexual discontent from your life, but you let your friend talk you into going to… A STRIP CLUB?!?!?
I’m sorry, but in regards to your current mental state, I have no sympathy. We as straight men tend to have a MASSIVE sex drive, and the whole point of being a MGTOW is thinking with the big head and keeping our cool. Some people have the self control to go to strip clubs regularly without getting twitterpated, but I would say you do NOT.
You, for some reason, went to this place which is SPECIFICALLY DESIGNED TO TRIGGER AN OVERRIDE OF YOUR BIG HEAD. The whole point of a strip club is to get hot women to manipulate you into giving up your money. Any other view of it is your little head lying to you.
So, you go to the strip club, and a girl goes after you. You drop your cash, and she hints that sex may be involved if you continue on with her (classic move).
LISTEN CAREFULLY: This is the important part. I don’t care if you read the rest of this post. YOUR SEX DRIVE IS TELLING YOU THAT THIS GIRL IS SOMETHING SPECIAL. SHE ISN’T. SHE IS MANIPULATING YOU AND SHE HIT THE RIGHT BUTTONS TO TURN YOU ON. I promise you that if you get involved with her, you will only become more interested in sex, which may be perfectly “natural”, but will exponentially increase your risk of either giving up the red pill or being screwed over by a visual prostitute.
You have already reawakened your sex drive, and the only way to put it back to sleep is to starve it. You will waste time and money on this; I can tell from the way you posted that this girl will be able to wrap you around her little finger if you continue. You are in the danger zone. Bail.Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...
Do the math man. You paid her $250 for 30 minutes of her time. That’s $500 per hour. For a 2,000 hour work year, it’s the equivalent of a $1 million a year job. I’m sure she’s really good at stirring up your emotions for $1 million a year……………… That truly is a golden vagina!!
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Strippers are BAD, M’kay.
When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan
You have already reawakened your sex drive, and the only way to put it back to sleep is to starve it.
I find if I feed mine it gets lulled to sleep. For me, one of the major benefits of MGTOW is to be able to consciously indulge it, but not let it control/ruin your life.
If you choose to starve it, that’s your flavor of MGTOW and I totally respect that. I’m just thinking our friend here might not be wanting that path, at least at this stage of life, like many of us.
"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,
You have already reawakened your sex drive, and the only way to put it back to sleep is to starve it.
I find if I feed mine it gets lulled to sleep. For me, one of the major benefits of MGTOW is to be able to consciously indulge it, but not let it control/ruin your life.
If you choose to starve it, that’s your flavor of MGTOW and I totally respect that. I’m just thinking our friend here might not be wanting that path, at least at this stage of life, like many of us.
THIS! I’m 22 freaking years old man. Women flirt with me every day and it feels counterproductive to remain an urban monk. I’m smart enough to never marry a woman or even get in a serious relationship. Basically what I was saying in my post is that I want to know what it is like to have sex with an attractive female. I think that resisting or “starving” that temptation is what is messing with my head.It is normal to want to bang hot broads. The stripper seems like a better deal in some ways than getting a girlfriend. It would likely be a one night stand and I wouldn’t have to put up with her s~~~ like with normal relationships. Sure, it would be expensive, but so are relationships. STD’s might be an issue, but I would use protection. I’m just weary that she was leading me on and there is no possibility of sex at all.
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Avoid it bro. Complete waste of time. I’ve lived with strippers, dated, and been ‘friends’ with more than a few. They are always on the take and most have pretty much zero morals toward men, especially this day and age. It almost always changes them, even if they were actually just stripping while trying to pay for school, they usually change and I’ll be damned if they don’t change in some terrible ways. My most recent ex used to work at a strip club but never actually stripped (believe it or not she never did EDIT: she was a ‘drink server’ and they did try to get her to move up to strip) and even she was a selfish piece of s~~~ who was always on the take.
Don’t start up a fake relationship with a stripper. They will give a fake GF experience and milk your wallet. One of my old stripper friends had her “boyfriends” that would pay her several hundred dollars just to hang out for a couple hours and get no action! One of my stripper friends even offered to take me shopping for things for ME and put it on one of her sucker client’s credit cards. I’m not saying that you’re dumb enough to get taken to the cleaners like that but in all honesty the way you’re talking sounds like you could. No offense brotha. We are men, it’s easy to get taken by a chick that does stuff like that if you’ve never had it before. Take their manipulative prowess and add pure greed to it and you have all you need to know to stay clear away.
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She marked you as a target as soon as you walked in the door and started drooling, hell, they ALL marked you as a target! One thing I learned in my younger days is if you go in there looking like a toddler in a tit buffet all the strippers will pick up on it. If you really want to mess with them just stare them in the eyes and not look at their t~~~ and snatch, it screws with their heads. I had one stop in mid routine, she sat down beside me and we had a decent conversation. Any chick that has worked there at least one night can instantly and accurately judge what type of guy you are. The best bet is to just STAY AWAY from any strip joint, your just a walking ATM machine going to those places.
Avoid it bro. Complete waste of time. I’ve lived with strippers, dated, and been ‘friends’ with more than a few. They are always on the take and most have pretty much zero morals toward men, especially this day and age. It almost always changes them, even if they were actually just stripping while trying to pay for school, they usually change and I’ll be damned if they don’t change in some terrible ways. My most recent ex used to work at a strip club but never actually stripped (believe it or not she never did EDIT: she was a ‘drink server’ and they did try to get her to move up to strip) and even she was a selfish piece of s~~~ who was always on the take.
Don’t start up a fake relationship with a stripper. They will give a fake GF experience and milk your wallet. One of my old stripper friends had her “boyfriends” that would pay her several hundred dollars just to hang out for a couple hours and get no action! One of my stripper friends even offered to take me shopping for things for ME and put it on one of her sucker client’s credit cards. I’m not saying that you’re dumb enough to get taken to the cleaners like that but in all honesty the way you’re talking sounds like you could. No offense brotha. We are men, it’s easy to get taken by a chick that does stuff like that if you’ve never had it before. Take their manipulative prowess and add pure greed to it and you have all you need to know to stay clear away.
She marked you as a target as soon as you walked in the door and started drooling, hell, they ALL marked you as a target! One thing I learned in my younger days is if you go in there looking like a toddler in a tit buffet all the strippers will pick up on it. If you really want to mess with them just stare them in the eyes and not look at their t~~~ and snatch, it screws with their heads. I had one stop in mid routine, she sat down beside me and we had a decent conversation. Any chick that has worked there at least one night can instantly and accurately judge what type of guy you are. The best bet is to just STAY AWAY from any strip joint, your just a walking ATM machine going to those places.
Sigh…Yeah you guys have provided some very compelling arguments. From the sound of it, the chance of finding a wholesome stripper is about one in a million. I’m flabbergasted at how I’m still thinking with my dick even though all of you are feeding me straight logic. The same friend I talked about earlier invited me to a night club next weekend. I’m going to respectfully decline until I get my s~~~ together.
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Nope. You aren’t in love with her at all. She’s a whore, and nothing but. It’s her job to make you feel like she thinks you’re special, and its guaranteed that she’s doing that to as many guys as she can. That part were you thought she was being down to earth and unprofessional? HA. She’s real good at her job. She was actually being professional. A professional ACTOR.
are you a chia pet in man drag Dude. You’re in a rough spot.
Let me get this straight, though: You had pretty much successfully eliminated sexual discontent from your life, but you let your friend talk you into going to… A STRIP CLUB?!?!?
I’m sorry, but in regards to your current mental state, I have no sympathy. We as straight men tend to have a MASSIVE sex drive, and the whole point of being a MGTOW is thinking with the big head and keeping our cool. Some people have the self control to go to strip clubs regularly without getting twitterpated, but I would say you do NOT.
You, for some reason, went to this place which is SPECIFICALLY DESIGNED TO TRIGGER AN OVERRIDE OF YOUR BIG HEAD. The whole point of a strip club is to get hot women to manipulate you into giving up your money. Any other view of it is your little head lying to you.
So, you go to the strip club, and a girl goes after you. You drop your cash, and she hints that sex may be involved if you continue on with her (classic move).
LISTEN CAREFULLY: This is the important part. I don’t care if you read the rest of this post. YOUR SEX DRIVE IS TELLING YOU THAT THIS GIRL IS SOMETHING SPECIAL. SHE ISN’T. SHE IS MANIPULATING YOU AND SHE HIT THE RIGHT BUTTONS TO TURN YOU ON. I promise you that if you get involved with her, you will only become more interested in sex, which may be perfectly “natural”, but will exponentially increase your risk of either giving up the red pill or being screwed over by a visual prostitute.
You have already reawakened your sex drive, and the only way to put it back to sleep is to starve it. You will waste time and money on this; I can tell from the way you posted that this girl will be able to wrap you around her little finger if you continue. You are in the danger zone. Bail.I went to the strip club to mark it off my bucket list. I was always curious what it would be like. I couldn’t have anticipated that it would catastrophically affect my mental state. You are right. She manipulated and still continues to manipulate me several days later. My lack of experience and high testosterone levels make me prone to her manipulation. I am thinking with my dick. Her hint of sex is just a shy prospect of gold at the end of the rainbow…a myth, a fairytale. I’m still hesitant about letting my sex drive go dormaint. I don’t even know if it is possible or even productive for me at this point in my life. Shouldn’t it be okay to want to chase pussy at my age?
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